Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

Sorry, So I like this girl at work, and I'm trying to figure out whether or not she likes me, I don't usually have any problems asking anyone out but it is because she works with me and it might be awkward if she says no etc..

anyway we were talking the other day and I said "What are you getting your boyfriend for Christmas?" then she said "I don't have one, I only seem to attract losers"...she also was talking about being alone in a jokey kind of way too, then later she asked me if I had a girlfriend or not to which I replied no...are these sure fire signals she is interested, or was she just making conversation?

Well more stuff to add, didn't really get a chance to ask today, but she came up and asked me if I was going to the Christmas Dinner, I said "I'll go if you go" hoping to make my intentions clear, and she was like "yea I'll go if you go too"...so basically I'm still confused she could be just being friendly or she could be interested I just don't know...but we'll see...

2007-12-03 08:59:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do to let me know that i can/cant trust a cleaning lady in my house

2007-12-03 08:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Samuel B 1 in Singles & Dating

Guy1
5.8 tall, brown hair eyes, good humor, 71 IQ, average job, polite.. (this is me!)

Guy2
6.2 tall, brown hair eyes, serious personality, 140 IQ (maybe..), good job, arrogant.. (this is not me! lol)

2007-12-03 08:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel R 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like my friend, Jake and I don't know if he likes me or he just wants something out of me.
He keeps asking if he can have a kiss, I get the bus home on certain days and most of the time I see him and everytime before I leave he asks for a kiss but I haven't been able to because I haven't had enough time to kiss him, I really want to kiss him I just never have enough time to do it.
The first time he said it I was sitting in the bus stop, he saw me, ran over, gave me a big hug then said lick and licked my neck, we had our forheads together and we were both smiling but then my friend told me my bus was coming so I went over and he said "do I get a kiss?" but I didn't answer because I couldn't believe it.
So should I risk it and ask him out or just wait?

2007-12-03 08:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2 in Singles & Dating

Apparently in the USA (maybe elsewhere too) there are agencies who you pay to send a hot girl into a bar where your husband drinks and hit on him - and check to see if he responds to them or says "no thanks, I'm married".

Would you consider using one of these agency decoy girls? Maybe you have used one to test him... what happened?

2007-12-03 08:55:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your in love with someone, does age matter? Like at all? And does hieght matter? Like if your really tall but the guy is really short, should that afect the way u feel about each other?

2007-12-03 08:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by srk fan 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 08:52:12 · 15 answers · asked by S H 1 in Weddings

im not planning on getting married anytime soon, but i wanna know what song choices there are. my sis all ready chose because you loved me by celine dion and i'm not sure yet of the song i want...

2007-12-03 08:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Or do I have to stick with just mine and my fiance's names?

2007-12-03 08:48:53 · 9 answers · asked by Ellie 2 in Weddings

He told me he likes me so why does he ignore me?
He told me he liked me, and he mentioned we should be more "open with each other" but when he sees me in person he goes blank i can tell he gets nervous and he he just stands there and talks to his other friends or listens to his iPod. When I walk in he stares at me and goes totally blank and he looks sad and depressed towards the end of the night. He's a shy guy and he even admitted it to me. I'm always the one that has to go up to him to talk, or IM him. I always make the move and i'm sick of it. Cause when i have to do everything i feel he is uninterested in me and i really want to prove to him that im inlove with him but HE is the one that needs to prove that to me, but i feel bad for him but it's all his fault. Whats his problem, should i still wait around seeing what he'll do, or should i make a bold move and on christmas give him a letter telling him how i feel and i want to be more then friends (which he told me when he liked me)

2007-12-03 08:48:14 · 2 answers · asked by K 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with a guy 2 years older then me for a year. Lately, I'm getting the idea that he likes me.
Yesterday when I was talking online with him, he said he had to go because his computer had a timer, so it would shut off in a few minutes. Then he said he will miss me. I just said, "what?" and then he said "nvm" and then said"lack of sleep+headache" -___-;;

Today, he asked me to fly kites with him. It's windy where I am. Then I told him my lil sis was with me, so I would have to bring her. He made this face -.-

He's usually first one to start a conversation when im online. I think one time, he hinted that he wanted me to go see a movie with him..

Problem is, I don't like him like that. I'm not attracted to him AT ALL. Cool guy, but not for me. How do I let him down easy? I don't want to talk to him about it though..I might be wrong. But what can I do "keep it in the friend zone"?? Thank u!

2007-12-03 08:43:39 · 1 answers · asked by Nina is here! :D 4 in Singles & Dating

like in school or somethin?

2007-12-03 08:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by Lina chan 3 in Friends

When we have sex these days I always feel that he is faking it. He does it like it is his duty. There is no passion, no sparks.

He is a big fan of internet porn and was a keen customer of strip clubs. He always wanted to see me in sexy lingerie to get turned on. Now even that is not enough to light a real fire. Is he bored with me?

I don't think other men find me dull as I can easily turn a few heads if I wished to. So why is my husband getting disinterested? What can I do to spark his interest? Please help!

2007-12-03 08:41:56 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-03 08:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffany2570 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean in bed.

2007-12-03 08:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got atoss for 2 weeks and i cant see her so the olny way is to write to her on myspace.what sdo i say that would want her to give it to me?

2007-12-03 08:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually enjoy Star Wars or Star Trek?

Or is this just some strange fantasy of mine?

2007-12-03 08:38:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 08:38:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know what to do. him and i have been together for 8 months now. i am i high school and he is in grade 8 i hardly am able to see him{other when i walk 15min to his school to see him for like 5 min} then and he never calls me and next year we will only be able to see each other on weekends and we probably wont be able to do that either cause of home work. Some of my friends think i should dump him. and when ever I am around him i dont feel that spark i used to. but im not quite sure what to i mean i still love him but we are drifting away,,, should i dump him? should we take a break? should we stay togeather?? HELP!

2007-12-03 08:38:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 (18 june 2nd) and me and this 15 yr old girl(16 june 30th) are talking...i just dont wana get into trouble. will i need too talk too her parents at 18 or soemthin? what do i need to do

2007-12-03 08:37:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend wants to know what her and this guy she's talking to can do tonight. Its their first time actually being alone together, but there's only so much to do. Its FREEZING cold outside, and they have ruled out movies or dinner... Any suggestions?!

2007-12-03 08:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by Lana♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 35 divorced and am trying to end an 8 year relationship but I dont know how. Even though I know somethings not right for me I cant find it in my heart to stay mad long enough to make a point so i accept the pain & try to make the best out of the worst situations. friends say its my self estm or I just dont want to be alone & Im having a hard time with that. I stand 4"11 and Im overweight but I feel that I am beautiful and yes my size bothers me alot but because of my shape I still feel like I can be sexy. i dont feel like noone else would be intrested in me or that I love the abuse I think that mentally something is wrong. I am a very loving person but being me has only caused me pain. my mother was married 3 times and each divorce left me without a father.evry relationshp i been in I find it so hard to let go. dont remember much of my childhood and I wonder if this is what is holding me back. i was told my mom was abused but i dont remember & i cant ask her she died 5 yrs ago.

2007-12-03 08:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by 2 real 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy dated 4 years ago in highschool.. he was my first luv and i broke up with him, he moved on and tried talking to me again but i didnt want nothing to do with him. he always tried talking to me by doing stupid things. finally he got my new cell phone # day of grad off my friend. since then he's called me once a month to see how i was doing always asked if i had a new bf. he had a gf at the time. anyways 4 years later we started talking again and he wanted me back, it didnt last. then he texts me saying he needs me in his life, that he'll always care for me till the day i get old. we hardly talk tho, i have done nothing for him to luv me at all. i never say i luv him back whenever he says he luvs me.

2007-12-03 08:36:04 · 5 answers · asked by vane.ssa15 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in a small town, and a guy told me that he liked girls with their hair down than pulled back. I was just wondering if it was for everyone or just this person.

2007-12-03 08:34:56 · 37 answers · asked by geek 2 in Singles & Dating

I told this guy I have been seeing for a while (and known for about 5 years nows) that I am interested in him. He tells me he has a girlfriend now and is madly in love with her.

He tells me there is nothing wrong with me and loves being my friend. I get mad that he didn't let know he was already atteached (that would have been the decent thing to do...) and knows fully well that I liked him. Then he tells me he is sorry and didn't know I was interested since I didn't say anything (even though I told him I wanted to be more than friends). He then tells me for now he is with someone and he likes hanging with me as friends.

NOW, I would think that since he is "madly in love" with this girl he wouldn't be telling me that "for now" he is with someone.

Whats this guys deal? Did he get tired of trying to get in my pants? There were LOADS of times where he wanted me to stay over at his house (yes we are of age), but I refused.

2007-12-03 08:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Singles & Dating

lets say you date a guy who is totaly straight.

but he likes to look realy good all the time. lets say he uses does the following:

1)uses hair products

2)trims very shortly if not completely shaves "down there

3)uses exfoliating lotion for his skin

4)makes sure his face is clear from any blemmishes

5)is very clean

6)works out alot

7)keeps his skin tan

8)makes sure his teeth are white and his nails are clipped ALWAYS

9)makes sure his clothes are trendy/preppy/clubbish looking

or is this too metro? BTW this isnt me, im just asking and curious

2007-12-03 08:32:14 · 15 answers · asked by Ben D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend I hang out with every Friday... like clockwork... for the past 3.5 years.

She recently got engaged, and although I didn't expect to be her Maid of Honor, I did sort of expect to be asked to be a bridesmaid. But she didn't ask.

Even weirder is that I know she confides in me things that the Maid of Honor doesn't know about her relationship with her husband to be.

Then a week later she then rudely requested a very specific and fairly expensive gift for Christmas-- telling me she had gotten me something for Christmas at the outlets.

I'm sort of wondering, should I tell her that I'm just disappointed or should I just try to ignore the controlling behavior she's exhibiting?

2007-12-03 08:32:07 · 42 answers · asked by Petunia 2 in Weddings

i do alright if they start a conversation and get it going. i can usually be funny or whatever and be engaging. how do i start one out of the blue just because i feel like talking to them? if they say hi, how do i lead then into a conversation? what are some fun things to talk about? the one i use most often is talking about some class we have together, but talking about how much work i have gets boring and it feels dorky.

2007-12-03 08:32:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, how did you do it? Did you buy him a ring (wedding or engagement ring)? How did he respond?

Thanks!

2007-12-03 08:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Mine is filet mignon, lobster tail, & dark chocolate truffle w/ganache, because every moment with him is like a first class main course with a little bit o' dessert afterwards! RAWRRRR!

LOL

How about you?

2007-12-03 08:31:26 · 36 answers · asked by Dr. G™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce