Can anyone give me some advice on what to do! Our son is now 53 days and he wont be able to meet his son until april 24 our son will be 6 and a half months!! I miss him so much and feel like im going crazy!!! I want him home so bad and just cry myself to sleep cause he is missing so much with our son Jayden so if you can help me please do so
2007-12-03 18:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jaclyn B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Send Pics if you can. He needs your support and love and anything that can help him get through the death and hatred in the middle east.
2007-12-03 18:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he already taken his special leave? My brother is there and he was able to come home on leave and stay for 2 weeks. It's not much but the time is wonderful. Other than that try to take as many pictures and videosas you can for him. If he has a laptop you can webcam together and update him everyday on your son. It depends what he really does, but my brother gets online everyday at some point (normally really late or early morning our time) and he talks to my mother at least once a day using the internet so it doesn't cost him anything.
I wish you luck though, it's hard having a loved one overseas. And congrats on your baby!
2007-12-04 04:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by mtoWCS09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, i'm sorry you're so sad over this...and i'm sure it's very difficult for you to be separated from your husband, especially right now.
you can start making a picture album for him today! you can make a digital one on your computer, or buy an album... you could also make a scrapbook or two, with maybe a page of pictures and little "notes" for every week, so he will feel like he was involved after he gets home.... you could include the baby's firsts, and cute things he does, add cute stickers or embellishments (they make really nice ones !)
it might be a good way to preserve the memories right now! And it would give you something to look forward to, as well....
I hope your husband and you at least get to talk on the phone or email back and forth...
I'd also like to thank him from here for serving and protecting our country... even though i don't agree with the war, it's a very brave and honorable thing he's doing... I'm proud of him and all of the men over there -- AND their families, including YOU for being brave, too.
Sending love and hugs your way... and i hope you get some good answers and ideas here.
take care ok?
2007-12-04 02:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Thank your fiancee for us. I mean, for me, my wife and our two kids (the second will be born at the beginning of March). What he is doing is important. It's not just remaking a single country, it's trying to turn the direction of the entire middle east. I'm serious. Please thank him for us.
2) Be strong for him. He wants to be home just as much as you want him to be home. But he needs to know that you're all right. Be all right. For him.
3) Take video.
4) He will love his son just as much on April 24 as he does today. Which is, with all his heart.
2007-12-04 02:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Richard T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine what that feels like. I would suggest to make a home video (if you have a video camera) and send it to your fiancee, or take lots and lots of pictures. He wouldnt want to miss out on his baby boy growing up. Good luck and I'll be praying for your fiancee.
2007-12-04 02:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kinsey's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong .my son is 4 going on 5 and has never meet is father only speaks to him on the phone or see pics of him i love his father too but he is in another country .you have to be strong for your child and his father pray for the lord to protect him and guide him and have faith he will come home but keep writing and sending pics and try using a web cam my son will see his father for the first time next summer so you will make it too
2007-12-04 02:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by malikstlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write often to him, try to communicate with him one a day, if not once in a week? Like call him, send letters to him for him to come back and you and your son loves him. And how much your family will fall apart without him.
2007-12-04 02:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe start a blog of your daily life and observations for your husband so he can catch up whenever he has access to the internet.
Would your husband be able to access MySpace of Facebook?
ps - Congratulations to you both!
2007-12-04 02:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Stan W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... Just remember what he is going through. It is alot harder on him trust me. He will be back soon and if you stay with him it will be worth it. Dont act like the tramp I was dating who wasnt there when I got back. I got off the uss Saipan only to watch everyone go to their families and old ladies and I just stood there alone.
2007-12-04 02:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by blip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray.Hope that the US Government deal with you nicely.Better to go to them directly and tell your needs so they can able to help u.
2007-12-04 02:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by dreampowergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋