Well I have been casually dating this guy for 2 years. This weekend were kissing and hugging a little, and he tells me that he loves me. Then he says, I've already got your mind and your body, I want into your heart... all I ask is that you love me. I didn't say anything back... I was like in shock. So we have sex, and during the act he keeps asking me if I love him. I really do but I didn't want to tell him because I didn't want to feel vulnerable.
My eyes were closed and he told me to open them and he says "I Love You
2007-12-03 03:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This wasn't the first time we had sex btw.
2007-12-03 03:52:24 · update #1
Wow! It sounds to me like he's very sincere! Especially if you've already had sex, why would he say that just to get some? You've been together 2 years, I'm surprised he hasn't said it already!
I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like this guy is really serious about you. It sounds like he was making love to you more than just having sex, if you understand the difference.
If you don't love him back, it sounds like you need to end it because he's really crazy for you. If you do love him back, then say it! It probably hurt him that you wouldn't say it back during sex.
It sounds like you've been hurt in the past. Yeah, some men will say whatever you want to hear to get in your pants. But that doesn't mean men can't mean what they say. That really applies more to guys looking for a one-nighter anyway. He's been with you 2 years, why would he lie to bed you at this point?
Take him seriously girl! Don't be a man-hater. Men can be sincere and really love you. Don't trivialize that thinking men can't feel emotion or mean what they say when sex is involved.
2007-12-03 04:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only real pearson that can answer that question is you. Because you're the only one that can feel the love if it's there . Just the simple fact that this wasn't the first time you two had sex what would he really earn by telling you this now? He already got the coo so what more could he want?
2007-12-03 04:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
distinctive translations of the bible might propose love and charity are synonmus. Examples contemporary in.1st Corrinthians ch. 13 vs. a million-17 illustrate this many situations. i might delight in listening to from a student of the languages utilized in those previous situations to make sparkling my understanding. the story of the "international's Poorest Philanthropist", Gilbert "Harold" Ewing II (myself) is the reason of this querry. The " act of grace", or charity, reffered to interior the information interview, has posited this question and that i lack the type of education to furnish any insights of real value.
2016-10-18 23:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew if for 2 years, and have had sex before, then he probably means it. If you love him, tell him. Sex can very emotional, so I think its fine to say it during.
2007-12-03 03:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps telling you because he wants you to say it back. The longer you wait, the more he is going to worry and begin to feel like you don't want to be with him anymore. I suggest if you love him, tell him how you feel. Guys don't just want sex all the time, we do want to feel loved too just like women do.
2007-12-03 03:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by mark c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder then words. Sounds like to me that he was serious but only you can be the judge of that. Always follow your heart & go with your instinct. Love can be very hard. Good Luck!
2007-12-03 04:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he did and perhaps he didn't you need to ask him.. Don't do like many do they believe everything and anything from a man especially when they try to get into the sack with you. I know of someone who says just the right things to any women..and it works for they believe or is they got brainwashed?
2007-12-03 03:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by !@#$% 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall have been together for 2years its possible that he could really be telling the truth. Ask him what is it about you that hes loves and why do he love. If he gives you a real answer without hesitation he may be legit
2007-12-03 03:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he love you b4 ya'll had sex take for what it was he loves you. But you got to gt over your fears of letting him love you b4 you can love back Good Luck In the Future
2007-12-03 04:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is one and only way to find out whether he is in love with u or not is to stick around with him for awhile but no sex when he ask for it. See his reaction to it if he still wants you as what u r (w out having sex) then I might say yes he is in love with you otherwise don't trust him.It's very easy to say "I love you"
2007-12-03 04:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋