About 2 months ago I started liking this guy which is around the same age as me except a few months younger. We started talking, had sex 5 times, I found out I was pregnant, and now he doesn't want to talk to me or see me even.. Except that the other night he called when I was asleep at 12 midnight wanting to talk but I didn't answer the phone. It kinda makes me wonder if he still likes me and wants to be with me. Any Suggestions on how to ask him or how can I tell if he still wants to be with me.
2007-12-03 12:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by april h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
having sex doesn't mean the guy likes you he just wanted to get off!! getting pregnant was a huge mistake and i am sure he is not ready to marry you and be a father.i doubt you are old enough or smart enough to take care of a baby by yourself either!!! honestly sex is not love,sex is not even liking for most people it is just a urge to be filled.why aren't you on birth control???? sleeping with a guy you hardly know is stupid and dangerous,ever hear of HIV or AIDS???? there are many other diseases you can get from unprotected sex and to have a baby with some one you hardly know is irresponsible.i hope you are not pregnant because you sound too immature to take care of yourself let alone a unwanted,unplanned baby!!!!.see a doctor if you are not pregnant get on birth control and don't sleep around!!! if you are consider adoption it is probably the baby's best chance at a real life and yours too!!! i wish you the best and good luck to you! you need some counseling because sex does not guarantee you anything and it should be with someone special in a committed relationship it is not a toy and is not for children or irresponsible people either!!! i hope you are not pregnant but do not expect an innocent child to fix your life that is not what babies do!!!!
2007-12-03 13:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you just need to talk to him. If not for your sake, but at least for the baby!
2007-12-03 20:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is scared of having a baby...especially if you weren't together for very long!
2007-12-03 20:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by jeje127 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he had sex w/ you didn't he
2007-12-03 20:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by abby:D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋