Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

ok handicaped guys can fall inlove
black guys can fall inlove
white guys can fall inlove
young guys can fall inlove
old guys fall inlove
but can crack cocaine addicts fall inlove?

2007-12-03 13:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend said he saw something on my facebook that he didnt like...but i didnt do anything. i dont keep any secrets from him or anything..now he wont talk to me. he's just like you know what it is...but idk help! what to do?

2007-12-03 12:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I just broke up recently. He left he with the apartment, past due power and gas bills, plus past due credit card bills, and no car. I work about 20 minutes away from here making $9/hr . My parents have told me to come home and shut off all the utilities and just pay everything off and start over... literally.

This is the last week my dad can let me borrow his truck, I get paid Friday but every bit of it will be gone to pay bills and such. I'll have to find a car and figure out if I'm moving out early or not.
If I go home my work travel time will be increased to an hour and a half. I'll have to leave everything I finally established as my home and start over again.
If I stay here, my lease will be up at the end of January and I'll have to find a roommate by then around here. Plus still pay off all the things I owe.

I'm at a dead end. I need some help....

2007-12-03 12:58:41 · 1 answers · asked by randomspazticgrl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

To most women, if they get jealous of their man, it seems like they want their man more. However, with me I want him less and it makes me want to leave him. Why do I react this way?

2007-12-03 12:57:50 · 10 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

This ring is 15000 i think its silly but i dont want him get something he cant afford. I love him and will take whatever he gets me but his mind is made up. So i have been thinking what if i ask him to marry me and eliminate the ring situation completely. I have talked to him about the ring but he is very stubborn. IS it odd to ask him to marry me

2007-12-03 12:57:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Weddings

2007-12-03 12:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by answers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

About 2 months ago I started liking this guy which is around the same age as me except a few months younger. We started talking, had sex 5 times, I found out I was pregnant, and now he doesn't want to talk to me or see me even.. Except that the other night he called when I was asleep at 12 midnight wanting to talk but I didn't answer the phone. It kinda makes me wonder if he still likes me and wants to be with me. Any Suggestions on how to ask him or how can I tell if he still wants to be with me.

2007-12-03 12:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by april h 2 in Singles & Dating

Aren't their spouse supposed to be their No. 1 priority?

Pls. read this article from Dr. Laura:

http://www.drlaura.com/blog/2007/04/12/but-i-dont-feel-like-it

I think if women follow her advice, there will be lesser divorce and fewer kids suffering as a result.

Please, if you love your husband and your family, read the article of Dr. Laura .

2007-12-03 12:53:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her but i definitely don't like her, and was so angry after the family dinner. She had trauma issues from her past, her parents left her at 5 but reunited in late teens, politcal unstability at certain point in her life etc...when left on my own i can feel good about myself, but never when she is around. she wants me to live out her dreams for her even now it's obvious it won't happen. she use to criticize non stop but better now. she wanted me to be a boy. she doesn't like my personality. she thinks i'm good looking but not the type she likes. she never asks me how i feel about anything, and just comes straight out tell me what she wants me to do with my life. she compares people endlessly. she's bitter she doesn't get family in youth, and jealous of her rich successful brother. she takes it out on me. wants me to be what i'm not and she drives me nuts, i'm insane because of her.. and my dad says nothing. and my siblings is just like her now.

2007-12-03 12:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend is 25 yrs old and i am 21. we sleep next to each other every weekend and for the first time i gave him a hand job but he didnt come in 5 minutes. he just said how he's used to going alot longer with his hand than that. and that a real man just doesn't come in 5 minutes. i was shocked because i didn't think men had that kind of control down there. he then said that is why sex isnt that important to me. i am a virgin waiting on marriage. im wondering if this i just him trying to impress me or if hes telling the truth? can men really be "slow like that? im used to men comming on my hand really quickly, hes really respecting my waiting until marriage to have sex belief. but i dont know what his motive is dealing with why he doesnt come, and why is he waiting for me?

2007-12-03 12:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-03 12:49:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont like Bessy, Betsey, and lizzy

2007-12-03 12:48:00 · 8 answers · asked by bluesmiley4 3 in Friends

Is it weird for a 6'2 kid to go out with a girl whos like 4'11 - 5'1?

2007-12-03 12:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 12:45:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

True but so sad he does!! She is a hot mess she calls 2 or 3 times a day..She always in our marriage and we just had a new baby she doesn't have a man and she is in her early 50's. We live in La and she stays in AL she left her wash towel and bath cloth at our house when she was visiting and now ever time I go in the bathroom I see this pink towel. She also told my husband that I need to go back to work our his whole family did. He is her baby son what do I do leave him or sit down and talk to her like a women

2007-12-03 12:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by ms women 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to this guy for about a year. We stopped for a bit but now we are talking again. He asked me to hang out and i said yea but then i chickened out. and now we made plans for tommorrow. he wants to come over my house but i know i'll be home alone and i'm really nervous and my mom doesn't know and i'm nervous about going to his house. He is two years older than me and I don't want to do anything i'll regret. My mom doesn't know him so i dont know if i should tell her or just keep it a secret and tell her later. please give me some advice. serious answers only please.

2007-12-03 12:41:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sydney C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 12:40:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas? We have been going out for like 3 months. He does sports and is kind of preppy....HELP!!!

2007-12-03 12:37:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23. My crush is 34. I told him i liked him soon after we met and we've been friends ever since. We have a lot in common and I care for him and respect him. There's been some flirting but he made it clear that there was too much of an age-gap and I am trying to respect that. My crush is finally starting to fade away (thank goodness) but I still find myself thinking of what could've been. For me, it's important not to have any regrets and I just have to ask myself, is there anything else I ought to have done?

2007-12-03 12:37:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she has everything i wished for at her age. i can't help wondering why she is always complaining that she's not happy. she has worked hard for what she has but there's always something missing or not right with her. can anyone understand this?

2007-12-03 12:36:42 · 23 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like myspace myspace, or he gets upset when i try to keep my sons father in my sons life. He says that he might as well be his dad bcuz hes always there for him. He just doesnt understand how important it is to me to try to keep his dad in his life. He'll also get mad @ me if he washes my back in the shower and i dont wash his in return, or i work at night at a bar and i dont get done cleaning until 245 300 am and occasionally i will a have a drink after work, wel last weekend i called him to let him know i was going to stay after for a drink at like 240am and said i would be home around 330-345 well i got home at 4am and he was trippin. Someone please tell me how to fix this!!??

2007-12-03 12:36:23 · 24 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 12:36:18 · 5 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Singles & Dating

enough to come and say hi? I'm sader and sader everday that he leaves me here but Im not going to give up on him till my last breath I will keep the beleive that he loves me

2007-12-03 12:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Singles & Dating

Literally.He,my ex.,doesn`t desrve to be here on this world.I hate him so much that I could kill him.Well,I physically can`t reach him,he lives in a different country.But there must be the way how to do it.
The thing is(I believe women who`ve been in similar position would agree with emotions involved)he never cared about our children.We have two kids together.he was sort of nearby,wanting to be involved,but somehow didn`t show interest at all.The last bit is that he says,with God`s help and children wanting to see him some day when they grow up-that will happen.It seems to me that he scraped all his interest out about them and that`s it.We`ve been having such rough times,but he didn`t care.I`m sorry but I can`t bring myself to leave it just like that.I`m trying really hard not to fall into this hate thing but I can`t...
At the moment I`m in a stabil relationship,I at last allow myself to love and be loved, but this person,my ex,I could just feel his shadow over me.PLS help!Thanks!

2007-12-03 12:34:32 · 18 answers · asked by Agni R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been divorced 10 years. Ex-wife not taking into consideration my thoughts/views of what school she should attend. Public versus Private. According to the marital settlement agreement, this should fall into a "major decision" and we both should agree upon this decision. What should I do? We have joint custody, with shared placement. 60/40 split of placement.

2007-12-03 12:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Steve T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing big!! Our love is big and thats really all we need!!! Does anyone have any advice on how to go about doing this? Any advice on marriages in Vegas or texas would be great!!. Im not a citizen so i dont have a ss#. Is this ok? Im legal but not a citizen.

2007-12-03 12:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1 in Weddings

I met him at a mall which he works in.He always gives me eye-contact but he never really talked to me.However when i try to ask him something about anything in the mall,he repeat what i say

me:this is nice
he says:nice (in questioning way like he wants me to say why)

what does it mean? i think he's shy,am i right?

2007-12-03 12:31:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i like this guy...
((read on))
he has a girlfriend,
&& hes broke up with her for me.. out of mutual respect i said yea, but lets wait.
So he goes back to her..
and i feel like im just an object of lust for him..
kinda like LOVE vs. LUST scenario ((other girl vs. me))
is there anything i should do or should i just give up and label him as an ultimate "no-no"?

2007-12-03 12:31:09 · 30 answers · asked by em. :] 3 in Singles & Dating

so i was on my bf's myspace and found messages back and fourth from his ex and him. from the messages you can tell she doesnt want him and the conversation was very simple but just the fact that he did this hurt me because he was telling her things he would never tell me. he also told her he would " try to keep in touch if messeges were the only way he could" and he did not add her as a friend. we have been in a relationship for 3 years and i wouldnt even know how to approch him with this. I just need some advice.
thanks

2007-12-03 12:30:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In addition to greeting guests, these people will make sure that guests sign the guest book, they will hand out favors, direct gift-givers to the gift table, and direct guests to their seats. However, they are not ushers as they do not physically show guests to their seats. I would like a unique/special way to address these two people on my wedding programs. Thanks.

2007-12-03 12:28:07 · 17 answers · asked by ChillyBoo 2 in Weddings