If a women is 24 yrs old and u are 21 yrs old....and she loves u,but she is divorce and has 2 little kits..would u go out with her (be your girlfriend)???
2007-12-03 16:43:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lik U! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But only girlfriend...not to get married...u guys are going to deep
2007-12-03 16:54:04 · update #1
i dont thing so.are you ready to be are dad.but if you really like her why dont you get to know her a litter better. maybe she is what you are looking for.
2007-12-03 16:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her being divorced and 2 kids shouldn't have anything to do with how you will feel about her, or maybe it does?
I was a single divorced mother at 25, I'm sure glad no one judged me because of it, as you get older your going to be hard pressed to find a good woman that doesn't have some children and or baggage. Just part of life
2007-12-03 17:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by vjustmehere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! This is a bit difficult! If she really loves you and you do the same you can be of course a really happy family and make together more kids! But if you feel that someday you will get bored(because you are very young yet for a family) and you feel that you havent lived your life, you have to stop this now! You have to be sure that you love her and that you will not abandon her (with more kids maybe) sometime! If you really want to make a family now go on!!! Good luck! Dont forget that the first impress for those kids is the most important! Gain their love and trust and everything is gonna be alright!
2007-12-03 16:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but any women who is divorced and has 2 children has no business going out with a 21 year old. She needs to put her kids first and THINK about the men she invites into their lives. Correct me if I'm wrong, but how many 21 year old men have solid careers, good credit, a stable and solid life, who are able to provide and care for a woman and her 2 children?
If you're a guy and 21 you should be in college dating other co-eds, getting your degree, and figuring out which firm to apply at. Dating a divorced woman with 2 kids just sounds like a recipe for headaches to me. What's the matter? Can't find any hot single chicks to booty call?
2007-12-03 16:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why not, unless you don't enjoy being around children. I was divorced, and raised two myself. I managed to have a couple of great boyfriends, and finally a great husband that loved my children dearly. They keep up with them even until this day. Because I did not want to hurt my children, I made sure that when we broke up, it was on good terms.
You do not want to spend time with the children until you know that you really care a lot for the woman. You wouldn't want to break the children's hearts. Make sure your lady friend realizes that too!! A lot of women make the mistake of dragging men in and out of their children's lives. It is not fair to the kids.
2007-12-03 16:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Remember the children come too. If you really like her take a chance.
2007-12-03 16:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's a packaged deal, and 21 is old enough to settle down.
2007-12-03 16:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to pass, as i know that I would take a backseat to the kids
2007-12-03 17:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to the person may god bless u
2007-12-03 16:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by tic22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋