Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

get over an ex that completely crushed me but i totally loved (and sadly still do). We have had several hit and miss flame restarters but i guess he just likes to keep putting that fire out. he quit talkin to me for a while and last week he started sendin me horrible cold hearted texts but i seen him on saturday when he came in from college and he told someone that he really missed me and still loved me and wished he could talk to me. I texted him lastnight askin if he wanted to talk to me and he just played around action like he did kinda but still wanted to be mean so i ended up not talkin to him. I know he has hurt me so bad but how do i just finally close that chapter in my life and turn off that love and flame that still burns at me and keeps me on his leash coming back. It crushes me

2007-12-03 05:00:44 · 1 answers · asked by Miranda K 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 04:59:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone has at least one thing they want for Christmas. What's that ONE item you want? Make it reasonable too now people! Don't say spaceship or airplane lol......something reasonable: iPod Touch, a certain car, PS3 (for example).

Well mines is a newer SUV. I would love to have a newer model Ford Explorer ........although I wouldn't mind a BMW X5 lol. Thats mine tho, whats yours?

2007-12-03 04:59:32 · 10 answers · asked by /N/I/C/K/ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys! I have been trying to figure this out...how can I get bigger breasts and bigger arms fast? Without weights..I don't seem to have enough time to go to the gym.

2007-12-03 04:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me.Im in a terrible situation.I had an internet love affair.And me and the guy got really close (mentally) though we used to reside in separate continents.We also used to talk about physical intimacy too.

The guy used to plead me alot to send him my nude pictures.Finally inorder to please him,I indeed send my nu.de. pictures. But I dont have any nu.de. pictures of him.

Now I want to end the relationship with him, and he is blackmailing me to either marry him or have casual s.e.x. with him!!If I dont agree to either,he will publish my pictures on internet and email them to my family.He says that he has lost his virgnity as he saw my n.ud.e pics and we had cyber s.e.x.!!! Hence,he wants me no matter what!

Please tell me what should I do? I dont want to marry him under any cost, nor do I want to have sex with this narrow minded freak..!!! :( PLS HELP ME!

2007-12-03 04:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am reading a book on how to make your love life sizzle and one of them is to pick a night every month to do the household bills together, naked! If that doesn't make a chore enticing!!
Just curious, how many of you would be willing to try it?

2007-12-03 04:55:32 · 17 answers · asked by lippy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating three months

2007-12-03 04:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by Dan G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a great time on a first date. We talked on the phone for hours now and we seem to really connect. I sent her some flowers with the following message "Just because. Hope theses are half as beautiful as you are. Steve"

Was this a good idea or not. I got her these ones...
http://ww12.1800flowers.com/product.do?baseCode=17498&cm_cid=o

let me know. Thanks

2007-12-03 04:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by pws8us 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi! im 28 years old and im in a 3 year relationship with a 23 year old,in the bigining there was lots of sex and i wanted some from him,now the last few months i don't want to have sex im not in the mood anymore,he is not happy with me and is wondering why? when he asks me about it the only thing i could tell him is that im not in the mood,and i really don't know why,can someone help me...thank you
miracle

2007-12-03 04:51:05 · 23 answers · asked by (MIRACLE) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

keep in mind almost every cholo thinks very highly of himself,is conceded and believes he's good at everything.

2007-12-03 04:47:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just curious if many are and if you're D-I-Y kind?

2007-12-03 04:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I called home to see if the wife and kids were okay and she responded that she didn't know where they were and was leaving for work. She has had some bizarre behavior in the past and suffers from MS and depression. The police located her at her employer and verified both kids were safe at school. I have not called her, but we have both contacted divorce attorneys (learned this by checking hime email). I fear for my children's safety and seek full custody. What are my rights? Can I lock her out of the house? Can I leave with the children? Our marriage has been troubled for several years and it is time to move on. The children are afraid to be around her without me present.

2007-12-03 04:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People always say I'm too quiet as if it's a bad thing but I don't think it is. I'm just not loud and attention seeking. Should I try and be more confident or stick to the way I am? Or am I paranoid?

2007-12-03 04:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by My name should go here. 2 in Friends

I have an idea. please give me more or tell me your experience

I'll ask her what She would do if I kissed her.
If it's positive, i'll do it
If it's negitive, i'll just say I was wondering

2007-12-03 04:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really get off on controlling everything in the relationship and my BF has willingly submitted to me. He cooks, cleans and pleases me in most every way. I love it and him. However I feel that I need a real man sexually. Last weekend I joked about sleeping with another man. His eyes were down cast but he didn't reject the idea. He is a little small in that depatment and I just need to satisfy my needs. However I don't want to lose what I have. How should I test him limits/train him to accept my desires?

2007-12-03 04:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by Cynthia C 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I recently started dating a guy, and we began to be sexually active about a week ago. He is a virgin and very old to be one (he's 27, I'm 22), but he said he is ready with me.

Anyway, my problem is I cannot get him to climax. I tried hand jobs, BJ's, and sex with a condom, and it works for awhile but he ultimatly just ends up going soft. I'm on the pill so we tried sex without a condom, which makes me a little nervous (fear of pregnancy even though I'm on the pill, I prefer 2 methods of B/C) but he still wasn't able to get off. I'm not sure why. He says he's just nervous and is just getting used to having sex since he's a virgin. Anyone have any insight as to what might be going on, anyone ever have a similar experience?

ps, only serious answers please. Yes, I'm positive he's not gay, yes he really was a virgin before he met me, etc, etc. I'm coming on here and asking because I'm too embarrased to ask elsewhere.

Thank you all for your help. :-)

2007-12-03 04:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The CNN article below is saying that women won't let a guy get to second base unless he is a good kisser. How important are kissing skills to your romantic choices?

http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/personal/12/03/bad.kissers/index.html

2007-12-03 04:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 14 years. My husband and I have three children. We have had an increadable marriage. We have always been very close, and very much in love. I recently found out that 1.5 years ago over three months he had an affair in another city.This happened over a few seperate visits to that city. The affair consisted of him taking off his wedding ring, asking a women out, taking her to dinner a couple times then it ended up in a hotel.There was no "sex" as he (as confirmed by her) stopped it.He ended the relationship right after that and has had no contact since.( I found this out by his email account which confirms his side of the story).The crazy thing is I NEVER saw this coming.We have always been so close and my hsband so caring with my heart. He is regretful and said that is why he stopped it before it got sexual. And he knows what he did was so wrong. He is doing everything he can to make this better We are seeing a marriage cousiler also. What do u think

2007-12-03 04:30:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, well..
I've been with this guy for over a year. and everything seems to be fine. well I noticed in my boyfriends phone that he has girls numbers in his contact list. I asked him about it and he said it's a girl from work. and i didnt ask anything beyond that.
is this something i should be potentially concerned about? or am I just looking too close into this situation?

2007-12-03 04:29:59 · 37 answers · asked by Gabriella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My age 24 M. Tell me what all things need to be taken care off.
What all to do?
How to do?
How to make my girl happy today so that the wants to sleep with me every night.
I want to be too good tonight.
Please help me
Thanks
TOM

2007-12-03 04:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that roses are the most common and that it is optional to use real or silk, but I am curious what other options there are and what others have done. Thanks!

2007-12-03 04:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by funkmagician 2 in Weddings

My ex got married 8 months ago to another guy. We have a VERY complicated history, we were together 4 years, but each time we were to get married or plan it, or whatever, I got scared and told her to wait. She broke up with me last Dec. 2006 and told me she was tired of waiting, that she wanted to have a baby IMMEDIATELY, and be married. She reconnected with some guy and got married 4 months later. She told me she couldnt trust my false promises anymore. I have and am still devastated, cursing myself, depressed for not marrying her before, I LOVE HERthe complicated thing is that she lives in Spain,I live in the U.S. (she is Spanish). She has told me many times over the past months that she probably made a mistake and loves me so much,but cant risk getting a divorce for me, as she cant trust me as I am so far away.She said I could move there for a period to show her how I feel, but still there would be NO guarantees that this would work or that she would get divorced. What can I do?

2007-12-03 04:19:45 · 13 answers · asked by mano 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question a month ago, but I was just wondering about a few more opinions out there on this topic. If you already saw this question last month, please just disregard it.

Just curious, are there any women today who would enjoy being taken care of by their man?

Assuming they don't have any kids ..And assuming that he's not a control freak or anything like that. ... Are there any women who like it when their live-in-boyfriend/husband takes good care of them financially so that she doesn't have to work? That way she can wake up each day and do things she likes to do with her day, and she's happy to see him when he comes home to her each day. Of course she can go out each day and do whatever she wants.

( Assuming of course that they are in love ), are there any women out there like that today, where she doesn't work because she is generously taken care of by her man?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-12-03 04:18:31 · 25 answers · asked by johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan ) 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question a month ago, but I was just wondering about a few more opinions out there on this topic. If you already saw this question last month, please just disregard it.

Just curious, are there any women today who would enjoy being taken care of by their man?

Assuming they don't have any kids ..And assuming that he's not a control freak or anything like that. ... Are there any women who like it when their live-in-boyfriend/husband takes good care of them financially so that she doesn't have to work? That way she can wake up each day and do things she likes to do with her day, and she's happy to see him when he comes home to her each day. Of course she can go out each day and do whatever she wants.

( Assuming of course that they are in love ), are there any women out there like that today, where she doesn't work because she is generously taken care of by her man?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-12-03 04:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan ) 7 in Singles & Dating

I bought her a GPS divice for Christmas. Is this what she meant? I am trying to give her more lattitude in the relationship, but by degrees. I trust her moral compass. We just need to map out a plan.

2007-12-03 04:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 04:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by Ann j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 04:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by RaseeL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands mom is nice to me and I get along with her and my husband and I have been married for 12 yrs now so I have never had no problems with her but I know she likes to be in charge of eveyone in the family in some way You don't really like to get her mad. But any way My question is that Now that we have a Baby well she is 19 mos old when my daughter is acting up or gets undone she takes her from me like I can't do anything and puts her in the playpen to cry it out in there and tells me not to go in there she will keep it up. She will quit sometimes but not all the time, and to me it feels like I don't have alot of control of her when I'm there. She don't do that to my sister-in-laws kids when they are there and thats her other daughter-in-law too. and they have 5 kids and I have one how can I tell her nicely that I can take care of the problem with out hurting her feelings. My husband is her first child too so I don't know if thats any reason why she does things. Thanks

2007-12-03 04:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by marshmellow 2 in Family

i know many people ask this, but can any..
guys tell me what they do to a girl to show ur interested ?

girls from experince how did u kno he liked u?

Also can any1 give me tips on how to show him i like him.??
any advice welcome!

Thank YOU!!!

2007-12-03 04:08:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that money ia always an issue in marriage but now it is getting so much worse. There is a new baby in the family, his nephew and he wants to do everything in the world for this kid since his sister won't get a job because she wont leave the baby w/ a sitter. I dont' feel we should have to pick up the tab just so he can feel like a bigshot. His anger about everything has been escalating. We can't have an adult conversation about ANYthing. It ALWAYS turns into him screaming at me and telling me that I have an atittude and slamming doors. I do love him but in addition to the above issues, I am in very poor health and he shows zero support for me and what I'm going through. I am at a loss. How do you talk to someone that can't seem to have an adult conversation without yelling? I don't want to leave but the stress of never knowing what will set him off next makes the illness much worse. We both work hard and our jobs are stressful but it shouldn't be doing this. please help.

2007-12-03 04:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce