Ok, my friend who has had a reputation for being a moody cow just put the icing on the cake today. We were walking down from school, and then I said,"Thomas is really hard on robyn" and then she went "so are you", I stopped and then said,"Like when ?", then she stormed off saying "Stfu." She has done this before, every time it gets to me. So I went up to Robyn and SHE even said,"You are not like that at all." She then pulled me so a sub clued area,"Listen, don't let her contradict you, she is a moody ***** and is saying that for the sake of it, don't let it get to you" I know my friend is right but I still feel depressed. Moody cow used to do this (I've asked prev. questions) a lot. She was the one who was the bully. Why do I still feel depressed even though my friend told me that ? I feel so betrayed and insecure right now ...
2007-12-03 03:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by pop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She lol. Thanks for that, I might even do that to the ho ! :D
2007-12-03 03:33:46 · update #1
Okie dokie...Moody cow is not a real friend, honey. Real friends are not emotional vampires. You need to stick to hanging out with Robyn and others who DON'T depress you! Hang in there, high school can be tough, but it helps define you as a person; as an adult later on. It sounds like Moody Cow has issues of her own that need to be solved w/out the help of her peers. Just tell her, "If you need me to listen, I will. But, if you're going to try and drag me down with you, I'm sorry, but I won't allow that to happen." Good luck babe!
2007-12-03 03:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if you know that the "moody cow" was just having a mood swing, it's only natural for your feelings to be hurt after you've been told to STFU. Perhaps you should set her aside and let her know that even though you understand that she has her moods, you're not going to put up with being treated that way. If she doesn't get it or isn't willing to listen, it's time to let her go!
2007-12-03 11:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by tangerine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should actually talk to the girl and try to understand why she is so moody. There's a reason for everything. Maybe she's under a lot of stress and doesn't know how to cope with it. I have major mood swings and a lot of people don't understand. But don't let yourself be so depressed. It's not worth it. Life goes on. :] You'll be fine, I believe you will.
2007-12-03 11:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its going to make you feel that way because it seems you care a lot about your friend, Another thing most likely she's moody and stuff because she is insecure, and she can't seem to find a way out of being insecure.
2007-12-03 11:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi what you should do is grow some balls and stand on your feet.
If thay are your mate's thay will help you. Not kick you when you are down and if thay do thay kick you. Than thay are not true mates. P.S the only thing you can trust is you and you a lone. PPS been in your shoes more than than you wanna know
2007-12-03 11:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by William B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friend is blaming you for something that she is trying to hide. If she haas been doin ths for a whilee, you obv should not be friends with her .Sometimes females can just be as bad as men (n/o)...If ROBYN dines it and says it isn't true, take her word for it. Do not let it get to you.
Thanks for helpni me out on ma question !
2007-12-03 12:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get to you. If you really didn't do anything- Then you should not be making yourself feel bad- Just advoid her while she is in her/his mood swings. If you have to get involved- Just tell her straight out- Dont talk to me like that and walk away.
2007-12-03 11:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by SophieGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter what other people think that's there opinion. If she's moody like that it's not you it's her maybe you should stay away from her. Don't her pull you into her negativity
2007-12-03 11:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Toogood 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant help these things
just smoke a peace pipe with her
then everyone's mellow and chill
its cool man theres always these kinds of people
if you guys are like teens then its just hormones of some sort
dont worry bout it
2007-12-03 11:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by English H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it dont really make no sense..u shouldn't stress urself or base urself on wat neone has to say...she or he or whoever is jus a hater, u obviously got somethin or a quality they want...trust me even the ugliest person is envied at times, and if ur not ugly at all jus get used to haters..n fyi, dont know if ur a girl or a guy, but either way i doubt ur in elementry school...thats some lil girl stuff...n if u a dude, u sound gay on da internet dude, man up..
2007-12-03 11:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Man 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋