im kind of ashamed to ask this but, i think i really need to get this out of my chest, yo see
i had a girlfriend and we lasted for almost 3 years, now its been 6 months since i last knew of her, and well, shes gone and i got over it ( i think ) the thing is that i cant find a girl to which i feel attracted, is this normal ? or whats happening
2007-12-03 15:52:07 · 16 answers · asked by Pradexis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You went out with her for 3 years and have only been apart for 6 months. It is too soon to be attracted to someone else because you are still healing from the past relationship. No need to rush into getting another girlfriend yet. Give it time.
2007-12-03 15:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, normal. Three years is a long time and a break up can be pretty heart breaking even if it was your choice. Just take care of yourself, hang out with friends, do things that are fun and good for you then when you are ready, you won't even have to think about it, some girl will enter your world and you will feel attracted to her.
It will happen in its own time.
2007-12-03 15:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's totally normal... it takes alot of time. When my fiance and I broke up 2 years ago, I remember even feeling guilty flirting with anyone kinda like I was cheating even though we'd been broken up for months. You really loved her... so just let things happen naturally. Promise it gets better and better with time.
2007-12-03 16:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by artzyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when ur in a long term relationship and it ends its hard to move on because ur soo used to a certain person. and its hard to find someone with the same personality and everything that ur used to. its gonna be tough but ull make it though it. jus take ur time and dont rush into anything especially when ur not ready.
2007-12-03 15:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by stars_086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Circulate around and get to know more of the local female population. Things take time.
2007-12-03 15:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a big ocean, with alot of fish. Maybe try to date someone who you wouldnt normally date, be willing to try something new. When your with someone for along time you forget alot of who you are and what you like.Its not you anymore its "us", ya know. Give it time, youll be ok, and yea its normal.
2007-12-03 15:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will find another one in time...u gotta stop looking tho. The best things come when u least expect them.
2007-12-03 15:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss your old gf. Get out of the dating scene for a while and let yourself heal.
2007-12-03 15:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start playing the field, go out and party!
2007-12-03 15:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by credit-crunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably or maybe you are still in love with your ex so no other girl looks good to you anymore.
2007-12-03 15:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by bddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋