2007-12-03 18:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by Why_so_serious? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wanting the nice guy comes with maturity.
2007-12-03 18:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could give you a better answer, but there's truly almost NO WAY to make a man understand why nice guys, do in fact, finish last.
I guess, in short, women go for the guy who doesn't seem like he's going to be needy, clingy or weak.
We like the guy who is attractive, independent and seems strong.
I really wish it were easier to explain, but truth be told, you're asking an age old question and there's just no good answer for it.
In a nutshell, women are never satisfied!
2007-12-03 19:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by MacManders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I'm one of the few women who like *nice guys*. I've never liked the bad boy type, even since high school. I had a best friend who liked the bad boy type and seen how awful she was being treated by them.
I prefer the shy, quiet types.
2007-12-03 18:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Zsasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason nice guys pine after girls who like bad boys, and ignore the girls who like nice guys, then complain that girls only like bad boys. They both have mother/father issues they need to work on, and are projecting their intimacy issues onto the opposite sex.
2007-12-08 06:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a victim's point of view, I think girls believe they can "change" the bad boy perhaps, tame him. Plus, it's a shallow feeling of security, having a jerk to wrap your arms around, some false sense of safety that you don't really radiate with a "nice guy." PLus, women LOVE to be the dominant/superior one in a relationship, you can thank dumbass Rosie I' DOnnell and Clinton's feminism for that, and the nice, intelligent, future-bound guys intimidate them, make them feel inferior.
2007-12-03 19:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it has o do with how women feel its about emotion when you treat them a certain way they cant help but be attracted to you their all the same.thats why their attracted to the badboy even if he treats them bad and later they decide they like the nice guy but went with the badboy its all about emotion check out guygetsgirl.com
2007-12-03 19:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.romantic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question lol! I think we like the nice guys that are like hot! But not to nice not like they bring you flowers and stuff that might freak you out a little :( it is hard to explain!
2007-12-03 18:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by *Kelli* L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz the ones u are talkin about are shallow.. And its only about what meets the eye!! Ofcourse they will say they mean more than that... But yeh after they get their eye candy! Lol its hillarious. Its only after they are 40 and alone that they realise maybe i should look a little deeper into myslef... Hello oprah!!!
2007-12-03 19:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Josh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically it's physical attraction.
It's related to the question as to why guys dig really attractive, good looking, sexy girls.
2007-12-03 19:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women have a screw lose. Get a dog.
2007-12-03 19:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋