Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

19 and live at home with my mom and lil bro. I have a bf of 3 and a half years and he wants to move out. He has a steady job astill takes some college courses working towards a raise. I have a steady job and go to school. Should i go or stay?? Is it time for me to move or need to wait it out?

2007-12-03 04:07:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To clarify a little....I mean isn't it a little strange? I've only been on two internet dates but both guys were really strange. Does anyone else have these problems?

2007-12-03 04:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by jamus 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a young stay at home mom. my boyfriend is gone all day at work... leaves at 5 am gets home around 6 30 pm then when he gets home he is to tired to do anything.... i just get bored.... dont want to spend a bunch of money doing something... our daughter is only 4 months old... im just bored and lonely and have nothing to do.... suggestions please?

2007-12-03 04:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i can't stand anymore!!i always trying to say to her that she always disturbing me but i afraid she don't want to friend with me anymore...any suggestion?

2007-12-03 04:05:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17 years old. We've been going out since October 10th, 2006- So it's been a little over a year. And do my parents know about him? Yes, they both like him and I think that they know it's been over a year.
We used to live near each other (like a 10min walk), but we both moved. =/ So basically we have a long distance relationship now.

Anyway, the thing is... He's very verbally abusive and it hurts me so much and makes me scared. I cry alot, and whenever I try to call him to tell him how i'm feeling, he always says something like "you're crying about things that don't exist in your head. like how you think i'm cheating on you, or if i'm gonna break up with you." and he always says this " I used to care when you cry, but now I don't since you cheated on me (i cheated on him for a month. personal problem)." He always calls me a ***** and always brings up the past, when he should be happy that we've been together for so long.

2007-12-03 04:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by sakuya v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-03 04:00:34 · 16 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

recently, a guy asked me whether i saw him as a friend or something more. i confessed i that i had a crush on him. he said he adored me as his friend and liked me. he also said that i was his priority one and in college he liked hanging out with me the most.
the question: is he interested in going around with me in or not if no then why would he ask me that question in the first place... did i make a mistake by confessing
people please do help as i am really confused...

2007-12-03 04:00:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Theres a guy I used to work with. I asked him out for a drink ONCE when we first started working together and that was the only time we ever hung out outside of work. During the time we worked together he expressed tha the liked me...over IM ..everything he ever said about it to me was through IM, in person..different story. He even asked me out once over IM but never said anything about it in person so it never happened. He eventually moved to Boston without anything ever happening betweeen us and he didn't really keep in touch. I sent him a myspace message recently just to say hey and he responded by giving me his new screen name (which he changed without telling me) and his phone number telling me to call him. I IMed him and he told me that he was coming to town soon and he wanted me to meet him at the airport and then hang out. I am just not sure about this whole thing. I mean he knew I was interested when he lived here and claimed he was but made NO effort in person. He continually expresses in IMs how attracted to me he is but he never calls and rarely makes initial contact. It was almost a week ago that he brought up the meeting him at the airport thing and I haven't talked to him since. While I let a guy know I'm interested, I am not the type to vigerously pursue a guy. What does this whole situation mean?? I like him a lot but come on !

2007-12-03 03:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

My uncle just died and the funeral is going to be held on Wed.
I was a victim of incest and the person who committed it will be there. I haven't seen this person since it happened and I am terrified. I was thinking about not going but my uncle meant alot to me and I want to go. I was very young when it happened and my mom decided not to pursue justice. I don't know what to do? I want to honor my uncle by going to his funeral but I am scared of what will happen when I see my relative?? Anyone had problems like this before? Thanks in advance.

2007-12-03 03:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by poptart_babe06 2 in Family

My marriage of seven years is ending. My soon-to-be ex has a girlfriend, who he has at his apartment, and who has become a fixture in my kids' lives there. I pick them up and get to hear all about the woman and her son, and all the fun stuff they do together.

I don't want to hate my soon-to-be ex husband. I'm going to have to deal with him and whatever lifestyle he chooses for the next fourteen years, and more, because we have two kids together, and neither of us want to lose them.

I'm not interested in making him hurt more, and I don't think going out looking for someone else three weeks after he split is that smart.

I know people get over this kind of thing, seeing as a huge percentage of marriages end in divorce, but I just can't see HOW I am going to be able to get over it.

Am I the only one who has this feeling like no one has ever hurt THIS MUCH?

Other than being vindictive, or jumping into a relationship when I still love him, what do I do?

2007-12-03 03:53:19 · 23 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have been casually dating this guy for 2 years. This weekend were kissing and hugging a little, and he tells me that he loves me. Then he says, I've already got your mind and your body, I want into your heart... all I ask is that you love me. I didn't say anything back... I was like in shock. So we have sex, and during the act he keeps asking me if I love him. I really do but I didn't want to tell him because I didn't want to feel vulnerable.

My eyes were closed and he told me to open them and he says "I Love You ". Should I take him seriously? I mean I know men say whatever during sex.

2007-12-03 03:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am acquainted with a very sweet woman who talks too much. She always has to share personal problems with our group of friends. She also calls us at home and doesn't seem to realize she's taking up too much time. I know I sound cold and unfeeling but I'm tired of listening to her! I don't want to hurt her feelings but can't take much more of her yakking. Can you suggest a gentle way to deal with her?

P.S. I don't have caller ID on my home phone and don't want to get it, so please don't make that suggestion.

2007-12-03 03:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Miz D 6 in Friends

When you become engaged, is it okay to have a ring that isnt just a diamond?

2007-12-03 03:50:49 · 25 answers · asked by Alina's Mommy 3 in Weddings

2007-12-03 03:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by smartshady10 1 in Friends

how do i tell if the guy i like is stairing at me cause he thinks i'm funny looking or he thinks i'm pretty?

2007-12-03 03:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know dumb question but me and a mate have dared each other 2 get the most answers. if not then i have 2 something. do not know what he have not decided.i would have just say give me lots answers but thats not playing by the rules. i`m asking 4 at lest two hundred

2007-12-03 03:48:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-03 03:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by muffie 2 in Family

I have been with my boyfiend for almost 2 /12 years and we are also moving towards getting engaged.

Early on in our relationship, we had some turbulance because two of his ex-girlfriends began to actively pursue him when they found out that he was getting serious with me. They would call him, send him cards for very occassion, etc. It really caused tension between he & I, because I knew that they had motives and I felt that he was perpetuating their interest by always responding to their calls, exchanging cards w/them still, etc.

I am not a controlling person, but I did ask him to please cut them both off, because of their unresolved feelings for him. They obviously were still trying to stay in his life for the wrong reasons.

Well, it's the holidays and by no means was I snooping, but I saw his Christmas Cards about to go out (he owns a small business) for clients & some personal contacts, and sure enough one of his exes was on there.

Should I be upset? I feel it......

2007-12-03 03:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by HRgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married with two kids and still getting in trouble by my parents. In there defense I was a horrible teenager. I was mean and got into a lot of trouble. This didn't end until the day I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. After that my whole life changed. But somehow our relationship didn't. I used to think that I couldn't make them happy because I was doing everything wrong but now ....I have two babies, one with Autism, I run a home daycare and a household....and now they are so quick to judge everything I do and if it is not the way they wanted me to do it , they let me know. They do help me out a lot with the kids ( helping me transport my daughter to and from calsses and babysitting when we need it) but I feel like I have to sit back and take it cause I can't afford to make them mad and not help me anymore. I am sensative by nature but this is really starting to stress me and my husband out. We are grown adults and shouldn't have to worry about making......

2007-12-03 03:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by mykidsrcuter 3 in Family

I am of the Pentecostal/Holiness faith and I am trying to figure ouit is it wrong to celebrate Chrsitmas. My boyfriend wants to make sure that it won't be a problem when we are married. Because his family has church, dinner, and prayer. (No Santa Claus, no lying to children) so is there anything wrong with going with him? I want us to be together, but I don't want to do it if it's wrong.
Pentecostal/ Holiness even Baptist answers welcomed!

2007-12-03 03:41:39 · 23 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Weddings

i have noticed this from women i have dated and from girls on y/a they are always talking about mens hands.whats up with that i have never looked at a girls hands and been like ohh she has the prettyiest hands i have ever seen.

2007-12-03 03:40:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 6.5 yrs. I recently befriended a girl I work with and I've developed very strong feelings for her. We both have admitted that we have feelings for each other. I still feel that I love my girlfriend though. I feel like I'm being torn apart on the inside. I would be throwing all those years away, but I can't escape how I feel. I only wanted to make a new friend since I have a hard time making friends, and I now I feel like I'm falling for this girl, which was never my intention at all. I don't know what to do with these feelings.

2007-12-03 03:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by The Batman 1 in Singles & Dating

Weve known eachother for a long time. we both are in similar situations dealing with recent breakups. weve been talking alot. and hanging out when he comes in town. i feel like its way too soon to have feelings for someone else. i wish i didnt. but everytime we hang out i start getting the feeling more and more that there might be something there. but i dont want there to be because i feel like it could make things hard for me. Plus if anything did happen the relationship would be long distance. And hes about to apply to med school. Im about to apply to grad school. how should i handle the way im feeling? if this is going to happen should i let him make the first move? or should i talk to him about it? or should i just try and ignore it?

2007-12-03 03:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend of three years finally admits to me that he is scared to meet my family. He thinks because he is alot older then i am and that he is of a different race that my family will just act two face and smile in his face and laugh behind his back. I think if my family loves me they will accept him for the person that he is no matter what. I don't think my family is that shallow but then again I'm not sure. My family is very important to me but i don't want to get his feelings hurt. What should I do?

2007-12-03 03:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by MIA 3 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a pen pal, I dont know how to go about it. I am not a loaner or anything like that. You sometimes you just want to talk to people that you dont know and they dont know you.

2007-12-03 03:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by Twinkle 2 in Friends

I have heard about it but I don't know anything about it.

2007-12-03 03:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to get social security benefits for my 14 yr. old son. His father died at age 18 when my son was 3 months old. We were not married at the time, but he is on the birth certificate. Can my son get benefits?

2007-12-03 03:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by jfkmorrell 1 in Family

2007-12-03 03:31:36 · 22 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my friend who has had a reputation for being a moody cow just put the icing on the cake today. We were walking down from school, and then I said,"Thomas is really hard on robyn" and then she went "so are you", I stopped and then said,"Like when ?", then she stormed off saying "Stfu." She has done this before, every time it gets to me. So I went up to Robyn and SHE even said,"You are not like that at all." She then pulled me so a sub clued area,"Listen, don't let her contradict you, she is a moody ***** and is saying that for the sake of it, don't let it get to you" I know my friend is right but I still feel depressed. Moody cow used to do this (I've asked prev. questions) a lot. She was the one who was the bully. Why do I still feel depressed even though my friend told me that ? I feel so betrayed and insecure right now ...

2007-12-03 03:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by pop 4 in Friends

I'm getting married in May and my dad and I recently starting thinking about the rehearsal dinner. I only have 4 in our wedding party and our parents, is anyone else suppose to go?

2007-12-03 03:27:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings