I asked this before but only got 2 answers...
I know its kind of childish but my boyfriend promised that if I told him what I got him for christmas he would tell me what he got me. Well he promised so I believed him (we have been going out for a year and a half) and after I told him he said "Hahaha I lied" (it was over msn)
How would you feel?? I myself feel pretty upset about it, more so that he lied about promising...should I talk to him about it and tell him how that made me feel? Or just forget about it?
2007-12-03 15:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you tell him and wreck Christmas? My feeling he did not get you anything yet, so he could not tell you what it was. He was just checking out how much to spend on your gift.
2007-12-03 15:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like my boyfriend. He knows I love surprises so he wouldn't tell me even if I tried to trick him.
I'm sure he just wants to keep it a surprise for you. I don't think it's worth getting upset about.
Maybe he hasn't figured out what to get you yet there's still lots of time before x-mas.
2007-12-03 15:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the gift back and get a totally different gift... he probably didnt see your frustration and the fact that you were upset on MSN blow it off...and change the gift so he is the one fooled....
good luck.
p.s. he was probably more embarassed if he hasnt gotten you anything yet... so maybe it was his cop out... or better yet...he was kidding about kidding and just didnt want to tell you...that is what i would have done too... act like you didnt get them anything... merry christmas
2007-12-03 15:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by my_huckelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him. That was not cool. He is acting like a jerk.
Start by taking his gift back and getting him something else, or nothing at all- since he doesn't sound like the type of guy worth any of your time, much less any of your money.
2007-12-03 15:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Meghan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have said that before, but they never told me what they got it, It was just a joking thing we did when I was younger. I wouldn't take it personally! Take what you got him back and get something else! That would really surprise him!
2007-12-03 15:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by CNS322 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well can't take things so seriously because you'll just hurt yourself and frustrate yourself like this. joke around back and said "hahaha I lied too!! what a coincidence" You'll just bottle yourself up and eventually you'll explode. hope that helps
2007-12-03 15:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ly Le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just spoiled Christmas. Why would you really want to know anyway?? I think that you just need to get over it.
2007-12-03 15:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by sexyredheadedtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just kidding, relax, it's a simple thing. Don't make it a big deal because it might get worse.
2007-12-03 15:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by ^Blue Rose^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your feeling, otherwise he will never know
2007-12-03 15:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Notorious Guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh!
that's so mean!
i hate it when people break promises
talk to him
tell him how you feel
i would feel so irritated
2007-12-03 15:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋