Know i lost 10 pounds and look gorgeous an i met him yesterday at a party and he wants to get back together,do you think I should take him back?
2007-12-03 20:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you nuts?
2007-12-03 20:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Moral Kiosk 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, because he does not love you. If he did you never would have broken up in the first place. Also he is probably feeling full of himself because he was ABLE TO CONTROL YOU. You did what he said. You are fooling yourself if you think he will be satisfied with you now that you've lost 10 pounds. I bet in a short time he will want you to change something else: hair color, your clothes, your friends, your family, etc. Please trust me on this. You will find someone else, but not if you are still with him. Be brave.
P.S. Wonderful that you lost 10 pounds. Don't get too skinny though!!
2007-12-03 20:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alea S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i would say no because of the reason he broke up with you, but in a relationship physical appearance is one of the key aspects as both parnters need to physically attracted to each other as well as other aspects espically as he's a guy.
- but it depends on what the guy is like and how you guys were before you relationship ended. If you were happy and he treated you right maybe you could consider giving him a second change but don't take sh*t from him, if he ever does it again then say no and move on, you shouldn't feel you have to change just because he's unsatisfied, unless it's just advice, like when people tell others 2 stop smoking.
see how it goes
xxx
2007-12-03 20:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by meegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! If 10 pounds was all it took to get him back, take a 10 pound dumbbell and smack him upside the head!
Or better yet, just don't go out with him. You might get arrested for the dumbbell thing.
2007-12-03 20:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heck no. Let him suffer. He is probably kicking himself right now, thinking about how many other guys want you, when he had you, and was stupid enough to let go. Tell him to give you a call when he grows up!!
He is a jerk, or he wold not have broken up with you for such a foolish reason!!
2007-12-03 20:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** NO!!!!!!!!! thats his loss for makeing you feel like ****, i dont think any girl should be put down because weight, looks, style, personality or anything! you should move on and find someone that appreciates you for who you are! dont ever let a guy tell you your to fat because why care about being fat or looking gorgeous for other people you should do it for yourself! its like how society makes girls think 20 punds is sexy when thats just discusting.
2007-12-03 20:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by halomaster@sbcglobal.net 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, your ex boyfriend is an idiot. To dump you because your "fat" is pretty immature and idiotic.
Move on and find someone else better. If you take him back, you're going to lose respect for yourself.
2007-12-03 20:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
10 pounds cant make that big of a diff thats crazy tell him to F-word off and find a new hottie
2007-12-03 20:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by diannaleigh85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you guys on here were really nice---good job men! I totally agree with everyone else as far as your question goes NO way tell him to eat sh*t & die. The only prob is then he will stalk you cause you rejected his self centered a**. Find someone who will love reguardless of your weight.....He's a jerk!!!!!!
2007-12-04 04:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no dun take that creep back...what happens if u gain the 10 pounds back...he'll juss break up with u again...find sumone whos gonna like u for who u are...this guy is an a**...
2007-12-04 03:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. Definetly not. If he broke up with you for that reason in the first place.. it's just not a real relationship.
But us telling you what to do about it isn't gonna change your mind. Do what you feel is right .......
2007-12-05 12:07:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋