I dont know what to do. him and i have been together for 8 months now. i am i high school and he is in grade 8 i hardly am able to see him{other when i walk 15min to his school to see him for like 5 min} then and he never calls me and next year we will only be able to see each other on weekends and we probably wont be able to do that either cause of home work. Some of my friends think i should dump him. and when ever I am around him i dont feel that spark i used to. but im not quite sure what to i mean i still love him but we are drifting away,,, should i dump him? should we take a break? should we stay togeather?? HELP!
2007-12-03 08:38:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can remain friends with him, and you are both happy with this arrangement, why do you feel the need to dump him. Better to eventually part on amicable terms.
2007-12-03 08:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take a break and see how you both feel now. if he never calls you, then that's not a good sign. find out why he doesn't call you. if you both still love each other, then you should stay together. although, if you can never see each other, then i don't see how it's gonna work. if it was meant to be, then you two will be together.
i'm in 9th grade right now and i remember being in 8th grade last year. the guys weren't really into having long-term relationships. they just dated for a couple of months (at the most) and then broke up and moved on. i'm not saying that this is what he's doing with you, but i'm just saying that i think you should probably date someone your own age or just someone at your school. it would be much easier on the both of you to be with people that you can see often.
2007-12-03 08:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by dolphincutie7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have no other choice but to break up. You never see him and he never calls you. I think you should find someone who can pay you the attention you deserve. He is not even going to your high school. I think you think you love him because he has been your "boyfriend" for 8 months but you never even see him. You can break up with him and have no contact and see if he makes more effort to see you. But you are so young and I think you are better off moving on. You can still be his friend. You never see him anyways so if you talk on the phone, nothing will change.
2007-12-03 08:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kay listen close kid.
I'm in grade 8 too.
I have the exact same problem as you.
Believe it or not, your using your boyfriend as a simbol to show that a grade 9'er can have a long term relationship.
Look at you, your so expirienced, ect.
What am I doing? I'm stuck.
But what SHOULD I be doing?
Telling him exactly how you feel, see what he feels.
When you can see both sides of the story, think's can flip.
If only I had enough courage to do that.
2007-12-03 08:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lorncat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg honey you are in high school
what are you like a freshman or something?
listen im sorry but girls get to worked up with dating
if you dont feel that spark(which you shouldnt be feeling anyway) dump him and find somebody older because those kindof relationships never work
i had a friend who tried it once and he never talked to her...he just wanted the satisfaction of having an older girlfriend and he was sleeping with the entire group of 8th grade girls at the time...honey i appoligize for sounding so mean but im 18 and ive seen alot with dating guys
take my advice on this one
LOVEE LOVEE SOOOO STUPIDD
Aubrey
2007-12-03 08:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, i say dump. find someone who you can see at least on the weekends someone who will take you to a movie at least. or hang out at your place or his place. dont hang on to somethin that seems like it isnt working. you never see him and he doesnt call.... sad. he should at least call. let him go and move on to a cutie who will at least call. lol. listen to your friends they usually are right. they can see the situation from a point of view that you cant. if you still arent sure do a tally good things about him vs bad things. and if bad has more then definately DUMP.
2007-12-03 08:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump
2007-12-03 08:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by mystical_dancer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if he really cared about you so much, he'd try to spend more time with you. Ask to go to the movies, or something? But apparently, he isn't doing that.
I know 8th grade guys, being in 8th grade myself, and they're pretty lame.
Find someone older, more mature.
High school guys ;)
2007-12-03 08:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then if you dont feel sparks then its time to move on youre still younger then are more fish out in the sea have fun with life dont let any guy weigh yhou down stay focused in school
2007-12-03 08:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade!!?!
gosh of course you two are going to have trouble seeing each other his in middle school still. don't rush in to a relationship that young when you can't even drive yet or be allowed to be by yourself with a guy!
i think you should break up with him, if he is not going out of his way to see you.
2007-12-03 08:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by αмαи∂α 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋