Please help me.Im in a terrible situation.I had an internet love affair.And me and the guy got really close (mentally) though we used to reside in separate continents.We also used to talk about physical intimacy too.
The guy used to plead me alot to send him my nude pictures.Finally inorder to please him,I indeed send my nu.de. pictures. But I dont have any nu.de. pictures of him.
Now I want to end the relationship with him, and he is blackmailing me to either marry him or have casual s.e.x. with him!!If I dont agree to either,he will publish my pictures on internet and email them to my family.He says that he has lost his virgnity as he saw my n.ud.e pics and we had cyber s.e.x.!!! Hence,he wants me no matter what!
Please tell me what should I do? I dont want to marry him under any cost, nor do I want to have sex with this narrow minded freak..!!! :( PLS HELP ME!
2007-12-03 04:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you even know this mans real name,Address,phone # or anything.I know you are thinking this now but I can't believe you sent pic. to someone you don't really know.It will be hard to do anything with out knowing something about him.I think you need to do some investigating or hire someone to find some thing about him.
2007-12-03 05:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by mary ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he is an idiot.
But how would he send them to your family. Does he have your address? Does he have anyone elses emails.
Could you explain if someone found the pictures on the Internet as being doctored?
Next thing i would do is call the police and inform them. They may want you to meet with him so he can be arrested.
By the way you can lose your virginity by seeing nude pictures. Can he prove he was a virgin before your pictures. Hell no. He is a freak. Don't give in and maybe change your email. Or have some guy call him and threaten to kick his butt. The guy would pretend to be your husband.
Also you should tell your husband what you have done and what is going on. If he does find out some other way its going to be bad. If you tell him he may be hurt but will get over it.
You did two things. Sent nude pictures and masturbated.
That's all you really did.
2007-12-03 05:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends how "serious" this affair actually was. If you two have chatted via web-cam, then you cant lie and say those pics arent of you... otherwise i would tell him that everything was a lie... and to go on a post those pics since they arent of you.
If he knows your family, then you should warn them some obscene pics are coming through... if not, he has no basis.
If he has your address, I would have my neighbors watch my house...
Personally, I would just disappear completely. I would block his address, delete all correspondence from him as if he never existed, delete your account, and completely just lose all contact with him.
This guy is a loser anyway... no normal person would ever say the bogus crap he is saying...
Good luck though. I wouldnt be intimidated or scared. I'd just see what kind of balls he has and watch what he does once you disappear. Let it go, but be prepared at the same time.
2007-12-03 07:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could always report him to the authorities I suppose, if you have proof of what he's threatening to do. I'm not sure if there is anything the cops could do, but it wouldn't hurt to find out. But if that's too drastic, then perhaps you should just let your family know ahead of time what's going on. I mean, surely they would understand that you're human and made a mistake. Besides, they're you're family. That way if he does send pics, they'll know to expect it and probably would just not open the pics. As for the publishing on the internet, who cares. Better that than you selling your soul to the devil to get him off your back!
2007-12-03 05:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Marshmallow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really their is nothing you can do being that you already sent him the pictures. You maybe should have thought about what you were doing before you did it. try to distance yourself from this person (internet wise). Sweetie you never know who you meet here online. They start off being one way but by the time you really get to know them they are someone totally opposite of what you thought they were. Does this person know your family? If not how would they get the information to email your pics? I think you should be careful because this seems like a very aggresive person.
2007-12-03 05:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Thang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police or tell him that you don't care what he does with the pic b/c it isn't you anyway. Play the same game he is playin..he is still a virgin by the way..you can't not lose your virginity thru a computer..that in itself shows how stupid he is. How would he send your pic to your family, does he have their info? Just tell him to do it b/c it's not you and he'll never have you either way or at any costs! delete all of your accounts and create a new ones so he can't find you.
2007-12-03 05:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he's just trying to screw with you. If I were you I would stop all contact with this guy. There are several ppl out there that just like to mess with ppl. I had a guy break into my email account, I had naked pics that i had sent to my bf. He said he was going to send them to everyone in my address book if I didnt get on cam for him. I said no and never had contact with him again. Don't be intimidated by this idiot. In case you have the urge to send naked pics again be sure to leave your face out of it. Good Luck I definitely sympathize with you.
2007-12-03 05:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you realize that you really should have ended this before it got to the point of the nude pictures, right? Blackmail and extortion are against the law so if worse comes to worse, you are going to have to get the authorities involved. This guy could eventually track you down and worse...you failed to end it with red flags everywhere so please do it now.
2007-12-03 05:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and block his e-mail, he will give up, he has no choice, tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you will report him to the police.
2007-12-03 05:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Minustone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report it to the police you have no choice dah im sorry for your problem dont talk to him any more he is posing a threat
2007-12-03 05:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by :( life is a bitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋