so theres this guy and and he's always telling me he loves me and calling me the love of his life, but he never asks me on a date! and he gets jelous when other guys talk to me and when they're around me he picks fights with them and intimidates them to make them uncomfortable. i dont know whats up. the other day we had an argument about this and i wouldnt speak to him and he got down on his knees and begged for me to talk to him. help, what do you think? it's weird the more i push him away the more he wants me. girls are always after him and doing what he wants but i treat him bad and he's obsessed!
2007-12-03 15:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like a fatal attraction to me! Stay away from this dude!
2007-12-03 15:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants what he cannot have. He has issues. If your not into him, tell him directly. Don't lead him on. I think you like the attention. Stop it tho. He cannot be on the back burner because when you do give in, his quest is over. You will end up hurt. Be firm and direct and tell him your not interested. Leave it at that and don't lead him on anymore.
2007-12-03 23:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a gun and be prepared to use it. You have a stalker that is out in the open, this is far from stable behavior. This guy's nuts, . be afraid and keep your eyes open.
2007-12-03 23:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that.
He is definitely in love with you but to chicken **** to do anything about it.
So it will probably be up to you if you want to ask him out.
2007-12-03 23:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will advise you to move on with your life. you are already getting the signs and it will be better you stay out. with such jealousy, i wonder if you can even go and work or do some shopping in the future if you should hook up with him.
2007-12-03 23:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ewiase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be trouble. Like he may have such low self esteem that he will end up taking it out on you. Not to mention, begging is so unbecoming and disrepectful to himself.
Sounds like a loser.
2007-12-03 23:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by s7e28w81 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he thinks you're playing hard-to-get
& he likes you!
but he sounds like a 'creeper'
looks like you might have a stalker on your hands soon, LOL!
tell him your boyfriend is getting out of jail soon, better yet, get a boyfriend who has been to jail. JK
2007-12-03 23:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him well. I think he likes the chase. But don't persue it it sounds like he has problems.
2007-12-03 23:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Laughing all the way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only trouble with this one. Be glad you're NOT dating.
2007-12-03 23:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by a_shrubbery_knight_of_ni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what is bothering you how long it could take you to make him your man??
2007-12-03 23:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋