i am a young stay at home mom. my boyfriend is gone all day at work... leaves at 5 am gets home around 6 30 pm then when he gets home he is to tired to do anything.... i just get bored.... dont want to spend a bunch of money doing something... our daughter is only 4 months old... im just bored and lonely and have nothing to do.... suggestions please?
2007-12-03 04:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
have tried home day care but no bites.... its a small town and they are already established... he wants me to be at home... and i def. dont think i could leave my child with someone i dont know... it would just be to hard on me... i am dcef. a worrier...
2007-12-03 04:28:28 · update #1
my wife and i ran into this when we started it takes alot of changes with a new baby i dont know your living situation but a home daycare is a good way to spend time as well as having the extra income never hurts as for your husband been there done that the tension of a 12+hour work day is horrible and make for a long evening im sure when you are in need of attention but hope you stay well and enjoy that new baby
2007-12-03 04:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by michaeL J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww.. ;( Well.. seeing as you have a young daughter your first concern should be tending to her.. but it sounds like your responsible, and do that already. There isn't much I can suggest to you.. other than to find something you were interested in when you were either in school.. or when you were a kid.. something, and pursue it again. Your happiness is important. Me, for example.. got into anime.. it's something to watch and keep me entertained, it's easily something to become interested in, and it's easily accessible over the Internet. I realize since you have a kid to look after it may limit your options.. but you'll find something :) I'm sure your boyfriend will not be on that kind of time clock forever, either.. so chin up, eh?
I would suggest finding a good Anime to watch and go from there.. but that's me, and not everyone is into that.. so just go for something easily doable in your situation, that's also fun.
Good luck, sweetheart.
2007-12-03 12:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bliss in Ignorance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any skills - you could try a work from home thing. Are you financially able to be staying home with your child? I know these days it's tough to make it on one income. Also - I'm sure there are many day care centers who could use volunteers - you probably don't have to be certified and you can take your little one with you.
2007-12-03 12:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go work at a daycare center. This way u can bring your daughter there and make money also. Do babysitting in your home. Start a playgroup with moms in your area.
2007-12-03 12:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the child in daycare and get a job or take a few classes...
He is only your boyfriend, not your husband and what would happen, if he decided he no longer wanted to be your boyfriend.
Look out for yourself...
2007-12-03 12:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can find a part time job......or just find work u can do at home....I only u can only do so much as far as home chores go...so look on the paper or online for anything that you can do from home....stuff envelopes? something...
2007-12-03 12:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ mocha-baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have girlfriends? hang out with them and leave the babe with her daddy for a couple hours. go for coffee.take a drive. browse the book or music stores. sometimes, we have to make our own fun and not wait for someone to join us.
2007-12-03 12:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start the new way..
instead of getting your bfriend bored and both of you are bored..
just save the time and money to do something unusually done by you..
for example, bath your bfriend..
hehehehe..
just a kidding example..
(^_^)
2007-12-03 12:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by lutfi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nudge nudge - say no more
2007-12-03 12:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne ahrRg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋