Is there a link between why my guy doesn't want to make love very often and winter? my guy just hasn't been up to making love as often as I have been lately. I am starting to get worried I am not attractive enough for him when we started dating he wanted it all the time now after 10 months it is very hard to get him in the mood and I have even come right out and asked if he wanted to have sex then he laughs and tells me I'm cute. I'm very confused on what the heck is going on? we are both 20. I have tried everything I can think of what am I doing wrong? I have tried waking him up in the mornings to certain things and he says he wants to go back to sleep. I am starting to get depressed and am about to give up. here is a pic below. do you think he is just losing interest? he said he wants to marry me. I am so confused...
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=45263686&albumID=558388&imageID=7717947
2007-12-03 08:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry our relationship isnt about sex lol its just that the only problems we have happen to be about sex other than that we have the perfect relationship. we are close and we even live together and we are very happy. except with this issue. its not enough to make me leave him and i am most deff. not going to cheat on him because i dont get it enough. he is everything to me.
2007-12-03 12:43:30 · update #1
If you keep doing the same position time and time again, sex can get monotonous and boring. Try different positions and foreplay.
If all fails, give me a call. lol
2007-12-03 08:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, he might just be going through some stuff right now... have u told him how he is making u feel by not having sex with you? alot of the time when a relationship matures then you may find that sex life may decline due to comfortability levels and that the relationship may simply not be about sex anymore, but the connection between the two of you.
I hope i have helped a bit
Best wishes
2007-12-03 08:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by friendly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be seasonal affect disorder - a genuine case of winter blues. It might also be that he's just cold - make sure your bedroom is warm enough when you make love. There's also a distant chance that some seasonal change in diet or exercise habits might affect his energy level.
2016-05-28 00:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by liliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the winter it's cold and very groggy. I'm 14 and I'm not a boy, but I have never heard of people screwing around in the winter. Winter is all cozy and comfy, not like sexy.
2007-12-03 08:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by *Katie* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Sweetheart, Sweety until you are satisfied sexually do not. I repeat do not get married ! No winter is the best time for lovers to snuggle and make love !
2007-12-03 08:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I can do it anytime my wife ask! I would love for her to ask more often too!
WOW, I just looked at your pictures on myspace and what is his problem??????? I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off of you if you were my GF!
2007-12-03 08:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dont worry i will give u ideas how to arouse him and i m sure u will benefit by it do say me ur mail address
2007-12-03 17:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by happening male 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your pretty and something seems fishy but if he don't **** you soon dump him.
2007-12-03 08:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn.
i don't know what he is thinking =D
2007-12-03 08:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you look alright i guess..
2007-12-03 08:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋