my boyfriend said he saw something on my facebook that he didnt like...but i didnt do anything. i dont keep any secrets from him or anything..now he wont talk to me. he's just like you know what it is...but idk help! what to do?
2007-12-03 12:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Websites like Myspace and Facebook can cause some relationship issues if there is a lack of trust or insecurity from one or both parties in the relationship. If its causing problems ditch it or the guy. If he won't even tell you what the issue is though I would maybe start there when trying to evaluate what the root issue is. I doubt its the internet.
2007-12-03 13:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Gentle One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odd that he won't tell you what it is that he thinks he has seen and doesn't like. Seems more like emotional blackmail to me.
Call his bluff and tell him to come and sit with you whilst you go on facebook so he can see that there is nothing for him to worry about.
Seems he is jealous that you have contact with other males, possibly. Good luck
2007-12-03 21:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres what u need to do. you need to (if you can) try to talk to him and ask him what was wrong and what he didnt like and tell him that ur really sorry and you will delete or take whatever it was off for him and always tell him everything. tell him EXACTLY how you feel. get it all out. =]
2007-12-03 21:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What was it that he saw and didn't like? Try talking to him about it and if he doesn't want to talk about it, then move on.
2007-12-03 21:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems a little insecure to me. why is he tripping over your facebook? if he's going to be upset, he should at least have the decency to tell you what you did that was wrong, so that you'll make every effort not to do it again.
2007-12-03 21:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wont talk to you just say ok fine its over and then maybe he will talk but in yur head your not for real! so its like a fake brake up to get him to talk try it! Good Luck
2007-12-03 21:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
whats your facebook account?
if you type it (edit it)I'll see and add some stuff to my answer.. I'll tell you whats wrong ok?
but,if there's nothing wrong then your bf wants to break up with you......if he does then get a different guy....
oh! also,if he still does that then YOU break up with him.....if you want to do that though......anyway add your facebook account ok? hang in there!
2007-12-03 21:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it's so annoying when they say "you know what you did" give it some time, maybe he's just misunderstanding something...
ask him later in a few days, he HAS TO talk to you about it eventually! trust.
good luck :)
2007-12-03 21:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Raman . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i just went through the same thing. look at :
1) your wall
2) your pics (especially with other guys/ sexy pics)
3) other ppls picks that you are tagged in
3) your status
4) your superwall
5) your comments to other guys
6) if your cell number is available to strangers
I cant think of any more....
2007-12-03 21:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by something crazy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a classic case of insecurity to me
2007-12-03 21:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋