I haven't had sex for about 2 yrs now...by choice! That was my first experience (2 yrs ago)...I was deeply in love with the guy. Didn't work out. Now I'm scared to have sex with anyone else. (i'm sure there is a bigger issue) But, how do I overcome this?
p.s: I had several opportunities to do it with good guys in these past 2 years.
2007-12-03 19:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, if you are sure there are bigger issues, than what are they? That would be of great help to answer this...
2007-12-03 19:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the right guy comes along, you will feel that it is right. Take your time. There is no rush. You are not missing out on anything but heartaches when you give yourself too freely. I have waited several years. When the right one came along, I knew that I wanted it to happen.
Buy yourself a shower massager in the meantime!! lol
2007-12-03 19:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is just that.. you need to face your fears to get over them.. take the leap... invite your guy over and get naked, I'm sure after that he'll do the rest and all you have to do is concentrate on enjoying it rather then fearing it.. Sex is a good thing, it's healthy, it feels good and with the right guy can be mind blowing..
Don't let your fear get in the way of your happiness or your life...
2007-12-03 19:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel in love and feel hard, so just enjoy life and forget about the past sweetie. But wait for that right guy, dont rush anything, everything happens for a reason. So take ur time wait for the perfect guy and you'll feel like you nvr felt. :)
2007-12-03 19:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by corey b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given that you turn down couple of good guys mean your not ready yet. These things can take a while. i don't blame you because of your history. I think your looking for a guy that you can really trust and have alot of feeling before you can have sex. I don't think you found it just yet. Good luck. He would be a lucky guy.
2007-12-03 19:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by cheng 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what happened did the first guy force you?
If not then take your time and don't rush into anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Sex is a big deal, and if you feel that you can only share that with a very special chosen few (or maybe just your husband) then follow your heart.
You sound like a sweetheart, take care.
2007-12-03 19:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared of sex, maybe you should wait another 2 years.
2007-12-03 19:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just have a little drink and walah!!!! or have a special celebration an have a party to have it... it is normal to you and i understand it ok!!! just relax!!!
2007-12-03 20:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by stanley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... sooner or later you gotta have it... so, stop being scared and give it a try...
2007-12-03 19:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get down to boning
2007-12-03 20:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mark P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋