shes my best friend, she wsa just in an almost 2 year relatioship that ended unexpectadly. shes had a lot to overcome in her life, such has being abused by her dad, and many other things. shes been drinking and has tryed to kill herself before, she says she wants to kill herself because she can't handle the pain anymore. i don't know what else i can tell her, i need advice
2007-12-03 16:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by helpless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You NEED to go to a teacher or other adult that you can trust and tell them. Would you rather your friend be upset at you for telling on her, or be dead? I'm assuming you're still in school, and if that's the case, go to a teacher, the counselor, anyone there and tell them. She needs more help than you can give her by yourself!
2007-12-03 16:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her call the suicide hot line and talk to someone. You need help from an adult that can help you. You need to tell someone. Your mother, a teacher anyone but do it soon. Do not leave her alone until you get her some help. You never know if she will do it or not but you don't want to find out the hard way. Did they not get her help the last time? She is reaching to you for help. You can tell her that nothing is worth killing herself for and that you love her. Tell her that things will get better even if it does not seem like that now. Good luck honey.
2007-12-04 00:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOSH!!!!!!!! bad things do happen but we dont have the priveledge to kill ourselves because of that, whatever transpired in the past should be a lesson, i almost did that before when i got separated from my husband but i realized that even if there are a lot of dark empty rooms in my life it is still nice to be breathing than be dead....enjoy life its just a challenge for us not only her... there are a lot of pains and a lot of turbulent times in our lives but prayers do wonders... have a great relationship with God and all your worries, anxities and past problems would all be small, you will be a loser when you kill yourself but if you would want to end up as a winner then face all the pains in life you will end up as a great survivor.... remember the song i will survive, it says first i was afraid i was petrified but in the end the song says i will survive!!!! forget all those spider webs in your closet and face tomorrow with a smile
2007-12-04 00:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please ask her to see a pshycologist, and if she doesn't agree try to talk to her mom or a relative so they can help too. I know it's hard, but you have to be around her whenever she needs to talk and try to make plans outdoors so she doesn't get time to think of her problems. I really hope she gets better soon and I'm sure that with a great friend like you she will.
2007-12-04 00:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by --V-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what, you have to be there for her, you have to listen to her talk to you about her problems...im sure there is more down there than just the end of her relationship, propose her activities that will take her mind off dark thoughts. but mainly talk to her mom or even go seek help of a psychologist, if she isnt willing to consult ask the psychologist for advice to help her, i really hope your friend will overcome this. not only for her but also for you, it is hard when ur love one kills himself ( trust me I know) just dont give up on her!!!!
2007-12-04 00:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by chula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that there is help available and that life isn't as bad as it seems. That when you think about suicide it is because of a lack of chemicals in your brain and that they have a medication that can fix it along with therapy.
2007-12-04 00:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Answer2all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs serious therapy.
tell her she should be glad that she is alive and she just needs to be strong and try to help other people in her situation.
I am so sorry, i can totally understand her plea...really sorry to hear that. just be there for her.
2007-12-04 00:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by mercedesgal63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋