i have never had a bf every guy is always like were just friends i hate that b/c my friend alex i like him more than that but i cant tell him that b/c my bf is going out with him and i dont even want to talk to her right now but it is not her fault b/c i waited and did not tell her i liked him ahhhh i just want have alex to hug the way she hugs him =[!
2007-12-03 15:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant really do anything about alex.. even after breakng up you would have to wait a few weeks so i say move on to another/... hotter guy
2007-12-03 15:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I am sorry I know how that feels have had it happen to me several times. Your right it's not her fault so be nice to her and I would not tell her how you feel about him while they are going out that could make her feel uneasy. I think you might not be flirting enough when you meet a guy. If you become friends with someone and have just been friendly to them then chances are you will only be seen as a friend. You need to flirt a little with the guys while your getting to know them. Show them your interested in them. Smile at them say cute things to them, ask them questions about things they like and what they do for fun on weekends and so on. Also, when you see a guy you like look over at him and when he looks at you just smile at him in a sweet and shy kind of way. Then see if he comes and talks to you. You have to let guys know your interested and most women do that by smiling at guys and looking at them from time to time. Also be yourself, just be friendly and nice and funny is always good. Also don't give the guy to much attention, if you give him to much or are always around him at first then he will feel smothered so make sure to give him a little room. The main thing is flirt with them and show them your interested. Once you become there friend chances are that's all you'll ever be. I know I have the same problem. I had 10 really good girls that were my friends in high school and I liked all but 2 as more than just friends, but I became their friends first and they said they did not want to date me because I was such a good friend. It really sucks and is hard and also really sad that, that's how it is. Just keep your head up and you will find a guy that will want you and that will really like you. =)
2007-12-03 23:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY CRAP, PUNCTUATION!!!
This isn't a text message, write it out.
There's nothing you can really do in this situation - you could perhaps explain how you feel to your friend, but you run the risk of ruining the friendship there. That depends on how good of friends you are.
Or, you could be happy for her and wait it out, see if it goes anywhere - if they break up though, don't jump at him without asking your friend if it's okay. Taking a guy from someone, even after they've broken up, can cause some serious bad vibes.
Long story short, you snooze you lose. Find another guy.
2007-12-03 23:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by InsomniaSAH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your situation before and it sucks horribly! My bff started dating this one guy and I didnt realized i liked him until after they started going but eventually they broke up cuz of she liked another guy. And the same bff liked this guy a lot and i did the whole get to know him so i could hook them up but i started to fall for him to and i felt so bad i told her. She understood even though i thought she would have killed me but she didnt. It was akward for a few minutes and she was a little upset i didnt tell her before but she was glad that i did. I don't really know what you should do because she is going out with him and you dont want to break them up and cause drama but I think that you should either consider telling HER or try to move on and find a new guy....sorry i couldn't have been more help.
2007-12-04 18:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by L.o.s.t. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the classic "wanting what you can't have" .
Your post makes me believe you are very young so be patient...there are numerous amount of guys out in the world who will make you feel this way.... leave your b/f to work out their relationship but remain friends...don't do anything you might regret later.
2007-12-03 23:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him over to study and give him "something to study"
2007-12-03 23:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋