This guy that i like always tells me how hot he is- what does that mean?

Question

well ive know this guy for two years now, and he always comes randomly in and out of my life. We had the same class in tenth grade and then i moved, but our families are in the same circle so we see each other from time to time. In tenth grade he was really flirty, came to my locker, talked to me constantly and his friends would always stare at me, and even ask about me to my friends. Then i moved and i thought it was over but i didnt care until i saw him at a function. He was so flirty but when i asked for his number he came up with an excuse- im a senior now and we talk four times every week- I cant get this guy our of my head- He is the only guy i ever liked, but i cant/dont want to be his girlfriend and i find myself most happy when we are just friends- but he is the hottest guy ive ever saw ( ideal for me)
he always tells me that he is hot though-
does he like me or ??? Help me out

Thanks for the response
- but this guy is a good guy
he's smart and funny and he loves kids its so adorable- i mean i like him for his personality too- btw he asked me for my number just recently so what does this mean and asked me out to the movies four times, i never have the time though- it just since he is so hot i dont know if he likes me or not. Plus i really want him to ask me to prom. so does he like me or should i take a hint and find someone new ?????
btw all his friends think im pretty- so its not like im ugly or anything-

Answer 1

Sounds to me like he's so in to himself he probably hasn't even noticed you yet! Move on honey - you deserve more!

Answer 2

Please he's a conceited jacka--! You don't need the nonsense. Girl you are a senior-live it up, and look forward to the future. If he's a senior as well and all he can talk about is his "hotness", then there's nothing to talk about. I couldn't sit around and listen to a guy talk about how good he looks, that's feminine to me. Maybe he has issues with his looks or maybe he's just stupid. Either way you said it yourself, you're not happy as his girlfriend, so why would you do anything to make yourself unhappy? Life is funny and sometimes things happen that make you unhappy, hopefully you haven't experienced that much unhappiness yet. Be good to yourself ALWAYS!!!!!! Don't EVER compromise your happiness for a guy.EVER!!!!!!!!!!!! Best wishes on your graduation,and much success in the future.

Answer 3

I'm getting the idea that this guy is a MAJOR flirt...even though you may like or even love this guy,i think he's just playing with you for his own satisfaction.If he's single, that's one thing, but if he's taken, maybe he's playing some other girl.If he was, and you got together, you could be next.I think he's maybe trying to get you to complement him..he knows he's all that..he just needs you to comfirm it.You should ask him seriously about the type of relationship you share.

Answer 4

Isn't that a MAJOR turn off that he says he's hot and NOT YOU?

If you asked him for his number and he didn't give it to you.
Move on. He sounds like trouble with a capital T.

Personally I feel if someone is hot, they don't go around saying it. It's like a guy walking up to you that's realy hot, but says, hey babe, I'm filthy rich, want to go my place?

Sorry, but this just may this same guy in 10 years.

Let it go, he's just not that into you, he's more into HIMSELF~

ps. I call men like that "good looking assholes". if that's what you want and could over look it, but it doesn't sound like you have a chance, he's too all over himself and he will break your heart if he did ask you out.

Answer 5

He must be really like you, and the reason of why he said he is hot is some sort of joke to cheer you up, or to show that he have some sense of humor.

Anyway this doesn't mean that there is 100% probability, that he want to start any romantic relationship with you.

Answer 6

If he liked you he would have told you long ago. Shyness is not a trait of those who labels themselves as being "hot". As a matter of fact he sounds very conceited and pompous and a worshiper of HIM.
My advice would be to steer clear of Mr Wonderful and give yourself a chance of being with someone who will think YOU are great.

Answer 7

Sounds like he's full of himself--WAY too full of himself--and probably not flirting with only you. No phone number=no interest=no commitment=bad situation. Even guys I'm very obviously only friends with have given me their phone numbers! Pass on this one!

Answer 8

sounds like this guy is stuck on him self , and he is not going anywhere with a atittude like that. any guy that actually tells you that he is hot as he thinks he is the best there is , has nothing that you want. stay friends with him, and find a guy that will tell you that you are hot instead of telling you how hot he is all the time.

Answer 9

He probably turned you down because he wanted to ask you for your number and you beat him to the chase. With guys you have to act like they are the ones in control even when you know they aren't.

Answer 10

sure, badgering you with it would be stressful. Your adult men ought to apply a word record. finding warm is advantageous to hearken to a pair of times, yet whilst somebody advised you your hair is gorgeous this nighttime, or i truthfully like that gown on you, or i like your smile, it would propose lots greater. saying you're warm, con notates a sexual reaction incredibly than a compliment. perhaps you incredibly are warm, yet you additionally are someone, no longer a chew of meat on a grill.