My husband cares more for his sis,bro,mom than me [ whom he knows for 15 yrs].How do i know? from his actions:Eg: talks to them first thing in morning & last thing before he goes to bed so he will have a good day & great sleep!100% he does not feel for my feelings when i expressed that i am not his priority.he feels guilty if he goes for a vacation/movie with me without his family so he does not take me anywhere.all the pictures will have his sad face.if he does not talk to his family a day he will have bad mood.so all his actions show that he cares for them more.his sis kid is same age as ours i am worried that he shares all the good stuff of mour kid with her.[ his sister ignores me and does not talk to me infact did not even call me when i had baby and did not even inform me when she was pregnant]but just told my husband.his mom & sis asked him not ot tell abt her pregnancy to me and he did as they said.this what makes me think that he will do anything what they say.
i cant sleep!
2007-12-03 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by need some decision 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you should not ignore this... There is nothing wrong with your husband caring for his family, but your husband needs to understand that he has a family of his own now, which is you and your child... You are his wife and you should be first, before his family... Yes, he should still care for his family and do things for them, but he's taking it way too far..
I would suggest that you have a serious conversation with your husband. Let him know exactly how you feel.. If he loves you he will listen and try to make changes. Suggest marriage counseling...
If he does not change, then I suggest to you, to move on. You should not settle for anything less, then what you deserve. You can't waist your time on someone who doesn't truly care....
God bless and Good Luck!
2007-12-04 01:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm your husband has definite issues... he can't go anywhere or do anything without his family? Maybe he has separation anxiety? But he's a grown man!??
I don't get it, and worse, i cant' understand how you can put up with it.. there is a fine line between being obsessed and normalcy
2007-12-03 19:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well see how he likes it if you do what you want and don't tell him what your doing Also go away with out him and have a good time for with you and your baby
( try to show him what hes missing)
2007-12-03 20:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Myra N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean he has been like that for 15 years? If his behaviour only change recently, there are surely some reasons and you will need to look into them.
2007-12-03 19:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by MAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek psychiatric help.
2007-12-03 19:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋