My boyfriend has told me that he wants to have a threesome with me and he wants to have my friend for a LONG time to be the third participant. I told my friend this (it's a woman) and she was amazed. Now all my boyfriend does is ask my friend all the time if she wants to participate. My question is, does my boyfriend have special feelings towards my friend? He never did pick out any other girlfriend of mine. How do men usually decided if they want a threesome, whom do they want to join? I don't mind the threesome, I just want to know if you think he might like her in some way. Sorry I posted this before, i just need more help. Thanks
2007-12-03 14:45:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope Im not breaking the "guy code" here but listen, Your answer is right in front of you. Yeah your guy likes your friend if he didnt he would be turned off to the idea of her involvement. This is only the beginning of many doubts you'll have with your b/f. Dont do the 3 some, some things are better left as fantasies.
Ask yourself this , If you do have the 3some when he focuses all his attention to her are you going to be secure with yourself or are you going to make yourself crazy with thoughts of him wanting her more and you are just the excuse to get to her.
Think it over, it very well can turn into a point of no return, once you cross that line you can never turn back. Is it worth the loss of your friend and your b/f as well.
Why dont you ask the dipshit why you are no longer good enough.
Good luck, you dont have to put up with that kind of stuff, you deserve someone who will see you as everything they want.
Hope this helps.
~Steve
2007-12-03 14:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Steve S. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds weird. I think the whole 3some thing should be discussed with you and him making all the decisions and agreeing on it. I personally wouldn't feel too comfortable if he was that into a friend of yours.
2007-12-03 23:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by sales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threesomes can either add excitement to a relationship or complicate it... the fact that he wants a LONG term friend of yours to be the 3rd may mean trouble... i would say go for it! but look for another 3rd...
2007-12-03 22:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jolie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋