Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

My husband cares more for his sis,bro,mom than me [ whom he knows for 15 yrs].How do i know? from his actions:Eg: talks to them first thing in morning & last thing before he goes to bed so he will have a good day & great sleep!100% he does not feel for my feelings when i expressed that i am not his priority.he feels guilty if he goes for a vacation/movie with me without his family so he does not take me anywhere.all the pictures will have his sad face.if he does not talk to his family a day he will have bad mood.so all his actions show that he cares for them more.his sis kid is same age as ours i am worried that he shares all the good stuff of mour kid with her.[ his sister ignores me and does not talk to me infact did not even call me when i had baby and did not even inform me when she was pregnant]but just told my husband.his mom & sis asked him not ot tell abt her pregnancy to me and he did as they said.this what makes me think that he will do anything what they say.
i cant sleep!

2007-12-03 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by need some decision 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 19:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Praful P 1 in Family

My husband has him own constuction company and he has to work out of town Monday thru Saturday because, here work is slow right now.We have a 2 month old baby and a 3year old that I am a full time mother to.I love my husband very much and I miss him from the minute he leaves until he walks in the door.When he is home I want to spend as much time with him as possible but, he useally makes other plans to go everywhere else and have everyone over.When I tell him he needs to spend this little bit of time with us, he gets mad about it and will really ignor me.I have to make a big deal out of nothing for him to really pay attintion to me.Sometimes I need that little bit of reasureance on how much he loves me.I don't ask for him to be all over me, just the weekend with us and the babies, a little family time. How would you handle it? Do you think I'm being selfish?How should I handle this when it happens?

2007-12-03 19:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should you start to say hello?? I see the same guy every day he gets the same 2 trains as me to and from the same places (he lives same town as me and works same town as me, which is quite bizarre as i travel a distance!). We nearly always sit opposite each other. And he is kind of hot! I look forward to seeing him, brightens up my day. Do i say hello one morning and risk total embarassment?

2007-12-03 19:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my Father.
Ever since I can remember he's been very manipulating and when he doesn't get his own way becomes abusive emotionally either directly and/or indirectly.
Throughout the yrs. I've TRIED to make this relationship work/it's just way too long of a story to post here.

Ultimately he seems to put a price on his relationships w/his daughters [me inc.] and I'm sick and damn tired of it because this is NOT what life is supposed to be about.
Now he's all mad because he realizes that he has no power over me concerning money anymore [he was always dangling carrots in my face and constantly speaking of his will]
I told him all I wanted was "TIME" [to spend w/him]
However it has always been us going to visit him, then he never keeps his word about visiting me,unless of course I were in the hospital [when I had surgery]

He's mad at me because of this he says he's not giving out Christmas gifts this year. FINE WITH ME!
HOWEVER he'sTAKING IT OUT ON MY SISTERS TOO!
not good!

2007-12-03 19:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by Shuggah Pie Sweets 3 in Family

Is it bad to have sex on the first day of your period?

I know it sounds nasty but me and my boyfriend love eachother and are really close so it doesn't bother us but is it bad to do it at all??? and could you get pregnant?

2007-12-03 19:12:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But how do I know if its too much fighting and we just arent going to get along. I love this girl with all my heart but I just get so frustrated with her sometimes. She doesnt listen to me and because of that I feel like we have the SAME arguments OVER AND OVER and I hate it. . I do not want to end something that is normal if the next relationship is gonna be the same way then ending this one would be pointless. please help. My main question is how can I tell if its TOO much fighting or if I am just in a normal relationship and if this is how its supposed to be

2007-12-03 19:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 4 in Singles & Dating

6 months ago. He is paying child support and I am working 3 jobs to get by. The other day he told me I must be doing well for myself since I am working 3 jobs. He never asks if the kids or I need anything. He is still in their lives and sleeps over my house (in a separate room) on weekends. He keeps saying he wants to get back together, but not once has he asked how I am doing. All of a sudden he is spending alot of time with his mother who was never there for him while he was growing up. He has a big family and is always there for them whether it be doing things for them or listening and he is never there for me and not there for the kids like he is for his other family members. Would you forgive him for leaving? I don't know if I can. I want to do what's best for the kids, not me. Yes, I know this is Yahoo, just curious what others think. Friends and family tell me to leave him for good.

2007-12-03 19:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by mishka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he stole his friends ipod at a party and people knew he did it, but lied rite to the face of the guy who he stole it from. didnt flinch or anything, and even continued being friends with him after, spent thanksgiving at his house and everything

2007-12-03 19:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and well 19 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend. I have been living with him & his family for 1 year now & everything seems fine. Well he wants to get married in July and we have discussed it a number of times but, i don't want to feel like I'm getting married only because were having a child together. I know my family will suggest i get married but i am in no hurry. i love my boyfriend and marriage won't be any different than life together now except a paper. Do you think because we live a married life already that i should have cold feet?

2007-12-03 18:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister called me anti social the other day, I asked what she meant exactly, like shy and withdrawn ?

She said that's a different thing, someone who is anti social is often the opposite and uses that to screw people over to get what they want, without any feeling of guilt or remorse.

I was like 'WHAT ? do you think I am antisocial ?'

'Maybe a little'.. she said, but I could tell she actually meant world war six.

So it got me thinking, maybe she is a little right there, but despite my deep love, respect and affection for humanity can I still be called anti social ?

I don't lie nor tell the truth, I only keep the balance.
I might make you hurt but never make you cry
I might use a fool but never cruel
I might rob your car but never your home
I don't start fights but I will finish them
I help the weak come stronger
I help the peace last longer.

What I mean is I might look you in the eyes, screw you over and make you sad to get what I need, but I'm still sorry and I still love you.

2007-12-03 18:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by AxeThem 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-03 18:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by Why_so_serious? 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 18:40:04 · 16 answers · asked by mx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If there was one single thing that aroused you, what would it be? And what one thing would be a complete turn-off?

2007-12-03 18:35:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

friends tell me pls- i really wanna know your ideas for an assignment

2007-12-03 18:32:16 · 20 answers · asked by ♥SMARNY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

dark blue/brown eyes
long chesnut hair
straight teeth
5'3''
bigish boobs
nice sized butt
skinny
tan

by this description do you think that i'm...
hot?
pretty?
beautiful?
sexy?
fine?

2007-12-03 18:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why we love to a our partner more before marriage and less after marriage ?

2007-12-03 18:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a huge problem right this very moment! Yesterday my girlfriend hit me, i dont mean just punch or slap but attacked me. She held me down and kicked me hit me scratched me. It has happend before but i hoped it would stop, i threatend her that i will hit her back if she doesnt stop.

So after it happend last night i couldnt stop thinking about it after she had gone to bed. Then i did something terrible! I went to confront her. I asked her if she can see the scar on my face and to apologise, she said that she cant see it and said "Those are just pimples" Geez i did something bad. I Grabbed her violently and gave her a hard shake that hurt her alot! And said: "You never hit me again!" She started to cry uncontrollably like i had punched her in the face or something although i didnt. She threw a plate at me, a cooldrink bottle hit me with a gholfclub and sprayed me with pepperspray. Smsed someone that i was abuse and hitting her and broke of our engagement, although she asked me to sleep next to her in bed?! i did,we sleep in the same bed every night. We've been together for 5years are engaged love each other to death, she was my first and only and i was hers! we've never made love to anyone else. We bought an expensive home together that we will not be able to affort if we split. This happend yesterday what do i do? She already said that we are over forever and regrets that she met me. I feel like an abuser! I feel really messed up and confused. What do i do??

2007-12-03 18:28:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been married for 10 years. In 2005 I was attacked at work. The guy worked there and he was arrested. After all the test and police and having to tell it over my husband seems different. When I bring it up he changes the subject. He doesn’t hold me on the couch. That was my favorite. He goes to sleep sometimes before I go to bed. Sex has been really scarce at best. I am okay. I have been to counseling. I am fine. We have had marriage counseling with no breakthrough. I have asked him but he doesn’t have an answer. He does call me more at home but the connection isn’t there. Is this common? How can I get him to love me like he used to?

2007-12-03 18:28:13 · 23 answers · asked by kewlkatty00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what if you just see people and thats it, not connect anything else, just , bam, there is a person. or am i wrong to assume that people when they meet others, automatically take into account there feelings and what they think

2007-12-03 18:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by jm 1 in Singles & Dating

If you and your wife have seperated for a month and there are no divorce papers and your wife has already moved in with new boyfriend. Is that considered cheating ?

2007-12-03 18:21:09 · 20 answers · asked by vmaxrubicon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he works at loser jobs that dont require skills.very poor and cant even pay rent most ofthe time and he is rude and is so nasty to look at but yet he thinks that he can pick him self up a women thats pretty and has money and a good income.. and when he is talk he goes WHAAAAATTTT! like a retard.. you just want to wind up and slap his nasty little head right off his shoulders.. so what do you think his chances of finding a hot wife and get a house where he is eatting and everything"besides MR noodle?

2007-12-03 18:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...so I just gave birth literally 4 weeks ago I was told by the dr. not to have sex for the next 6 weeks. problem is my husband is starting to feel neglected, even went so far as to say that men who are not married have the best sex and are so much better off than married men! then he went on to say that my ex boyfriend probably never had to deal with me not satisfying him (my exboyfriend).
Is this normal for husbands to feel neglected? Don't get me wrong, four days after delivering I went down on him, actually I've done that about 4 times since delivering.
So what the hell?! Are men that inconsiderate?
He's at a point where he saying he never wants to have sex with me b/c " i'm like most women who have babies; they stop having sex'
What do you suggest I do? It's not like I don't want to have sex, of course I do; I just can't!

2007-12-03 18:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyday, we encounter trouble-makers that go out of their way to make you feel bad. I do my best to avoid such people, but sometimes, I cannot control my frustrations and I make a snappy remark to put them in their place. How do you handle difficult people in your everyday life?

2007-12-03 18:15:54 · 12 answers · asked by rockcrazy 1 in Friends

we broke up 3yrs ago thinkin of gettin another guy to hook up with but they are all tellin me they cant marry me becos of my daugther but 3month ago my prophet told me to be greetin him cos we have stop talkin since,i need to settle down before it is late am 23 yrs

2007-12-03 18:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by beckymirie 1 in Weddings

Hi everyone, I am just wondering, my 24 year old sister is a pain in the ***. I know thats mean but she is going too far. She is the kind of person that thinks that everything you do is rude, even if it isnt!!! for example, i take an asprin with water standing up, its rude to her. I eat a fruit over the sink, its rude to her. I forgot to say your welcome by accident, she yells at me saying im rude. Worst is when i hit my foot when going upstairs, and it was a real loud thump lol. So I hit my foot really hard, and I yell S*** out loud because it was PAINFUL, then she storms out of her room screaming out loud that i need psychiatric therapy!?!? FOR WHAT!? I cant stand this anymore, everything i do and say is rude when it isnt and she tells me to always be nice yet she snaps for the smallest **** that nobody else would be pissed off about. WHAT DO I DO!?

2007-12-03 18:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who has been verry accurate in all his predictions

2007-12-03 18:09:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone give me some advice on what to do! Our son is now 53 days and he wont be able to meet his son until april 24 our son will be 6 and a half months!! I miss him so much and feel like im going crazy!!! I want him home so bad and just cry myself to sleep cause he is missing so much with our son Jayden so if you can help me please do so

2007-12-03 18:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jaclyn B 1 in Family

my best girlfriend always has excuses for not meeting me for coffee or dinner after she met this new guy 1 year ago, i really miss her but i don't know what to do? i have a boyfriend too for 3 years but i still want to see my friends

2007-12-03 18:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-03 18:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce