Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

should i blow the whistle on them? i have proof. i was going through my neighbors garbage ( i was looking for recyclables) and i found pictures and nasty notes!!! i was so embarassed for them i had to put them in my pocket to read in privacy. does our town need the town tramp to teach our children? i am having trouble sleeping because i want to do the right thing. that woman just makes me sick....a single woman dating a man with a girlfriend! if i should blow the whistle on them, how should i go about it? thanks.

2007-12-03 15:19:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 15:16:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-03 15:15:39 · 16 answers · asked by alexis21 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this before but only got 2 answers...
I know its kind of childish but my boyfriend promised that if I told him what I got him for christmas he would tell me what he got me. Well he promised so I believed him (we have been going out for a year and a half) and after I told him he said "Hahaha I lied" (it was over msn)
How would you feel?? I myself feel pretty upset about it, more so that he lied about promising...should I talk to him about it and tell him how that made me feel? Or just forget about it?

2007-12-03 15:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 15:15:22 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Singles & Dating

Before chinese wedding ceremony, bride have to send wedding cake to her relatives and friends. Should modern couple waive this chinese traditional custom ?

2007-12-03 15:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by Dr. 1 in Weddings

A little over a year ago I became quick friends with a girl at work, we just have lots in common - and after work we started going out for drinks with some other friends. Then we started hanging out just the two of us, watching TV, going to movies, things like that. In the 6 months we've been hanging out, nothing has ever happened.
Since we talk, she knows that I'm in 6 year relationship that has gone pretty bad and for about a month now she's been really different with me. It started when I found out that at work people were joking that we were secretly dating - everybody knows I live with my girlfriend and that we're hanging out a lot, but I told her it bothered me because my relationship does suck. Then she tells me in a joking way that maybe she's just waiting for me to end things with my girlfriend so we can date.
Is that the type of thing girls say to a guyfriend? I think there's always a bit of serious in every comment, but I don't know how girls work.

2007-12-03 15:13:17 · 16 answers · asked by J.Slope 5 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy and and he's always telling me he loves me and calling me the love of his life, but he never asks me on a date! and he gets jelous when other guys talk to me and when they're around me he picks fights with them and intimidates them to make them uncomfortable. i dont know whats up. the other day we had an argument about this and i wouldnt speak to him and he got down on his knees and begged for me to talk to him. help, what do you think? it's weird the more i push him away the more he wants me. girls are always after him and doing what he wants but i treat him bad and he's obsessed!

2007-12-03 15:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

you know what im talking about????

2007-12-03 15:02:50 · 20 answers · asked by merry man 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy for a long time, and I really don't think it's going to go anywhere unless I make the first move. Is it weird for me to ask him out...I've always been told "it's the guys job"...but that seems kind of stereotypical. So if I ask him out, how would I do it without like freaking him out? Please help!

2007-12-03 15:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by vballchick14 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 15:02:39 · 6 answers · asked by Alpha Mucho Macho 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 13 years old. Her dad lives in New Mexico. She is supposed to go to her dad's over Christmas Break. She is trying out for Volleyball and was worried if she made it she would miss practice over the break. I talked to my ex-husband about this, he said he understood and he decided that she wouldn't come out over xmas and we agreed to work some extra time in over spring break. He even told my daughter this. She was relieved, she didn't want to leave home on Christmas. A couple of weeks ago, when he was half drunk and feeling sorry for himself, he called up and changed his mind. My daughter is very upset. I'm half tempted not to send her, and she is refusing to go. Any thoughts on how to handle this?

2007-12-03 15:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by tami_leigh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 15:01:38 · 7 answers · asked by Alpha Mucho Macho 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to a very good man who doesn't hit me, yet I fell in love with another man (now BF) whom i thought loves me deeply but yet abused me since Aug 07. He told me he had been suffering from depression becoz of me, and has been cutting himself whenever he strikes me. I know I must leave this man but my heart is not strong & willing to, He doesn't talk to me with respect when he gets mad, and just 2 days ago, he striked me at my mouth but why am I still holding on ? I need to be freed. dont know how long this man will take to recover from his depression. He told me hes not normal and i should be around taking care of him, but i cant keep getting striked ? He said I dont know how to love someone..maybe yes...i dont know but I just have this fear inside me each time he hit me & I wonder when is the next ? WHen I wanted to end the r/s, he said I love myself more & wanted to end his life. The next moment, he talks to me in such a disrespectful manner...i wish i was dead.. HELP !

2007-12-03 15:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright I have a problem, but here is the story. Me and this girl met one day and we hit it off really good. Turns out that she liked me and well I liked her too. So I asked her out one week later. But there lies the problem, my friends that met her also didnt like her because she was different. I like my girls different. So moving on, one of my friends got ahold of her number and text her a lot. She ran out of texts and she told him to stop because she ran out. After that he stopped for two days and then doubled up texting her over 200 times in one week and got her in major trouble and I told her that he got the number from my phone. He also blamed it on me. So we broke up a week and a half later. For the better. She said that she wants to be just friends but then she asked me if she wants to do something on Saturday. Well it turns out she still likes me. And yet my friends don’t really approve of her. The have been prank calling her and still texting. so my question is

2007-12-03 15:00:13 · 4 answers · asked by sinful rev 2 in Friends

I have a family reunion coming up and i want to be able to have a conversation with my adult relatives. I am 20 years old and as a child I was extremely shy. I am really trying to overcome this but I find that I don't even know how to talk to "grown ups!" Even though I am one of them!! I can talk to other people my age, I know things to ask like "what school are you going to? what is your program? etc, etc." but for people in their 40s... what do I ask? How's work?? How are your kids? I have nothing in common with that and it feels awkard to ask about something like that. So what is appropriate conversation topics!?

2007-12-03 14:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how it's gonna be.......wont u tell me, i dont know my self anymore

2007-12-03 14:52:54 · 1 answers · asked by anjik.andrianto 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has told me that he wants to have a threesome with me and he wants to have my friend for a LONG time to be the third participant. I told my friend this (it's a woman) and she was amazed. Now all my boyfriend does is ask my friend all the time if she wants to participate. My question is, does my boyfriend have special feelings towards my friend? He never did pick out any other girlfriend of mine. How do men usually decided if they want a threesome, whom do they want to join? I don't mind the threesome, I just want to know if you think he might like her in some way. Sorry I posted this before, i just need more help. Thanks

2007-12-03 14:45:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The judge ruled in my favor and ordered my husband to pay my lawyer fees. My lawyer wrote the order and it was signed by the judge that he reimburse me for her fees. So I am now left with trying to get him to do just that but he refuses.

2007-12-03 14:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by starlightrap 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes, I'm a virgin. Not because of religious reasons, not because I'm waiting for marriage (I'm not even sure I want to get married), mostly because I haven't gotten close to anyone that I would want to share my body with. And yet I still think about sex constantly. I... ehm... am still "in touch" with myself... but it's not enough. I also exercise, read, and do a host of other things to preoccupy myself, but to no avail.

Now, I'm beginning to think some wild meaningless sex will get it off my mind. Maybe I'm just repressed.

What are your thoughts?

2007-12-03 14:42:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 14:42:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 14:41:13 · 6 answers · asked by Spacey~Stacey's Place 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some advice about what I could get my wife for Christmas.

She's never really cared about getting jewelry the whole time we have been together. I want to do something really special for her for Christmas and not just a simple gift. I want to do something very special for her that she won't forget.

I'd appriciate any suggestions you may have.

2007-12-03 14:36:48 · 43 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 14:32:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

married for 3.5 years i have a 1 year old. my husband from the starting has issues with me. i never understand why? and now its gotten worse.. he curses at me for no reason, or reasons so small like not putting the laundry away!! he gets mad when he wants to and not talk for dayss.. expects things from me all the time but when i expect says i am too demanding..
when iw as pregnant on our trip to NY i had his laptop in my lap, and i was going to put it on the back seat it sort of slipped but ended up fine on the seat.. he started swearing at me so much (which he knows i hate) also hit me so hard that i started bleeding from my both lips.. never said sorry ..when we got there he got extra rude with me .. then few hours later he acted as if nothing happend!! i tried to talk and get mad..but got scared he might do something again.. i know i have put up with it just cz of my baby.. if i file for divorce will i get my baby's custody or can he get it.. i have no clue so am asking pls help

2007-12-03 14:32:05 · 25 answers · asked by angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

am i ugly???
im hella confused.
guys only like me for my looks.
my brothers say that im ugly?
who do i believe?
the guys i have lived with all my life?
or the guys who say that they would do anything for me?


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2007-12-03 14:28:33 · 5 answers · asked by nitababyy 2 in Singles & Dating

they would die immediately after having it, and after the science studies found out that sex with the same sex ..one wouldnt die ,but live .
in short its like , man to man ...and woman to woman...

So now who would enjoy making love?is it :
(a)Women
(b)Men
Tell me what you would do and what you think of man to man , and women to women ....and just the life ,how then would we coop up with it ?

2007-12-03 14:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth N 6 in Singles & Dating

how do you stay faithful? i know i will stay faithful, but it's a struggle sometimes. I get attracted to other people easily lately. I think it's a phase and will pass..... and i know i won't do anything about it.... but is this normal? any tips on getting through this phase?? thanks

2007-12-03 14:25:38 · 4 answers · asked by bluecat3636 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All my life (i'm fourteen) I've lived in this home that i love right next to the school i love and near the friends i love. i might be exagerating, but i don't think i could leave my home until college -- my home and my school are basically my two favorite places to be because no matter what i'm always happy when i'm at either.

problem is, i know for a fact that my dad is thinking about moving. the neighborhood we live in isn't cheap, and his business is slowing. if worse comes to worse i know we're going to move. also if we move, my 8 year old sister won't be able to go to the middle school that i went to -- a school that where know she will get the best. i don't want her to miss out.

what can i do to prevent moving without confronting my parents? i don't think i could cope with moving...i don't know. what can i do?

2007-12-03 14:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my ex live together, and I and him share a cat, is it best for me to find my own apartment or just stay where Im at and he if he wants to move out he can and I take oer the rent. We are both on the lease. Im not trying to be stuborn but why now that im pregnant hae to deal with the stress of moving out of my own apartment, when I own everything there and all the utilities are in my name? All he pays is the rent. I really don't think that its necessary to move right now. I just want some advice

2007-12-03 14:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating