ok well there's these guys there all taken and i always flirt with them. and one by one they dump there girlfriends for me. i feel bad ,i like the attention. but they get the wrong signal, they think i want a relationship. they call me everyday just to say hi each of them call. and when they ask me out i'm like no and then there like just as friends? and i'm like no. and there still like in love with me. this isn't new or anything. i'm used to it. but i am really bad at not flirting like i do it without thinking and when i realize i'm flirting it's to late the seed was already planted. i feel bad for the girls that get dumped and stuff because well they were all really committed to there boyfriends. and when i started going out with my boyfriend jason the guys that dumped there GF's for me still like me and now some girls hate me and others want to be me they told me. how can i stop flirting? how can i make them stop liking me? i don't talk to them anymore. but they still like me!
2007-12-03 17:08:31 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, everyone loves the attention.what my older brother does when he goes out. he may flirt with some girls but he wheres a ring on his ring finger to make it look like hes taken so no one will try to start something. i thought it was a great idea...well maybe u should try this...so u can still enjoy your flirting without worrying about the guys and their girlfriends being mad or something, good luck with your question!! =]
2007-12-03 17:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL Ill take you lead guys on for 500. You dont seem to do it purposely however so what you need is mental discipline. Its not a bad thing to flirt, it is a bad thing to lead people on. From here on out let the guys you interact with know that you are a huge flirt and that you are a natural at it, but for you that is all you are, a flirt. you want nothing more or less. If the guy/s get butt hurt after that, then thats on them because they knew from the get go what you were about. Second ,you cant make these guys not like you. That is their feelings. What you can do is ignore them until either they calm down or grow up. If they dont then the ignore solution becomes permanent. Third, do NOT stop flirting. Theres nothing wrong with it and it is apart of who you are.
2007-12-03 17:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading between the lines ,I do find some elements of smugness and super ego generated elation deep inside you though you apparently seem to sympathize with the lesser mortals.Stating the last thing first,please understand and more than that,accept and realize that people in your situation have to pay a heavy price at some stage and worst part at that time is,there is no one around for the support then.It's not any religious saying but a plain natural truth of rebound of our actions on us.If you think that it's been enough of aimless flirting,then switch over to a more conventional life style and put a full stop to snatching what others value and cherish.And don't ever call yourself a 'whore' for attention grabbing.There are numerous other ways for people of your caliber to attract attention to themselves than by flirting with any Tom,Dick and Harry. Create and maintain a 'class' for yourself.All the best.
2007-12-03 17:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, seriously, I think you should get a life outside of flirting. I don't want to sound mean, but it's nobody's fault but your own if you lead someone on. You have to change it or else you will always be known as an attention whore. I really can't see how flirting can be such a hard thing to stop doing.....you are messing up people's lives.
2007-12-03 17:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by GottaJustBe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are an attention whore, if you don't like the effects of it then you should really stop flirting so much and making guys think you want them when you don't. It is also quite mean to tease guys.
2007-12-03 17:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Rae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! u really are in a difficult situation. try not talking too much to those who are already taken. and tell those guys who dumped their gf's for u frankly that u're in a commited relationship and do not want disturbance. tell them u just wanna be ordinary friends and nothing more. and for the flirting, i have no idea. i hope these advices works ;)
good luck
2007-12-03 17:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, i do not comprehend what might want to compel someone to imagine this is a remotely ok time period for a infant. of route whoever might want to search for advice from with their infant as an interest whore gained't be the most knowledgeable individual.
2016-10-25 10:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is tell them all your are a hug flirt and that is all that you were doing was flirting and explain to their girlfriends why they dumped em'.
2007-12-03 17:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by KK B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid.
Everyone knows when they're flirting, its not subconcious.
Just have a normal conversation with them or STAY AWAY FROM BOYS WITH GIRLFRIENDS.
2007-12-03 17:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by adilicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you like attention too much. you should get paid by girls to test fidelity in their relationships. if a guy can ignore your flirting then he really likes the girl.
2007-12-03 17:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by belindaramos21 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋