my boyfriend is 25 yrs old and i am 21. we sleep next to each other every weekend and for the first time i gave him a hand job but he didnt come in 5 minutes. he just said how he's used to going alot longer with his hand than that. and that a real man just doesn't come in 5 minutes. i was shocked because i didn't think men had that kind of control down there. he then said that is why sex isnt that important to me. i am a virgin waiting on marriage. im wondering if this i just him trying to impress me or if hes telling the truth? can men really be "slow like that? im used to men comming on my hand really quickly, hes really respecting my waiting until marriage to have sex belief. but i dont know what his motive is dealing with why he doesnt come, and why is he waiting for me?
2007-12-03 12:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I will take a stab. If I understand correctly what you are trying to get at, then he just isn't used to anyone other than himself masturbating himself. He might have true feelings for you nad is willing to wait until marriage. It could also be borne of his own values and religious beliefs.
2007-12-03 12:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I understand the question. But yes guys can be slow like that, if they really want to, it takes some pretty hardcore muscle control though. And of course some dudes just take a long time naturally.
Edit: respect for the no-sex-til-marriage policy btw :)
2007-12-03 13:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer of this question is amazingly common. this is lack of communication! And the following is an in intensity answer to it. imagine humanity contained in the Stone age. What did the female do - she took care of the toddlers. What did the guy do - he got here across preserve and presented foodstuff for his lady, little ones and himself. immediately the guy brings money instead. (no longer that the female does no longer although the guy is meant to be the service even as the female must be the nurturer). sex delight is between the very common needs that individuals have. If a pair do no longer comprehend the thanks to percentage each and each others' needs and needs, a courting commence falling aside. If a guy keen to cheat, he did so because distinctive the standard needs that he has were no longer chuffed. hence he tries to have those someplace else. hence he commence treating the female badly because he feels that she does no longer care about him.
2016-10-25 09:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can depend on how sexually 'pent up' he is feeling. If I'm tired sometimes it takes ages with my GF but if I'm feeling fruity then it can be over in about a minute. And I consider myself to be a 'real' man, lol.
So, looks more like show and machismo to me.
2007-12-03 12:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys take longer than others. Just like a lotta things, everybody is different.
2007-12-03 12:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy so he isn't cumming so quickly because he isn't too sensitive down there. He is waiting for you probably because he loves you why else?
2007-12-03 12:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate boys sumtimes
2007-12-03 12:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by confused! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋