The guy I've started going out with has only ever been with fat girls (I'm not saying curvy to be polite, because they are fat, flabby arms, 3 layered stomachs etc and not particularly attractive although nice ppl i'm sure) and I'm slim and slender but i'm not sure how far he has gone with these girls or if they were just fun 'high school girlfriends' because they were friends....
So can guys be attracted to fat and slim girls?
Thanx, and I do not mean to seem rude!
2007-12-03 08:12:21 · 18 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, i don't know if it's because all the girls he knew were fat!
2007-12-03 08:18:32 · update #1
I never said i was anorexic !CRAZY-S but thanks for your answer, made me LAUGH!
2007-12-03 08:28:32 · update #2
You are probably the first skinny girl he could get.
2007-12-03 08:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Fred S - AM Cappo Di Tutti Capi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For the mainpart, guys like slim girls more, but it's been shown that almost70% of guys secretley have a fetish for fat or chubby girls at some point. Guys just like to be seen with slim girls because it makes them look good, the truth hurts but thats it.
2016-04-07 06:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m not a small guy im big and a little chubby but I really dont like girls on 1 extreme or the other.I don t like really skinny girls (paris hilton)that have less curves than a twelve year old dude .On the other hand I don t wana a girl how is heavier looking than me.But thats just me . Every guy is different .U should not worry because he is already going out with u.
2007-12-03 08:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by twisted.1_666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I have to say I'm attracted to the person, not the body. As a consequence, my partners have been a mix of shapes and sizes. Obviously, some men (and women) are drawn to certain "types", physical or personality, but if your boyfriend has a history of dating girls differently proportioned to yourself, and is happy with you as you are, then he's probably interested in your personality more then your looks
2007-12-03 08:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like the fat some find it disgusting. He may of had low standards in high school and now he bagged a hottie.
2007-12-03 08:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may be one of those rare guys who looks for personality over looks. The ones that look inside and not on the outside.
A real shortage of people like that these days, so I wouldn't be too concerned about it.
Even though i'm not a guy, I live with plenty.
2007-12-03 08:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by pepsi_chugger8899 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have more than just 1 type of girl they like. That's all I can say really.
2007-12-03 08:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd rather take a fat girl than A deathly slim girl anyday.
2007-12-03 08:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by A friendly Jihad 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the guy.
I'm of average size.
not too big...not too small.
but if I had to choose, I'd rather be full figured than be skinny.
my best friend is full figured and she loves her body.
she's confident within herself because she has to deal with people like you acting like she can't be attractive because she doesn't look like a skeleton with skin.
skinny (I'm not saying petite to be polite, because they are skinny. you can see their green and purple veigns through they're ghost white skin and their bones pop out all over the place) is not an attractive body type to me.
no hips.
no chest.
a long back (no a s s)
having curves makes me feel more like a woman.
skinny girls make me think of 1st grade when we were all in size 00.
believe it or not, not everyone is as ignorant as you are.
not everything is about looks.
personality plays a huge factor in your relationship.
not everything is in black and white.
some guys will like skinny girls with no chest, no a s s, no hips, rib cage poking out.
and some will like more full figured women who fill out their clothes.
It depends on the person.
2007-12-03 08:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
no contest slim is best he prob couldn`t get a girl like you before and settled for fat
2007-12-03 08:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋