Should I feel offended by girls leaving flirtatious comments on my boyfriend's Facebook page?

Question

I've seen comments where other girls called him, sugar, babe, sweetie, etc...they throw themselves all over him.

When I told him that I don't like some of the comments that are left by these girls at his school, he responded by saying that he can't control what others write on his page.

Am I overreacting, or you any of you feel that this is a legitimate reason to be upset?....It really makes me uncomfortable and I don't like it at all, but at the same time, I hope I'm not just being paranoid.

(He is 21 and I am 20)

And in case any of you were wondering, we are not in a long distance relationship, and we've been together for about 2 years.

Answer 1

The other girls, out of jealousy or just plain mischief, are probably just winding you up. Just relax and laugh at them. You've got what they want, careful you don't throw it away.

Answer 2

Yea, I think you had a reason to be upset. He can do something about it. He can delete these comments or
spend these girls a private message saying, that he is in a relationship and to respect him and not to send him flirtatious comments. I know I would be upset if I saw those comments on my boyfriend's page.

Answer 3

No worries hun. He is with you, isn't he? The other girls are just jealous that they're not. ;)

Of course, if he starts spending a lot of time at "work" then you have a reason to be paranoid. In the meantime, don't worry.

Answer 4

Jealousy is one of the most pointless emotions in the world.
You should be proud and flattered that you have a man who others desire! :-)
Let them say what they will, but when the day is done, he's going home with you ONLY, right?

Answer 5

ok your 20 that says it all you r too old te be jealous over internet comments