Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

I am in a healthy loving relationship and i am sure that this isn't going to be some kind of mistake, my boyfriend was going to wait but he couldnt and i said yes. We dont plan on getting married until i finish at least 2 years at skool and get some kind of degree. My mother is divorced and we live together with her recent boyfriend. We have a good relationship except when it come to discussing how i should live my life and so on. Shes not understanding to the fact that i will be turning 20 next month and i want to begin living my life the way i feel i should and can. We dont speak about my relationships with friends or my fiance. We've had a bad history when i was in my early teens i've left home because of terrible physical fights but after sometime we have moved on & nothing such has happened since. I just dont know how 2 tell her and its been stressing me for the last couple of days.. Should i tell her or should i let her be.. R there anywebsites that can help me cop with my issues

2007-12-03 20:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-03 20:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by al mat 1 in Singles & Dating

Know i lost 10 pounds and look gorgeous an i met him yesterday at a party and he wants to get back together,do you think I should take him back?

2007-12-03 20:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week, my child had a friend come to vist, and both parents came to pick him up.The husband was profusely complimenting us on our home (it's not flash - just a humble, but well-kept home), our kids and how presentable they always are, and their good behaviour.This was all very nice of course, but the compliments came at the expense of his wife. He even said things like that I have 4 kids and look how orderly everything is, she (his wife) has only 2 and can't keep up with things. I was so shocked and embarrassed that I really didn't know what to say.He wasn't drunk, and they didn't appear to have been fighting or anything before so I just don't understand it. I am married,so it's not as though the compliments were to flirt with a single mother or anything like that. I didn't know what to say but just changed the subject, but he mentioned it again, and his wife just said "Oh well we can't all be mrs perfect". I felt so uncomfortable. I cried when they left.How will I face her again?

2007-12-03 20:19:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 3 years and married for almost 2. We have had many ups and downs, but we always seem to work things out. I am finally getting tired of working things out. All the problems we have had have been due to his dishonesty. He lies about so many little things, that it makes me wonder if he'll lie to me about major things, hence I have no trust for him. I don't feel happy in this marriage because of the lack of trust. This is not what I have ever wanted in a relationship, but I feel trapped. I gave up an amazing career to move with him for his career, & have become a stay at home mom. I LOVE the child that we have created, she is wonderful and the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, but I feel like I do not love my husband anymore. I feel that I am falling out of love, because I am overwhelmed with hate toward him. I don't want him to kiss or touch me, & the sound of his voice just aggravates me, mainly because I feel as if everyword is a lie.

2007-12-03 20:19:35 · 24 answers · asked by Love to Answer 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends boy friend cracked onto me. he said it is because they have talked about having a threesome with me.. which i totally believe coz i no what she is like. just wondering would u do it if you were in my situation ? p.s she is not really the jelous type.

2007-12-03 20:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in lust with my partner for his sexy eyes.........whats your favorite part of your partner?

p.s I LOVE the whole of him now!!

2007-12-03 20:17:09 · 17 answers · asked by Hannah 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf told me that we have to start having sex and i said no for some reason......and then i asked him " how do u feel?" and he said there is a term called "blue balls"....and thats how i feel right now.....what does this term mean??...coz i'm not an English speaker...and he doesnt tell me...I think it should be something funny...plz tell me if u know what it means..thanx

2007-12-03 20:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

I like both, but I want to pick only one. Which one do you like more? Thanks!

2007-12-03 20:13:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i have been goin out with this guy billy for 2 weeks now and were not serious yet or anything we just like each other alot.but the problem is with his mom. She use to like me before i started dating her son, now she can't stand me. i do all i can to make her like me and she still doesn't like me. Now it's where i jsut don't even want to go to his house because of how she acts towards me i mean am i suppose to sit ther and let her be negative towards me or stay away? i don't know i jsut now that i am scared that his mom might be the end of us someday and that's not a good feeling to have after two weeks and it's not like that's what i want i want him i just don't know what to do?????

2007-12-03 20:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend wants to hold her, kiss and caress, but she said she may not care about sex much. but i always hope that she can be more horny, active and try new and exotic stuff... i love her the same even if she will always just be insipid, i just hope that she can have more fun... i understand that her dream can be quite different. so, how about yours?

2007-12-03 20:10:58 · 2 answers · asked by hwlwlf 2 in Singles & Dating

with a hard on...do u go for it and does it turn yah on or wud yah tell him to put it away before he gets hurt! lmao

2007-12-03 20:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can stop cryin...and i feel like dying and i feel really queezy.............is that normal? and he was my very first bf and first love. how can i make the cryin and heartache stop

2007-12-03 20:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by meh. 4 in Singles & Dating

Is becoming really annoying with what he calls his new found "gangsta" ways. He goes around sagging his pants listening to horrid rap music and always going on about his "homies in the streets" and it's really starting to make me question his sanity. So I got to thinking, for Christmas, do any of you think I should I help my dear eldest sister by getting her son institutionalized?

2007-12-03 20:03:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or is this just a saying I've always had in my mind ? The reason I am asking is because I say it very little to my boyfriend when I make mistakes because they are so not a big deal ... but him they're off the charts with you got to be joking reality situations. However he does things and says things and I know he is and he's showing me in the only what I think he knows.

2007-12-03 20:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by jdydewing 5 in Singles & Dating

This guy would ask me to come round to his a lot-we got on so well (knew each other for a year but not well) we didn't kiss or anything physical. He kept asking me am I single, and do I like anyone-but at the same time telling me he didn't like or want a relationship. We got on well & he then actually asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend & I said yes-we went out & he acted like the perfect guy, holding hands in public & cooking for me at his.

Well since then he hasn't really asked to meet up, but texts or talks on msn-so I asked him today what's going on

He said 'I know why ur confused & it's my fault. I really like you, & hanging out with u is great. It's just i've been so stressed lately & blazing (smoking things) a lot (which is true). I jus need 2 get uni out the way before I can make any commitments. Im sorry if I stressed ur feelings a bit.Speak soon xxxx

Is this an excuse or is he genuinely stressed out? he hasn't had a proper relationship befor

2007-12-03 19:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband goes working away I find it impossible to sleep no matter how tired I am - is this normal or is there something wrong with me?

2007-12-03 19:52:52 · 19 answers · asked by karla 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't had sex for about 2 yrs now...by choice! That was my first experience (2 yrs ago)...I was deeply in love with the guy. Didn't work out. Now I'm scared to have sex with anyone else. (i'm sure there is a bigger issue) But, how do I overcome this?

p.s: I had several opportunities to do it with good guys in these past 2 years.

2007-12-03 19:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I B....or is it just a phase?

2007-12-03 19:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Horny Secretary 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me how long did u take to get over a long term relationship.. lets say 4, 5 or 6 years together? does it hurt so bad? i need advice cos im still healing .. i think...

2007-12-03 19:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 19:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by Katej 1 in Singles & Dating

the dad of an eight year old girl that is a friend of mine wants to report me because he says I play with his daughter and I shouldnt the pastor of my church talked to me and told me that he wants to accuse me of sexual abuse and he wants to do it because he doesnt belong to our church and wants to hurt us I dont see the girl anymore because he doesnt let her go to church how much damage could he do?I talked to the mom and she is ok with everything but hes not and I understand and backed off.I care about this whole family and about him because when he used to belong to our church he used to help me alot he gave me a ride home one day when Imissed the bus and I lived an hour away.should I send a letter to him explaining everything?or tell him everything Im thankful for what he did for me and I admire him and like him as a friend and dont want any problems?or even apologize?please give me some advise thankyou.I have prayed and know god is with me I just need a different point of view.

2007-12-03 19:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Mr.romantic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf and i were going out for 11 months..we were fighting a bit at the end and she said she wanted to take a break..i said that's ok so we did. we are now backtogehter 1 month later..and she told me she had sex with another guy. i feel so upset by this because i didnt have sex with any other girls. what should i do? should i just get over it and know it was cos we were on break or should i be upset about this, i need advice. Just so you know we are both 18.

2007-12-03 19:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by OttawaOnt7 1 in Singles & Dating

I was contemplating if I should continue an intimate relationship with my daughters father when he comes to visit on the weekends.Thanks to you listeners out there I have decided that I am better than that and should wait for a real man to come along. So what I need from you guys, is words to give me confidence to stand up to him and say no (and actually stick with it), because like you have said in the past.I deserve better.
So bring on the words of wisdom

2007-12-03 19:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was contemplating if I should continue an intimate relationship with my daughters father when he comes to visit on the weekends.Thanks to you listeners out there I have decided that I am better than that and should wait for a real man to come along. So what I need from you guys, is words to give me confidence to stand up to him and say no (and actually stick with it), because like you have said in the past.I deserve better.
So bring on the words of wisdom

2007-12-03 19:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How does it work? What shall a girl do to the guy? i need explanations... please don't ask me to open websites...

2007-12-03 19:41:36 · 2 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Singles & Dating

Its been 7 months into my relationship and im anxious to go further? He says he needs more time which is understandable after only 7 months lol I guess i have never felt like this for anyone.

2007-12-03 19:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Allaboutlove07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my girlfriend of almost 2 years were highschool sweet hearts and now im a freshmen in college, shes still a senior in HS. Im going to a local college whos reputation isnt great, but not bad i wanted to live at home cheap. My girlfriend lives in an abusive household and is going to leave on her 18th birthday as her parents are more than happy to kick her out. My mother has offered to let me move in with her and live at home, and go to a better school at the same price im paying now. Also to let my girlfriend stay in another spare room we have. Me and my girlfriend have had trust issues in the past, but over the last six months we have mostly resolved all of them. Is this rushing to far into things im not to afraid of living together as it wed be almost treated as siblings in my moms eyes. I also almost am ok to help her get on her feet and suceed in life and for us to eventually break up than see her struggling in life to have 2 jobs and try to go to school.

2007-12-03 19:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by George 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times would a health 20 year old male have sex a week

2007-12-03 19:31:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me how long did u take to get over a long term relationship.. lets say 4, 5 or 6 years together? does it hurt so bad? i need advice cos im still healing .. i think...

2007-12-03 19:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Singles & Dating