Ladies, I need some advice.?

Question

I need some advice about what I could get my wife for Christmas.

She's never really cared about getting jewelry the whole time we have been together. I want to do something really special for her for Christmas and not just a simple gift. I want to do something very special for her that she won't forget.

I'd appriciate any suggestions you may have.

Hey CNS, I said, she's not interested in jewelry.

Kaylasmommy, I appricate your suggestion, but she hates birthday/Christmas presents, and I've never done that in the whole time we have been together.

Answer 1

a locket with your name ingraved in it ,with to my wife with love from your husband, I hope I helped

Answer 2

Well my husband bought me a new car for Christmas this year ... yes I already got it on Friday but it's for my Christmas ... now I will never got get that.

If she don't need that or you don't want to do that then maybe another trip, I know you are doing the trip to the mountains or have planned to do that for her birthday, if you can afford a cruise and find someone to watch the kids for the time you are going they are really fun. I did one of them for the first time in September of this year.

That or you can do the spa that most of the girls said.

Or maybe even a night of romance at a romantic hotel ... like where I am from we have one called the sebris and red carpet in ... has a hot tub, pool, all the goods.

Answer 3

Present her with breakfast in bed and tell her you don't want her to do anything today for it is her day. I mean bath her and all (everything) Treat her like a queen for the day. Later that night take her to her favorite spot and enjoy. In the meantime cater to her every need. Don't forget to give her really nice necklace that you will ask her to wear all the time as a reminder of how much you love her. She may not be into jewerly but the thought that u put into it is worth the effort. God Bless

Answer 4

I'm not a lady but my wife's 40th BD is December 15. Like you, I have thought and thought about something spectacularly special that will really mean something to her.

So, after long thought, I have decided that the best gift I can give her is for me to to quit smoking.

I'll send her flowers at work, too. But, that's the plan as of today. I'll hate it, but she will love it.

Edit: it's my last vice left over from my single days. I don't drink, do drugs, gamble, womanize, stay out late etc., etc., etc. I'll be completely housebroken and the perfect husband. Of course, I'll also probably lose the will to live and just sit on the couch waiting to die, but...she will love it.

Answer 5

One Valentine night I had to work later then my husband when I got home all the lights were off I assumed he went to bed I was wrong when I opened the door there he sat at the kitchen table with a dozen roses candle light and a steak dinner for two I felt like I just walked onto a soap opera set soooo romantic I never will forget that one.

Answer 6

You ought to supply a little bit extra data: eg. Have you within the final 2 years began a household? Could be that he has began seeing himself as a daddy alternatively than a husband and lover, you ought to get that spark again by means of spending by myself time as husband and spouse. Is is simply intercourse that's missing or additionally dialog? If dialog could also be missing to your courting you would simply be going your separate methods, the velocity wherein you're drifting is so gradual its hardly ever visible however will result in the top of your courting should you each do not do anything to give up it. Is he spending time clear of residence extra customarily? There could also be indicators that he is located any individual else however are not able to convey himself to finish your courting. Bringing up the truth that he isn't supplying you with adequate intercourse is a sensitive factor for a person to talk about and can frequently lead simplest to much less and not more as he feels harassed, check out spicing matters up by means of going out for dinner with each and every different, renting a film and simply having a romantic night time in, or play a board sport with a twist. Getting in the direction of each and every different once more is the foremost establishing factor, do not drive the trouble of intercourse, simply permit it occur obviously. As relationships settle down, so does the quantity of intercourse, it is simply ordinary.

Answer 7

Wow. You could spend so much money on this. A friend of mine received a cruise for her Christmas gift last year. They weren't scheduled to leave until March of this year, but she was ecstatic! Can't say I wouldn't be too bummed out myself. But cruises can be expensive. You could try landing some cheap tickets to Vegas. They have deals on cheaptickets.com or orbitz.com or travelocity.com. There are tons of them out there. Many are offering reduced packages around this time of year. If you don't want to stray far, you can also opt for a nice, quiet, weekend away from everyone by going to a hotel in the next city/town.

Answer 8

Sounds like either she's not a material girl or she's very budget concious.
If she is more practical, a new car, household appliance, carpeting perhaps.
If you want to still get her jewelry, get her something smaller and more petite if is she is quiet and conservative (perhaps a teardrop shaped stone on sterling silver chain)...if she is outgoing, something really bold...a large sterling silver cuff bracelet with onyx stone maybe...don't forget matching earrings.
An all-inclusive trip like a cruise would be pretty cool...give her brochures and have her pick it out.
A day at the local spa with massage, manicure and pedicure would be fun maybe followed with a dinner date with you.
Hope it helps and have fun!!

Answer 9

A card under the tree that tells her to get gorgeous for that night because you have a surprise for her among other various gifts. That night have a dozen red roses, a candle-lit dinner with her favorite food. And a romantic bath--or something as nice--to end the evening.

Answer 10

Fly her to New Orleans (or somewhere great) for lunch ... or maybe fly to a special place where you can sit and look out over the ocean while having lunch .. or to some island .. just for lunch.

Arrange for a limo to pick you & her up at the airport .. and take you to the place you will be dining. (Also - for the limo to pick you up & take you back to the airport). You would need to make prior restaurant reservations .. maybe one with a great music, etc. You could research wonderful places to go.

You could do all of this .. in one day. It would be unforgettable .. and soooooooooo great.

Answer 11

The best gift you can give her is yourself. Spend a whole day with just her. Schedule an activity that you both really enjoy then take her out to eat at her favorite restaurent and finish it with a nice cozy evening.