If your in love with someone, does age matter? Like at all? And does hieght matter? Like if your really tall but the guy is really short, should that afect the way u feel about each other?
2007-12-03 08:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by srk fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two questions there.
Age doesn't matter but maturity does.
Height shouldn't matter but unfortunately, for some it does.
2007-12-03 10:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by lamplight123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age: In theory, even if you are talking someone that's 60 and someone that's 20, age itself doesn't matter. However, there are side issues that go with age: First, while age itself can be "just a number," it does often represent where people are in their life. As such, someone that is 40, and established in the workplace and moving forward may have great mutual attraction with someone that is 20, but they are in the midst of college and in a life sense, have very little in common... as life moves on, age probably plays a less important role. This also leads to the possible differences in maturity and the position of power between the two involved in the relationship.
Secondly, there is the social aspect of how you and a partner would be viewed if there is a vast age difference, which can place certain stresses on a relationship. Maybe it won't matter... but it is a notable difference, and one that will probably arise in other matters. Two people may be able to handle all of this with ease, while it would be an insurmountable issue for another two.
Height: Well, there are some intimate activities that might result in a neck strain given enough of a difference here... but many would say that one is well worth the risk! Otherwise it is a matter of the two people being comfortable with themselves and how others will see them. If this doesn't bother either person, then it doesn't matter at all (but if it does bother you, then it will be a problem).
2007-12-03 09:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Paul S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no, height should not affect how much you love someone. But it will get in the way because most times the guy is taller, so it is a little weird.
As for age.
I really don't care what anyone says.
AGE DOES MATTER.
But it depends o the situation....
Like..... A couple.
The woman is 25 and the man is 30-40...
It might be a little weird. But its fine. There both adults.
But when a 20 year [or older] old man and a 13-16, even 18 year old girl are together its just wrong.
All laws aside.
2007-12-03 09:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Liver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To me, age does matter. Say within 10 years apart at most. What else can you talk about?? have in common when the age difference is so big??
2007-12-03 08:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no age and height does not mean much at all excepted when your under age then it means someone could be in trouble!
most often if your within 2 years of each other then no one would charge them but then again if one is of legal age and one is not then they will do something then.
good luck
2007-12-03 13:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like older guys so age doesn't matter to me. In fact if you love someone why should anything else matter???
2007-12-03 09:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no age and height dont matter unless ur 16 and hes older cuz then thats illegal and u should wait a yr til its legal but other than that nope.
2007-12-03 09:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by April M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No of course not. love have no age. I love a guy whose younger than me so no age does not matter. absolutely not
2007-12-03 09:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unless you are 10 and he is 45, not really.
2007-12-03 09:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO
2007-12-03 08:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by twisted.1_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋