I have been dating my girlfriend of almost 2 years were highschool sweet hearts and now im a freshmen in college, shes still a senior in HS. Im going to a local college whos reputation isnt great, but not bad i wanted to live at home cheap. My girlfriend lives in an abusive household and is going to leave on her 18th birthday as her parents are more than happy to kick her out. My mother has offered to let me move in with her and live at home, and go to a better school at the same price im paying now. Also to let my girlfriend stay in another spare room we have. Me and my girlfriend have had trust issues in the past, but over the last six months we have mostly resolved all of them. Is this rushing to far into things im not to afraid of living together as it wed be almost treated as siblings in my moms eyes. I also almost am ok to help her get on her feet and suceed in life and for us to eventually break up than see her struggling in life to have 2 jobs and try to go to school.
2007-12-03 19:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After a certain reply i figured id clarify that this isnt about me trying to get sex out of it, after two years of being together we both are still virgins.
2007-12-03 20:06:10 · update #1
If it means more boning action...then do it
2007-12-03 20:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mark P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well given what you said. I think it is a good idea, knowing that she in a abusive household. Your giving her a better enviorment would be better for her in the long run. However, you have to take in consideration that you will find alot of things that you might not like or the other way around. People seem different living with you. So just look out for that. Relationship can be stronger or weaker when people move in together. Always be welling to change and adapt then you should be ok.
2007-12-03 19:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by cheng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is going from one bad situation to another potentially bad situation for her. Your girl friend should graduated from High School and then go either into JOB CORP and get job training and be on her own or go into the military and get job training.
If she moves in with you she is going from one dependency situation to another. With my two suggestions she will get good training in a job skill, live for free and be able to find herself as an adult. Couples should only move in together if they are at a pre-marriage stage. You are both not old enough and haven't lived enough to be at that stage yet.
Your mother is very kind to try to help her out. My suggestions though will help the girl in the long run. Good luck.
2007-12-03 19:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a seperate room makes the situation a lot better. You still each have your place to get away from each other. Your parents are supportive of it, which helps big time. She's getting out of a bad situation. All in all, it's a good situation. Plus, you have a prevew of how life together (alone) will be like.
2007-12-03 19:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell serious trouble--the female, that you are considering taking in, is a distressed damsel and in GRAVE need of an agency like Mercy Ministries! I CANNOT advise going ahead with this proposal.
2007-12-03 19:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by B. C. Schmerker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is very nice of you and your mom, but you have to think this through. moving in together is a huge commitment. maybe you could help her find a roommate instead?
2007-12-03 19:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Sounds like a sound plan for both of you.
2007-12-03 19:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. but you are going to be the one that survives your choice. well kid life and statistics are not on your side but you well try. a baby and child support await you kid. have fun with your choice
2007-12-03 19:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally your dicision
at the end u will b wasting your mind in choosing the best answer
so yn shaal i use my mind in answering u
2007-12-03 19:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by maina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think that is ver kind of you but advise her how is your moms attitude in private and everything will be ok good luck..
2007-12-03 19:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by bessos20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋