ok, i like this guy...
((read on))
he has a girlfriend,
&& hes broke up with her for me.. out of mutual respect i said yea, but lets wait.
So he goes back to her..
and i feel like im just an object of lust for him..
kinda like LOVE vs. LUST scenario ((other girl vs. me))
is there anything i should do or should i just give up and label him as an ultimate "no-no"?
2007-12-03 12:31:09 · 30 answers · asked by em. :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he broke up with his girlfriend for you if you said yes to him and started going out with him who's to say later on down the road he see some other girl and breaks up with you to be with her he seem like he is a player and you dont want to get hurt so let him go and find someone that will not play games God bless you
2007-12-03 12:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now this all depends on how old you are and how old this guy is.
If as I say he is between the age of say 16 and 21 then I would have to say just wait for a while let Nature take it course.
For a man of this age it is the learning years of his life and most of the Chemicals are flowing big time. Sex is the biggest thing in his life at this age cause he is trying to learn to really love.
He may just need to practice in order to perfect for you or who ever his Life Mate will be.
Now for you Remember sometimes a best friend is better than a love mate least for the time being.
How about you and him just be best friends for a while and see what happens?
2007-12-03 20:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by jjnsao 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not a fool....you are the victim of a DOG!
Men like that don't leave the woman they're with until they have the next one lined up...they can't survive. Wait for a REAL MAN, he's out there. If you are an object then you have a lot going for you...wait it out for the 'keeper'.
2007-12-03 20:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by twinie22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing to say let's wait. But after all, don't create a whole love affair cheating type scenario because it gets nasty. LEave the guy alone for his gf and if he breaks up for other reasons, go after him.
2007-12-03 20:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, as a guy, he probably thought tht as soon as he left her for you that... well he and you wud get together straight away, and since that didnt happen he thought you had second thoughts, so not wanting to be without anyone he patched things up with her, but quite honestly if hes going to leave his current partner for another woman- wot makes u think he wudnt do the same thing to u, always a bit of risk ther
2007-12-03 20:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Baz08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you better wait, the guy has a serious problem with attitude, what kind of guy cant wait and returns back after offering love to someone just because she told him to wait? think he doesnot love you....
2007-12-03 20:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Swadesh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would label him as a no-no since if he is willing to dump one girl and go right back after you said wait what is to say he wont do the same to you given the chance
2007-12-03 20:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by justinjedi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just pulled up a bad fish, girl. Wait and find a real keeper.
2007-12-03 20:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, seetie, if he goes back to that girl after he broke up with her to be with you.... well thats just messed up. So honey, he's not the one for you, i mean if he reallly had feelings for you, then he would wait for you... so next time you see him, tell him that or your feelings on how messed up he that was... or no, ask him how he really sees you slash feels about you, and based ff that, she if he's just a jerk or confused... well, iif i were you, i would just tell him to f off.
2007-12-03 20:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Vampire Kissed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like him correct? He likes you correct? He went back to his girlfriend so just leave him be until they are over. Once they are over flirt and everything else you would normally do to get a boy to like you. Unless this girl is your friend then see if its okay to see if it would hurt her relationship with you. If she says no and tells you to go for it then do so!
2007-12-03 20:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Achikura 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋