Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

Is there a link between why my guy doesn't want to make love very often and winter? my guy just hasn't been up to making love as often as I have been lately. I am starting to get worried I am not attractive enough for him when we started dating he wanted it all the time now after 10 months it is very hard to get him in the mood and I have even come right out and asked if he wanted to have sex then he laughs and tells me I'm cute. I'm very confused on what the heck is going on? we are both 20. I have tried everything I can think of what am I doing wrong? I have tried waking him up in the mornings to certain things and he says he wants to go back to sleep. I am starting to get depressed and am about to give up. here is a pic below. do you think he is just losing interest? he said he wants to marry me. I am so confused...
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=45263686&albumID=558388&imageID=7717947

2007-12-03 08:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my gf for 9 weeks now and she has started talking to this lad she used to like before she got with me now i'm a bit scared she'll get off with him but she says she won't and to trust her i'm a bit lost what should i do? thanks

2007-12-03 08:27:34 · 22 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 08:27:20 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have been married for a while, but now, i realize ive fallen completely out of love with him. we're totally wrong for one another and i realize it now. How do i break it to him that i just feel nothing for him anymore? i dont want to hurt him but i cant string him along either!! HELP!

2007-12-03 08:26:38 · 44 answers · asked by Jubilee S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

omg i love this pic :P

http://img518.imageshack.us/img518/1240/17742673a4005365423b727hb8.jpg

2007-12-03 08:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Inconspicuous 2 in Singles & Dating

Thinking how christmas and eveything use to be I would do anything to be a kid again.

2007-12-03 08:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by uhuhkmmk 2 in Singles & Dating

When you lose trust in your husband and lose faith/security/love - can you ever get it back. I try, but I always seem to hold on to the thoughts of him lying, etc.... Have you ever got the trust/love back and how did you do it?

2007-12-03 08:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by lilwoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm gone all day, guaranteed because of work and school. But I swear my stuff is moved around. I'm looking for some sort of effective, but relatively cheap, way to prove it before I confront her; I just moved in three months ago.

2007-12-03 08:21:37 · 47 answers · asked by rebeccacoons 2 in Friends

I'm still a teen but I'm wondering about something. I'm an Atheist and what if I marry a Christian girl? I would allow God to be our witness to please my girl and her in laws but I don't want everyone to say that I submit to the Christian faith because I don't.

Also what is considered an "American" wedding? If an American wedding can be non-Christian, then thank you. I like a girl whose Agnostic.^^

Thanks for reading.

2007-12-03 08:21:11 · 13 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Weddings

2007-12-03 08:20:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. i talk to this guy every night. and by the time its midnight our conversatins get dirty. but the sad thing is i have told him EVERYTHING i want to do to him...and vice versa... and i CANNOT think of anything else i wanna do. so can some guys tell me what they would wanna hear their girl say to them when thier on the phone that would turn them on( in other words what do you guys want girls to tell you their goin to do to you???)

2007-12-03 08:20:15 · 18 answers · asked by sk8erkat1210 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I aren't exactly "formal" people, but the site of our wedding is very beautiful and it costs a pretty penny. We are prioritizing the site and the food over some other things like flowers and decor and legions of bridesmaids. Even so, we are on a budget.

We were looking at the pricing for the caterer we want to use. If we use high-quality plasticwear instead of traditional china, we can save $10 per head -- which is over $1,500 when it all adds up.

My question is, will our guests find this tacky? If our wedding were in a backyard, I'm sure they wouldn't object to plasticwear, but since we're having it in a beautiful mansion it seems as though it might be out of place.

Thoughts? Advice?

2007-12-03 08:19:17 · 34 answers · asked by ay ya 2 in Weddings

I know for a fact she is at her parents house, and that is the problem. Their house is filty, dogs peeing and sh**ing everywhere. My wife at work and so is her mom during the day leaving only her father to care for my baby, and he is handicapped. Im so worried about my daughters living condition, but my wife will not have anything to do with me. And no im not beating her. She does this after every arguement. What can I do? I want my daughter here with me, its so much cleaner at my house.

2007-12-03 08:18:04 · 27 answers · asked by dli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 months...we both love each other...he's 18, i'm 17...he's not a virgin, and i'm waiting until i'm married. He says he can wait forever for me..which is sweet, but i just feel bad. When we are making out and he gets "excited" i can't do anything...and he has to just wait it out. I just wanna know if i should worry about how he is handling this, since he's not gonna have sex unless we're married...or he goes somewhere else to get it, which i know he wouldnt do.

2007-12-03 08:16:56 · 17 answers · asked by HoldYourHand2817 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi am 31 an i havent a clue about dating at this age really.. I've had relationships before but me an the girlfriend broke up about 2 years ago.. An i just ture myself into my work an had alot of commits to my family etc etc. An had to get a spine operation which left me laying up for a while.. An i just relised the other day what the hell am i doing i have being with anyone in nearly 2 years.. Now am nervious about going back on the dating seen.. I dont have a clue what its like now a days.. Any advice for me girls.. ??????????

2007-12-03 08:16:42 · 2 answers · asked by Irish816 3 in Singles & Dating

she is in school and working part time I have always told her if u need money ask me or your Dad. Shes not on drugs she has her own jewelry but took mine I told her if she did not get it out I would put her in jail but now I don't trust her at all and she would not give mea reason why she has done this, by the way she is twenty-four and living at home.

2007-12-03 08:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by lety1575 1 in Family

Has anyone out there been in a marriage where the husband no longer trys hard at resolving conflict, and instead just avoids it. I can remember when my husband and I would always talk out our problems and when he cared just as much if not more than I did about resolving them. He has always been stubborn though and stood for days in the past not speaking to me.I am afraid that by me most always being the one to give in to his stubborness that I have made him too sure of me and now acts not to care to work on the marriage. He treats me nice and polite but does not even bring up the argument and does not make any effort to resolve it. We just talk as if nothing has happened. I am beginning to feel so sad, alone, like he does not care. How does a girl get her husband to not be too sure of her? My question probably sounds dumb, but I am serious, this is making me feel not cared for and taken for granted. He acts nice but does not show motivation or concern.

2007-12-03 08:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 08:15:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was previously married. He still has a close relationship with the ex, we are now having our 1st baby, they didn't have kids, but deep inside I'm afraid he still likes her, you never forget your 1st love??? is he over her??

2007-12-03 08:14:37 · 33 answers · asked by ...... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 38, married for 9 years with 2 great kids , I feel like I do everything for my Wife... So much to the point that I'm starting to feel bitter twords her. I do it all the cooking the cleaning everything. Heres a typical day, I get her out of bed a 5:45 I start coffe and Iron everyons clothes for the day. she gets herself ready for work wile i get the kids out of bed, fed and dressed for the day. The kids are 5 and 8. She leaves for work. I get the kids off to school and then go to work. I come home after work make dinner. She "can't cook" clean up after dinner usualy start laundry most nights put the kids to bed at 8:30. Lately I have been working in the garage getting ready for a pending addition to our house. I come back in the house about 10:00 and fold laundry at which point she (sitting on the couch) says why dont you leave that for tomorow.. Am I missing something.? This is the way it has always been, have I created this monster by not making her do more of the work..

2007-12-03 08:13:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've seen comments where other girls called him, sugar, babe, sweetie, etc...they throw themselves all over him.

When I told him that I don't like some of the comments that are left by these girls at his school, he responded by saying that he can't control what others write on his page.

Am I overreacting, or you any of you feel that this is a legitimate reason to be upset?....It really makes me uncomfortable and I don't like it at all, but at the same time, I hope I'm not just being paranoid.

(He is 21 and I am 20)

2007-12-03 08:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy I've started going out with has only ever been with fat girls (I'm not saying curvy to be polite, because they are fat, flabby arms, 3 layered stomachs etc and not particularly attractive although nice ppl i'm sure) and I'm slim and slender but i'm not sure how far he has gone with these girls or if they were just fun 'high school girlfriends' because they were friends....

So can guys be attracted to fat and slim girls?

Thanx, and I do not mean to seem rude!

2007-12-03 08:12:21 · 18 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Singles & Dating

After you have talked to him or her and got to know that person a lil more, did you think it was ok to date that person online?

2007-12-03 08:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you've already made repeated attempts to talk about his/her behaviour to no avail?

2007-12-03 08:09:41 · 30 answers · asked by Kynysca 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he does not remember how it got in there or how long it was in there,,, he bought the car the weekend before our first date, we dated in that car, We went off and eloped with his/my children in that car. We have only been married 6 months how am I to believe that it was not in there for a reason??? Am I over-reacting??

2007-12-03 08:09:10 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

married for 3.5 years i have a 1 year old. my husband from the starting has issues with me. i never understand why? and now its gotten worse.. he curses at me for no reason, or reasons so small like not putting the laundry away!! he gets mad when he wants to and not talk for dayss.. expects things from me all the time but when i expect says i am too demanding..
when iw as pregnant on our trip to NY i had his laptop in my lap, and i was going to put it on the back seat it sort of slipped but ended up fine on the seat.. he started swearing at me so much (which he knows i hate) also hit me so hard that i started bleeding from my both lips.. never said sorry ..when we got there he got extra rude with me .. then few hours later he acted as if nothing happend!! i tried to talk and get mad..but got scared he might do something again.. i know i have put up with it just cz of my baby.. if i file for divorce will i get my baby's custody or can he get it.. i have no clue so am asking pls help

2007-12-03 08:08:40 · 16 answers · asked by angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are married and you wanted to have sex but your partner didn't and you forced yourself on them- even though they said to stop- is that still rape?

2007-12-03 08:08:23 · 45 answers · asked by srk fan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this earlier,
But people kept on answering it as if it was 'If I was your daughter, would you let me go?'

So,
I'm sixteen, and so is my boyfriend Paolo.
We've been together for a year now.
It's his birthday soon, and he's asked me to spend it in Italy with him for the weekend. I'd love to, but my parents aren't so keen on the idea.

I live in England, so Italy's only a short flight away. It's not exactly going to the other side of the world.
Paolo is Italian too (hence the name, like full on Italian.. not just has an Italian heritage) and he used to live in Naples, which is where we'd be going. He'll be staying with his grandparents- therefore, so will I.

Pao and I HAVE discussed sex before, and he said he's not going to force me to do anything I don't want to, likewise he doesn't want to rush into things as we're both young and still growing up and making decisions.

My parents have met Paolo several times, and are very fond of him.

How can I make them let me go?

2007-12-03 08:07:36 · 44 answers · asked by DinoxDemi 3 in Family

in houston tx can a 15 yr old girl that lives with thier parents be in a common law marriage if parents agree, both ppl share same bank account, and have lived together for a year?

2007-12-03 08:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by ShAyDe ChAoS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 72 and not ashamed to say it. I get tired easy. How much should my husband help me with?

2007-12-03 08:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by ALICE B 3 in Marriage & Divorce