And both are trying to get you to side with them simiulaneously ?
2007-12-03 15:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get the hell out of there as fast as possible....i do not think no one feels comfortable in that situation...good way to lose friends
2007-12-03 15:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Walk right back out. Unless your a professional therapist you really cannot give unbiased advice. Even if you FEEL you can give good advice,it will almost always be tainted by your own personal experiences or your own personal opinions. Best to let them work it out themselves if the are not so heated- sit them down and help them pick a local therapist from the internet or yellow book.
2007-12-04 09:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Loan&Debtgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is create a diversion and distract the couple in effort to derail the argument. Something subtle yet effective like ...juggling or yodeling (works even better if you don't know how)! Because, communication is the leading cause of most fights.
2007-12-03 23:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to each side of the story and give them my honest opinion. OR, tell them I don't want to get in the middle of it and walk away... depends who and/or what the fight was about.
2007-12-03 23:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by jackibear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My response no matter who I think is right is that it is not my place and "I ain't in it leave me alone this between you all" Yes i get a little street when i say it. My english teacher mother would love to hear how i talk some times
2007-12-04 08:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you go in sit down and remain neutral. Or you do as I would do, turn around and head out the door. But stay close enough to be sure it does not become physical or in case someone may need your assistance. Not opinions.
2007-12-03 23:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Khandee K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on my robes, wig and get my gavel out. Time to judge----fighting techniques. Doesn't matter what their points are, the best fighter wins.
2007-12-03 23:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say excuse me and leave unless I am stuck there as in no ride so I can 't leave. then I go to a different room or if not possible just sit silently.
2007-12-03 23:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Admit to leaving the toilet seat up! Sorry thought you needed a laugh :)
2007-12-03 23:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by tengleking23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away
2007-12-03 23:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋