2007-12-03 16:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by IcyJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Find a better friend to spend time with. Sometimes people accuse others of what they themselves are like.
You didn't say what he said in his phone message.
Let him call you again if he wants to. Otherwise, stay away from people who remind you of downed power lines. (Danger Will Robinson, Danger!)
2007-12-03 16:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by No substitute for privacy online 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, were you actually using him? If so, then he may at least deserve an apology.
If not, then be careful. Guys will accuse you of using them in order to make you feel like you have to "make it up to them" in obligation. I had a guy accuse me of using him before, only to then hint around that I could pay him back by going out with him or giving him "favors".
If you haven't been talking to this guy for a while, you are under no obligation to call him back. Shoot, even if you *were* using him you are under no obligation to call him back. If you don't want to talk to him or date him, then don't. You don't owe him anything.
2007-12-03 16:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't return his calls. He if really felt you were using him, why would he want you to call? Sounds like he used that as an excuse before, to let you down easy or simply put, dump you.
2007-12-03 16:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by luvmycoke29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, were you using him? If not, then return his call. If you were, call him only to tell him that he was right and then don't see him again, as a favor to him.
2007-12-03 16:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And why would you want to? Read "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo--title sounds harsh, but the book is really encouraging. Good Luck!
2007-12-03 16:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are using him I wouldnt call because you will get found out eventually. If you aren't then who cares the truth will work it out. I wonder why you are worried he thinks that unless it is true.
2007-12-03 16:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnfoxychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just to see what he called you for.......but i wouldnt be interested in a guy who thinks like that it makes him seem insecure. unless you were really using him.
2007-12-03 16:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turnabout is fair play, perhaps he wants to use you this time (?). Sure call him! Let us know how it turns out. Okay?
2007-12-03 16:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no.....do not call him back. He might be using you this time justt wanna get a piece of you or wanna take revenge.....forget him gurl find a better one than him. there are alot of fishes inda sea gurl!!!!
ALL DA BEST GURL!!!!
2007-12-03 16:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you guys maybe need to talk it out and get to a new start.
2007-12-03 16:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kimbo slice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋