please someone help me......I need someone to talk to......I am an orphanage.....I am a gay.....n most of all my family don't know I am
a gay......I have no one to share my problems with....In my world I can't trust anyone.....n anyone I chat with is avoiding me......n sometimes I think it is not worthy living my life......anyone please give me some positive advice before I do something crazy...
2007-12-03 16:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by joshua s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
please someone help me......I need someone to talk to......I am an orphan staying with my aunt.....I am a gay.....n most of all my family don't know I am
a gay......I have no one to share my problems with....In my world I can't trust anyone.....n anyone I chat with is avoiding me......n sometimes I think it is not worthy living my life......anyone please give me some positive advice before I do something crazy...
2007-12-03 23:51:46 · update #1
why can't you open up to your family? You should be strong and be who you are no matter what other people say. If you have a good composure and well mannered who cares what gender you want to follow. There not going to bed with you but i know there are difficulties in talking to loved ones but if they care they will listen and it may take a little time for them to get used to the idea of you not being what they want you to be. Its funny that i have had 3 gay friends and they were always great with women.
The hardest thing you have to do is open up and don't be afraid of making your statement of the future gender you want to follow :D
2007-12-03 16:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Herman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, no matter how much life has beat you down, you can always get better. Reach out to people, like you are doing here. Also in other places.
I guess you are still in an orphanage, is there someone you can talk to there? A counselor or nurse maybe? Someone you trust? Do you believe in God? If you do, can you seek some guidance from a minister or priest? Those type of people have some professional training in helping people with problems.
This is a big world we all live in. There are other people out here who share your problems. You are not alone. You could try the first link below and speak to a counselor that way on the phone. They can listen and maybe offer some sort of help.
The second link is a song about people with many different problems, and at the end it becomes so cool. A good video that gave me some hope when I was depressed and in pain.
The last link is something that always seems to make me smile. It is a song from a movie called "Sister Act" Music has charms to make people feel better. I hope I helped.
Now you are welcome to send me an email and maybe we can chat sometime. Just want to be clear on something, I only desire to help you as a caring person, I want you to know that I can relate in some areas (I hope) and in other areas I wont be able to do so. For example, I am not gay, but I have been very depressed before and have gotten help for it with some success. Sometimes it helps to have someone to talk to, if you want to try, I am willing to chat and listen.
2007-12-04 05:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u tell them the truth? let them know who you really are & also let them know how you feel. if they can't accept u, i know in time, they also will... it will only take some time. keeping things to yourself for a long time won't help.
try to think positive. don't have friends to talk to? u can go to your room alone or in church & talk to God about all your feelings. life isn't always that bad. there's a lot in life. u can be happy if you think positive & learn to love yourself. you'll also find friends..... true friends that u can trust.
and also, don't ever do something crazy or bad, it will only be worst.
2007-12-05 00:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beacuse you think that, that's how your life goes.
If you think negatively, you'll see only the negative things..
I tell you...If you don't like(or must I say APPRECIATE) the things(life) that you have, nothing new will come to you. The negative energy's all around. That's why...
wanna chat? althea_fc@yahoo.com
the prob is I'm not sure when I'm on...
2007-12-04 04:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is what you make it. Only you can change your life.
2007-12-04 00:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously dude, don't suicide or do anythin crazy
think of all the happi moments in ur life
2007-12-04 00:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jared 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think positive ...Be yourself..Forget the ignorance and be proud of with you are...Just be You..!!!
-l-
Peace
2007-12-04 00:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well play it straight. life only sucks cause you have nothing constructive to do,
2007-12-04 00:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋