Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

My now ex. boyfriend is now questioning me about making his ex's?
number show up on his phone. One night I was calling back to back trying to get him to pick up, and when he did answer he said, I don't know what kind of game you trying by making "N" is ex # show up on his caller ID, with a question mark behind it. Well 2 days ago I was talking to him and his ph kept beeping and he would click over, 1st he said it was his cousin then it was, two telemarketers. Finally he said to me I don't know what you're doing but some kind of way you making my ex's number show up and he hung up on me. Well he called back and said that she told him she hadn't called him. And he accused me of doing something to his phone I didn't. He broke up with me. What does this sound like? How can I make a number show up on his caller ID?

2007-12-03 17:08:56 · 5 answers · asked by single mami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well there's these guys there all taken and i always flirt with them. and one by one they dump there girlfriends for me. i feel bad ,i like the attention. but they get the wrong signal, they think i want a relationship. they call me everyday just to say hi each of them call. and when they ask me out i'm like no and then there like just as friends? and i'm like no. and there still like in love with me. this isn't new or anything. i'm used to it. but i am really bad at not flirting like i do it without thinking and when i realize i'm flirting it's to late the seed was already planted. i feel bad for the girls that get dumped and stuff because well they were all really committed to there boyfriends. and when i started going out with my boyfriend jason the guys that dumped there GF's for me still like me and now some girls hate me and others want to be me they told me. how can i stop flirting? how can i make them stop liking me? i don't talk to them anymore. but they still like me!

2007-12-03 17:08:31 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah G 2 in Singles & Dating

what is it exactly? is it dry sex if ur clothes are off but u didn't actually put it in(intercourse)? like u just felt each other's thing.. u know.. like just rubbing it to each other.. and by the way, if i did that, am i still a virgin? =\

2007-12-03 17:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You know how when you have a crush on someone or are in the begining of a relationship and have special sweet moments. Do they go away as the relationship goes on? If it does how to bring it back?

2007-12-03 17:08:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

physically fit,intelligent,intuitive,aqnd a great guitarist musician.All natural ability,no degrees or anything just pure will and talent.

2007-12-03 17:07:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you feel comfortable going to a bar and having a good time, knowing these old drunks and young perverts are going to chat you up?

How do you deal with this when you are not interested, knowing they are drunk and if they get angry, it could make the situation worse.

What are some come backs to get these old drunks and horny drunk men off your case.

It is ok if you want sex, I guess. But if you are just there for a social outing and dress up to make yourself feel good, and you do not want to be disturbed, and you have all these men after you, how do you deal with this?

2007-12-03 17:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 17:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls answer the question whether though experience or due knowledge..tnx guyz!!!..

2007-12-03 17:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically we talking on AIM and it lead to a point where she was stating that she felt that I didn't hug or kiss her unless she came to me. I told her I felt the same way. She then stated "I dont know how this is going to work out" and said that she didn't want to think about it now because its not a good time (It's finals time for us and she has been very busy with work) and we said good night.

What should I do? Its obvious we need to talk. Should I talk to her tomorrow or wait till finals are over?

2007-12-03 17:03:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

even if your in a good relationship of 3 years?

2007-12-03 17:02:04 · 19 answers · asked by abb525 2 in Singles & Dating

In a society where divorce statistics are higher than most average high school math test scores, many children live in single parent homes, and people bounce from one sexual relationship to another -- a trend sometimes referred to as "Serial Monogamy," -- how can one justifiably condemn polygamy as immoral? In my opinion, "Serial Monogamy" is nothing more than Polygamy without responsibility, accountability or commitment. What do you think?

*** Let me clarify--Polygamy is Marriage between more than two people, so commitment to these people is inherent in the polygamous marriage.***

***"Serial Monogamy" is the act of moving from one monogamous relationship to another -- whether it be one marriage to another, or one sexual relationship to another.***

2007-12-03 17:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by PaRDeS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like makeing love, and hugs and getting dirty from time to time

2007-12-03 17:01:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I plan to spend x'mas and winter vacation at my university in the south b/c my family lives in another country and i just visited them in the summer and i cant afford to do it in the winter too.

So my friends craig offered me to go spend holidays with him and his family in nyc, which would be a lot of fun I assume. Since i cant afford the tickets, which are around $300, he said he'd chip in $200. But I cant seem to take myself to accept it. It doesnt seem right to me. I mean, i'd take it if craig was my boyfriend but we are good friends, just good friends. I cant take his money, right?

On the other hand, it's really tempting to spend the holidays with him instead of being on an empty campus alone all winter. What should I do?

2007-12-03 17:00:29 · 15 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Friends

I am in Tennessee. My husband didn't fully support the kids when he was living here, and then he moved abroad and stopped supporting us at all. Can I do anything? We are still married, though he's now got a girlfriend who he takes on extravagant holidays. I haven't received a penny from him during the last 2 years. If I divorce, will they ask him for back payments for this time? Is there anything else I can do? I don't want to divorce, I was planning to wait until the children left home, but really I have so little money I don't know what to do. I haven't claimed any welfare etc so far but it is hard to manage.

2007-12-03 16:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the deal...I am incredibly athletic. I just quit my college baseball team (I was the team captain and starting catcher), because I want to get into mixed martial arts - my point is that I can compete with taller guys, my height is not a disadvantage. I am in great shape - cut and buff... Also, i've got a 3.7 gpa in college, so I'm smart. However, I'm 5'6" and single, and all I hear about is how "short" I am, not that I am in great physical shape, or that I am really intelligent...do women really have something against guys that are not tall, or am I just having some bad luck?

2007-12-03 16:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by CrAsHnBuRn 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got me a present for xmas, its my 'main' present..... a few weeks after he bought it I had a dream that it was a ring, i couldnt see what sort of ring it was as i was having a peek at it in my dream. I told him a few days later that i had the dream, he didnt say anything about it at the time but he asked me a few days after whether it was a normal ring or a special occassion ring to which i replied i dont know, a few days later in bed he said to me "im only going to say this once and im not telling you what i mean by it but sometimes dreams can come true"
can anyone tell me what they think this means???????

2007-12-03 16:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is that really unromantic and too practical?

2007-12-03 16:53:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Its really weird because when I was 8 for example I thought that I was sooo mature and I was really smart. Then when I was 11, I was like sheesh what was I thinking, I was soo unmature when I was 11, and now im 14, and now I think I am pretty mature….but when I will get older I will probobly think I was unmature when I was 14….is it like a pattern or something?? its kinda funny, huh?

2007-12-03 16:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a relationship do you want to be with someone who is compatible or comfortable with you?

2007-12-03 16:48:46 · 2 answers · asked by bebl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 16:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by alawadhi8282 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have learned over the years exactly what Elvis's song, " Blue Christmas " really means...

2007-12-03 16:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a women is 24 yrs old and u are 21 yrs old....and she loves u,but she is divorce and has 2 little kits..would u go out with her (be your girlfriend)???

2007-12-03 16:43:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lik U! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

One question has been festering in my brain for far too long...
If your getting married
Would you get a prenup to prove that your both in it for love?
or would you go without prenup to show trust?

there's so much to consider...

2007-12-03 16:40:33 · 5 answers · asked by Unsichtbar_Brennt 2 in Singles & Dating

What are money bags used for in weddings? is it just a pocket book for the bride....or is it really for people to put money in it as the bride walks around. And will people know to put money in it. Does the bride walk around with it, or does it sit somewhere. Please explain the purpose of the bag

2007-12-03 16:40:22 · 5 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

please someone help me......I need someone to talk to......I am an orphanage.....I am a gay.....n most of all my family don't know I am
a gay......I have no one to share my problems with....In my world I can't trust anyone.....n anyone I chat with is avoiding me......n sometimes I think it is not worthy living my life......anyone please give me some positive advice before I do something crazy...

2007-12-03 16:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by joshua s 1 in Friends

For example, when I was a young teen my uncle would hug me too tight and feel me up in the process.

Older men have always made advances towards me, even now.

My ex-husband's best friend made a serious pass going so far as to back me into a corner. The same year my future brother-in-law tried to kiss me in a bar. The ex was present (but out of sight) both times.

I have been stalked twice...once by my mailman and once by a total random stranger.

I was asked to be in a threesome three different times...once in college...once in a strip club...once by someone I was dating. It never happened, thank goodness.

I have been hit on so many times in my life that it almost seems normal. I rarely take it seriously or act on it. As I get older, I seem to be bothered by this. Does this happen to all females? Is it simply a guy thing? Is it because I am upbeat and positive and usually smiling that leads one to think that I am an easy target?

2007-12-03 16:39:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I took the chance and actually found an old boyfriend who is still local. I ended up calling to say hi. For some unknown reason I started thinking about him and wondered if he was still married and how he was doing. It was a spontanous moment on my part to call him.

I think we were both in shock when I actully reconized his voice and when I told him it was me, he went into shock.
We had a great conversation for about 45 minutes, he's divorced BUT he has a girlfriend of 2 years. She sat there staring at him the whole time he was on the phone except once to leave the room when he said "I have to see you" .

I told him after all these years, I was more expecting him to be married and really just wanted to see how he was doing. He treated me so good, but he asked me to marry him when I thought I was to young. I know I broke his heart, we lived together for 2 years.

He wants 2 see me this week, should I ? continued ~

2007-12-03 16:37:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honesty people please.
How much sex do you like to have when your married.
Just seeing if I was normal.
I hope to find someone who wants it as much as I do

2007-12-03 16:37:05 · 15 answers · asked by Kj 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in 10 months and have been a life long fan of the North Carolina Tarheels mens' basketball team. A couple of months ago I came across a Tarheel bride and groom wedding cake topper but can't seem to be able to find it again. Does anyone know a place I can find such a thing?

2007-12-03 16:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by Justin B 1 in Weddings

2007-12-03 16:32:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings