i can stop cryin...and i feel like dying and i feel really queezy.............is that normal? and he was my very first bf and first love. how can i make the cryin and heartache stop
2007-12-03 20:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by meh. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am guessing, the first of many to come. Try not to give your heart so fast. Wait until you know they are worth it.
Time will heal the wound.
Whatever doesn't kill us, makes us stronger!!!
He is a jerk, and does not deserve you anyway. Who breaks up at Christmas time anyway, unless he was too cheap to buy you a gift? You deserve much better than him. Get out there, and make him sorry that he lost you!!!!
2007-12-03 20:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal. In life, we will fall into and out of relationships. It always hurts but time heals and then we move on until we find the right one to spend our lives with.
Pick yourself up, go out and make more friends instead of just moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. The pain will go sooner if we don't dwell on it but keep busy with other things and new friends.
2007-12-04 04:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there... 2 great books got me through it.. Really.. Books... "It's called a Break up cause it is Broken" and 30 Days to heal a broken heart.. Try them, they are really good books and will make you laugh too.. I had the hardest break up of my life 2 months ago, thought I would never get over it, but once you do you will see what wasn't right .... love and kiss to ya...
2007-12-04 05:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by irish_red_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will not help
but only time will take away the pain
I have a strange feeling that once teh hollydays are over he will try to get back with you
at this point it will be great if you told him that you have move on
2007-12-04 04:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal those wounds. But try to get out and do stuff with friends and meet new people, get a new boyfriend.
2007-12-04 04:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hubris252 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes what you are feeling is quite normal,some people feel worse! the feeling will eventually pass after some time,depends how strong you are inside,just go witth your feelings and cry it out.
2007-12-04 04:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself as BUSY as possible... The less time you have to sit around, the less time you have to think about it...
After awhile the days and weeks will go by faster and before you know it you won't miss him quite as much.
2007-12-04 04:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by kfreeman13x3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think i am on that road this christmas ,But the truth is only time can heal it. I somtimes feel sick wen i think of what could happen...
2007-12-04 04:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by DR MILLER 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I am really sorry for that. I think what you should do now is to take time off to think about what made both of you to go seperate ways.
It is time you need , time to think, time to relfex so that it doesnt happen again.
Thanks
2007-12-04 04:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that looks just like him....bone him and then dump him
2007-12-04 04:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mark P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋