Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

we are getting divorced

2007-12-03 16:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what your charactristic and personality do you prefer to be with in relationship?

2007-12-03 16:29:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 16:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by IcyJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I badly worded my previous Question, I'll try this a second time.

My Mom and I usually lock ourselves in a power struggle several times a week. Here's how it works.

My mom expects me to do a lot of things on a daily basis while she's at work. Too many things for me to keep up with before she gets home...
Then she argues at me for not getting anything done and why I didn't do what I was supposed to do. She just asks me too many things, sometimes I forget, usually I write it down but I don't get to it in time, then Mom comes home and argues. When I argue back at her to tell her that I did as much as I could, also asking her "What about everything else I did?"... I don't get a thank you, I just get an argument saying, "Do better next time."

If I argue against that, she starts using ultimatums, also using work as an excuse... Then if I argue about that, it just goes on and on..

2007-12-03 16:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-03 16:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

shes my best friend, she wsa just in an almost 2 year relatioship that ended unexpectadly. shes had a lot to overcome in her life, such has being abused by her dad, and many other things. shes been drinking and has tryed to kill herself before, she says she wants to kill herself because she can't handle the pain anymore. i don't know what else i can tell her, i need advice

2007-12-03 16:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by helpless 1 in Friends

almost four month ago i ask question about my exfrience that was cheating on me...well now i need help my ex after almost four month without talking came to me today ask me for forgiveness ,,and he want me back cause he cant be without or see himself with anyone else but me....to tell u the truth i was so happy to hear that...cause before i move out i told him he will one day want me back and he will be begging for me to come back..and right now thats what his doing ...yes i still love him but i cant go back ,,,cause what he did to me is still hurting ,,i did forgive him but i will never forget....now he want to take me out to dinner so we can talk more...and he told me he will not give up till he gets me back..........please help?

2007-12-03 16:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by ro 2 in Singles & Dating

Before we married my husband and i agreed we would have a family. now he says no way, not ever. I am almost 30 and want to start having kids. I do love him, but having children is important to me! I can not have an "accident" since we would need help to get pregnant from a medical professional. I have tried to ask him why he changed his mind, but never get a straight answer? Why do you think this is and what should i do?

2007-12-03 16:19:22 · 11 answers · asked by cuteandsassy78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but want to get thru this. I know marriage isn't all about sex, but it does help. I have a friendship with a co-worker (platonic), although probably too emotionally invested. He has made it clear he would be a friend with benefits, but he is not pushing. Would I be totally immoral to do this? I would never let my husband know or leave him (unfortunately his prognosis is not good, but he is up and down-cancer), but this is so hard.

2007-12-03 16:17:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just call my stepdad Mitch, 'cause we were kinda like best friends when I was 10 (when he met my mom). Night he died, I asked him if I could call him "dad." He said he had been waiting for me to ask that, but he was afraid he might take my biological dad's place. I was like, "C'mon! I never grew up with him! He left us, and you have that right!" He died unexpectedly--ulcer! I regret never having been able to call him dad--just Mitch.........

2007-12-03 16:16:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and seem settled. I know for a fact that one of them is and has been very unhappy and feels that their life was wasted by staying in the marriage all of this time. I personally have no relationship to speak of with one of them. To this day I feel that I might be a better person if I had better role models as a child.

So just how important is it to stay together for the children?

2007-12-03 16:10:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are married, and let's say your husband's brother marries a woman, they are your brother and sister-in-law..but they are married to each other. Isn't that weird?

2007-12-03 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

During i pregnant, my hubby didn't accompany me. He can't give me what i want and i can't feel his love to me. He always sadden me and i really disappointed. I lost my confident on him. Now i hate him so much and i won't have sex with him anymore. Because the pain i felt during i delivered and many other bitter memory i experienced really make me dare to love him anymore. I afraid to be hurt again. My hubby and i do not live together. My baby and I stay at my mum home. My hubby stay in his rent room. I am still studying. His salary not much and insufficient for me and baby. Luckily my mum always support me and baby even though my mum has quit her job and help me take care of my baby to let me continue focus on my study.

2007-12-03 16:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by yoyo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My roommate is gay but he has a "girlfriend". They talk every night and it gets in the way of our relationship. I'd like to think of him as my friend, but this girl is always trashed and encourages him to be the same way. I don't care that my friend is gay, but this girl makes him drink a lot and says nasty things to me. I have only tried to help him and do not judge him. She is really bad and am I wrong for not liking her?

2007-12-03 15:54:32 · 19 answers · asked by Boomer 5 in Singles & Dating

well ive know this guy for two years now, and he always comes randomly in and out of my life. We had the same class in tenth grade and then i moved, but our families are in the same circle so we see each other from time to time. In tenth grade he was really flirty, came to my locker, talked to me constantly and his friends would always stare at me, and even ask about me to my friends. Then i moved and i thought it was over but i didnt care until i saw him at a function. He was so flirty but when i asked for his number he came up with an excuse- im a senior now and we talk four times every week- I cant get this guy our of my head- He is the only guy i ever liked, but i cant/dont want to be his girlfriend and i find myself most happy when we are just friends- but he is the hottest guy ive ever saw ( ideal for me)
he always tells me that he is hot though-
does he like me or ??? Help me out

2007-12-03 15:53:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im kind of ashamed to ask this but, i think i really need to get this out of my chest, yo see
i had a girlfriend and we lasted for almost 3 years, now its been 6 months since i last knew of her, and well, shes gone and i got over it ( i think ) the thing is that i cant find a girl to which i feel attracted, is this normal ? or whats happening

2007-12-03 15:52:07 · 16 answers · asked by Pradexis 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know when my brother gets married the woman he marries will become my sister-in-law. And when I marry my fiance his brothers will become my brother-in-laws. So, will my brother-in-laws wives become my sister-in-laws? Or will they just be my brother-in-law's wives and nothing more? Also, are there anythings like cousin-in-law and aunt-in-law? Or what about grandmother-in-law, etc. Trying to cover all my bases here, thanks! :)

2007-12-03 15:51:59 · 9 answers · asked by Daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guy friend that I really like but it seems like the relationship isn't going to happen from my perspective. He tends to flirt with me at times but never hints at wanting more although it does seem like it at times like when he touches my knee and invites me to go places with him and he steals my stuff and jokes around a lot. I really like him but I don't want to ruin the friendship by making things awkward if I confront him about it so I haven't made a move either. On the other hand I have another guy friend that does like me and wants to date me. He seems more like a friend to me though but I've been considering giving it a try with him. But then I think how I can't get the other guy out of my mind and I wonder if it would really work out. I want to give the guy friend that likes me a try but I just don't know if I should because there is always the chance my other guy friend does like me even though I think he doesn't at times. Help!

2007-12-03 15:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Confused heart 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband has convinced my son to move with hime to avoid paying child support. Should I have to pay child support if my son decides to leave on his own.

2007-12-03 15:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Ex-Spouse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 kids, one is 3 another is 9 months, we have been married for almost 6 years, and I want to know how much I can expect from their father once we are seperated. I live in portland, Oregon.

2007-12-03 15:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You feel your in a relationship just to take care of the kids and provide sevice. You are a safty net, a sure thing to stick around, don't have to worry about you straing of with another guy. How do you know if he loves you for you,and how you look after the kids, how can you tell.............

2007-12-03 15:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Excelsior34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never had a bf every guy is always like were just friends i hate that b/c my friend alex i like him more than that but i cant tell him that b/c my bf is going out with him and i dont even want to talk to her right now but it is not her fault b/c i waited and did not tell her i liked him ahhhh i just want have alex to hug the way she hugs him =[!

2007-12-03 15:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are high school sweethearts and have been through it all. Got married , went through a death, had two kids bought a house . I work lots, bad job, busy industry in our town. Didn't listen to her. She cheated on me with my friend and neighbour (same guy) said she found something I was not giving her. Told me the first night it happened and the did it 2 more times before his wife found out. Moved out of that house got a new one, fixed it up , which took time we were busy. Said I worked too much. She then said she needed closure from this and phoned him to confront him because he lied about everything when she told every body the truth . she then tells me that we are done she doen't love me there are no more butterflies for me just him. She says he has changed because he is out of his bad marrige. She says we are breaking up over our own issues of me not listening, name calling , not being there, working too much. I never got over the hurt the first time 2 yrs ago

2007-12-03 15:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by GP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And both are trying to get you to side with them simiulaneously ?

2007-12-03 15:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or do you keep it closed for fear of getting it broken?

2007-12-03 15:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ £ðx¥ Ðå痢 ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm afraid my ex-wife will try to leave the country with our 1 year old son to Colombia 1) Since my son was born in this country will he need a passport 2)Is there any way to find out if she has already applied for one? 3) How do I stop her from proceeding?

2007-12-03 15:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

something big please

2007-12-03 15:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the past 15 yrs, I have been asking my wife to go out dancing and drinking with me, like on dates of us alone and the kiddos at in laws house. I WANT TO TAKE MY WIFE OUT TO MANY MANY PLACES, but she refuses to go out with me anywhere, so because of this I am extremely bored with her. She is so afraid of trying out new things and new experiences in life, when I am so open minded to just about anything there is in life in general. She does not like me for who I am. Just because I like to drink a little and have fun going out to some dance club.

2007-12-03 15:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

pour on the stories.

2007-12-03 15:19:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My younger sister ( who's 18 ) is getting married and she asked me to explain to her how someone knows when they are truly with the one. I'm married and should be able to tell her this, but I was never really good at explaining things. Any advice??

2007-12-03 15:19:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce