2007-12-03 03:31:36 · 22 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is always unconditional. And it is a "choice". We have to choose to live in love! If Jesus gave us two Commandments: "To love God with all our love, with all our hearts, with all our strength" and "to love our fellow men like ourselves", it means that we can choose to love and then act accordingly. Love is respectful and over any suspicions.
2007-12-03 03:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Desir D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people. There are some people that place conditions on the ones they fall in love with - and they don't do it consciously. I think all love should be unconditional. Doesn't mean it always happens that way.
I am in love with my husband, and it's a romantic love...but it's most definitely unconditional.
I LOVE my children with all my heart, but it's not a romantic love...but it's most definitely unconditional.
I fell in love, when I was younger, and the guy turned out to be a jerk....that was most definitely NOT unconditional love.
2007-12-03 03:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all love except one has conditions
there is all way's a conditions in love , and a consequence of breaking the conditions. Including in the bible if a wife commits adultery that was subjected to a punishment of death by getting stoned by the entire village. Meaning will you still romantically love a person who broke that kind of commitment.
the only love that is unconditional is the bond from a A Parent and a child .
2007-12-03 03:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by working together 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question.
I believe that the love itself is unconditional, yes, mainly at first.
However, for long term success of romantic love, the conditions of trust, honesty, loyalty and respect take on more of a presence and therefore, over time, romantic love does become somewhat conditional.
It takes a lot of work to keep it alive.
2007-12-03 03:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Teetana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well "romantic" love is unconditional while the person is feeling the effects...once it wears off then who knows... i think men can be cruel to their girlfriends when they are not in love with them anymore. Women can be mean too.
2007-12-03 03:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think romantic love is conditional. Romantic love is basically loving the feeling of being in love and isn't a real commitment to the person.
2007-12-03 03:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by snoozer43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
romantic love (in and of itself) is an early stage, and should progress to an unconditional/romantic love
2007-12-03 03:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, neva ! There is no such thing as 'unconditional' in the world. It just doesn't add up. What is unconditional for one person, is conditional for another.
2007-12-03 03:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Miss De Vill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think romantic love is unconditional. We all have requirements and expectations for our romantic love and if those aren't met we fall out of love. For instance, many people will fall out of love with their spouse if their spouse gains significant weight - if they loved their spouse unconditionally, it wouldn't matter. Bad behavior from your spouse or romantic love will also cause you to stop loving them.
Most, but not all, parents love their children unconditionally. Even if your child is a disappointment to you, you still love them. Even if your child exhibits bad behavior or is a fat little kid, you still love them. You love them merely because they exist.
2007-12-03 03:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by mollyflan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortnately, for us humans, nothing is unconditional. God's love for us is the only thing which is unconditional.
2007-12-03 03:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋