Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

Open up to me sexually, i ask her what she likes etc but she will not say anything. She is very shy and get embarrassed about the subject. Just courious ladies do you have sexual fantansies i think most women do my wife says she doesnt but think she is to shy to say. We have been togeather for six years woudl think one day she will open up to me... any help would be appreciated to get her to open up to me.

2007-12-03 03:24:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a room mate and his a nice, quiet guy. My boyfriend grew up with him since they were little. He bought two guns one for himself and one for my boyfriend and they put it under my guys name. We learned that he had been to a mental hospital for a while..we arent sure how long..because he told his mom that he thought he was a reincarnation of ted Bundy (serial killer). My boyfriend asked him about it but he was half asleep and when he asked why he had gone in told him he didnt remember...
hes a nice guy and all but i cant help but to be a scared if he actually thought something crazy like that...should i urge my boyfriend to make him leave?

2007-12-03 03:23:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WOMEN. What do you prefer swallowing your significant others expression of joy, spiting it out or letting it fall on a particular part of your body. Ladies with freaky answers email me lol.

2007-12-03 03:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All the girls that i go along well are married. They are so caring, graceful and everything that i look for. i'll soon file for divorce and start scouting for a nice lady (i know i must shed my emotional baggage before starting a new relationship)

The singles that i find seem to be less mature in their behaviour.

Is there any nice lady left for me?

2007-12-03 03:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by protege 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for the 8 months. It's gotten very serious. We live together and have been ring shopping. The problem is he has started to develop some habits that I can't live with.
In the past 5 months our sex life has nearly died. He has been depressed since taking a major pay cut (about $2000 per mo). Since then he has gained a lot of weight (he was a bodybuilder when we first started dating). When I have tried to get him "in the mood" he just says that he doesn't want to because he is depressed and doesn't like the way he looks anymore.
Well, having a boyfriend that won't have sex with me has affected my self esteem. Now on top of all of this he has started making fun of my weight (I'm not fat by any means, I wear a size 6 in misses), commenting about girls on tv and how good they look, and he has even started joking about wanting a threesome. All of this he says as a joke, but it still hurts my feelings and yet he still does it...

2007-12-03 03:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Imbue 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a guy for a little over 3 months, I have totally fallen for him despite trying my best not to! And I know in reality he feels the same, but won't admit it.

Well ended up last week with me saying I am happy to not call us gf/bf, see him a lot or involve my self in his life but I do want it to be just me and him.

And he doesn't like this idea, doesn't want to loose the possibility of seeing anyone else. Am going to see him sometime later this week and will stand strong.

I don't want to loose him but I know from the way I feel if it doesn't become exclusive he's not giving me what I want, or what I want to give to the potential of 'us', so as much as it hurts walking away is how it must be.

What do you think on exclusivity/vs multiple dating?

2007-12-03 03:17:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago. About 2 weeks ago he contacted me out of the blue. He was really really mad at me when we broke up so I totally was not expecting him to ever talk to me again. Now he says he misses me and is acting like he wants me back, but i'm nervous that he only wants me back for sexual reasons. I don't feel like getting hurt yet again so what do I do? Does he really still have feelings for me or what?

2007-12-03 03:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Singles & Dating

It's really safe where I live, and I want to stay out later. My parents wait up for me to get home. How do I just let them have more trust in me and let me stay out longer?

2007-12-03 03:15:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what drives her/him crazier?

Is it the ignoring or the arguing or something else?!

2007-12-03 03:14:06 · 20 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend to death and we’ve been together for a while and have already had sex, but I want to stop. The thing is, when we’re around each other, it’s like two magnets, it’s inevitable do it. I’m seeing him tomorrow and I need some help. What are some ways I can control the situation, besides not being alone When Most of the time it’s me who initiates it.

2007-12-03 03:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were gone. i went to the back my bank account was wiped out i was left penliess. i could not track her down or the kids. the next day i got fired form my job as things could not get worse. i was forced to sell the house and move to an apartment. why would she do this to me i am still looking uts been 3 months?

2007-12-03 03:09:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wife is 46 I am 71 married for 25 yrs no longer able to sexually satisfy her. I asked her if another man would make her happy sex wise. At first she got very angry and after a few days told me if it was ok with me it would be fine with her. I do NOT want to watch just to make her happy. She has NOT had an orgasm for many yrs. Do u think I should do this I know she loves me I have a friend that I spoke to he is married and in her age group. We have NOT decided yet on this but was wondering ig anybody else was faced with this problem I am on high medication and no longer can help her thanks

2007-12-03 03:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 03:08:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got married. My husbands parents are strict Catholic and my parents are strict Non-denominational....yes so our wedding was interesting. It’s been two months since we were married. My parents have done a great job at letting us be our own couple and mind their business...his parents not so much.
We decided as a couple that we would try different churches to find what WE like...not just what our parents like. So we have visited Catholic churches as well as non.

I was cleaning my house the other day and found a note from his mom that was complaining about how we never go to mass as she layered the guilt on by saying how she paid for 12 years of Catholic school and how disappointed they were in him. This of course made my furious. I know that we will have ongoing battles for when our first child is born and if we do or don’t get him christened/confirmed/catholic schools ect. What is the nicest way for us to tell her that whatever we deicide is our business?
I AM NOT looking for people to argue with me about Catholic vs. Non and so on. All I want to know is the best way to tell them to mind their own business so we don’t have future arguments about things?

2007-12-03 03:06:57 · 9 answers · asked by MadKat 4 in Family

2007-12-03 03:06:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My male best friend has been skipping school and I dont know how to convince him to stop, He is a scorpio, he's 15 ysrs old, He has divorced parents, and his step father is a drunk, his best frind isn't helping, he's skipping with him, and he also has his own problems, They claim that they dont want to deal with all the bull sh*t that goes on in school, I keep trying to tell them that they are making their life worst by not going to class, someone please help me out I dont want to be the only one to graduate from my friends alone and I love them way to much for them to ruin their lifes so easy.

2007-12-03 03:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Thick~Chick 2 in Friends

My wife quit her job to go back to her home country (in the far east) for a 4 months this year.
She has lived in UK with me 6 years, we go back to her country regularly because I know she misses the place.
We had her parents over here for six months last year, and I feel I have been supportive. One day may even live in her country.

However when she decided to up and go I was left with all the bills. I am not paid a lot so went overdrawn to pay the bills
while she was away.

She got a verbal job offer, which has now been withdrawn, so while I was hoping she would get back to work
and help me keep the roof over our heads, this is now not happening. She is annoyed at the job being pulled
but even more annoyed at me because I am not being supportive enough.

She gave me no choice but to support her when she went back to her home country and quit her job,
saying at the time 'you can't stop me, you can't tell me what I can an can't do.'

2007-12-03 03:02:05 · 26 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing fancy - say freesias, hyacinths, tulips and some greenery. Tied up with natural raffia, not ribbon.

Have been quoted £65 and I admit I was astonished. Am I just being naive?

2007-12-03 02:54:08 · 6 answers · asked by Vic M 2 in Weddings

Here is my dilema

My girlfriend is 21 years old and she is very upset she has not got her period yet. We did not have sex the entire month of November and she states she did not cheat on me with anyone else. Her period is very irregular usually she gets it at the end of the month going into the next. The date she usually gets it is the 29th of each month. Well today is December 3rd and she did not get her period in November on the 29th. Its been 4 days and she has been stressing out like crazy someone help me.

She does not have any signs or symptoms of pregnancy at all or her period. She does not have and food hunger urges, no sore breasts, no headaches, no nausea or vomiting, nothing really out of the ordinary at all. She has not had any weight loss or gain.

2007-12-03 02:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by Enigma 2 in Singles & Dating

My Father in law is pertty much Mr. Grinch, hates everything, is negative about eveything. He is retired, He gets up Watches tv in the same spot all day long, then goes to bed....Every day! What do I get him for christmas, My husband ( grinch's son) dosnt know either. The man dosnt do nothing but watch TV. We got him a weather center and Western movies last year. We are at a lost this year. We got him two shirts so far..but still those are hard to come by cuase he's 3x. Any suggestions on what to buy the grinch?

2007-12-03 02:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

even though weve only been together 6months weve become close and quiet serious but iam a bit worried that he is going on holiday for a week with boys much younger than him and none of them have girlfriends which means theyll be playing around. Do i have anything to worry about,i dont want to stop him from going i wana trust him but isit actually possible for a MAN to stay faithfull in this situation? MEN LET ME HEAR YOUR HONEST OPINIONS PLS

2007-12-03 02:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she see me,but doesnot talk.

2007-12-03 02:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by smona99 1 in Friends

2007-12-03 02:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by lconquers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would a guy prefer for his birthday?? I know he loves chocolate but what do you think guys would prefer

2007-12-03 02:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Binky :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to be with him so badly. I text him every once in awhile or online but he always tells me that we'll hang out again and that I deserve better than him and hat he did to me. I want to be with him and I dont care what I havee to do in order to be with him. I dont care what I have to give up. How do I get him to notice me the way i want him to.? I want to invite him over tonight to hang out and talk when my parents are out of the house. I know what I want to do and I know that he probably would go for it. Some people think that hes a player but hes not. Hes a great loving guy. I'm scared about tonight. But I want to lose it to him. How do I make him realize that I love him and that I want it to be romantic without sounding weird and freakin him out?

2007-12-03 02:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it better for us guys to say, "wanna join me for a cup of coffee" (to break the ice), or is better to just say "I would like to go on a date with you"

How would you like to be asked out?

2007-12-03 02:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend had our first fight about him not wanting to deal with my ex and his friends wanting to beat his *** so he wasnt sure if he wanted to be with me anymore. We have only been dating for a few weeks but i really like him and it hurt me pretty bad. Then he told me that he didnt mean that and he was in love with me. I already have told him i am not ready to tell him i love him so what can i do to prevent more fights about this?

2007-12-03 02:41:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-03 02:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 34 years old, married and have 2 kids. Though im 34 i still like music specially maroon 5 and One republic. I always make a joke that the lead singer in maroon 5 (Adam L.) and the lead singer in one republic (Ryan D.) are my so called "bf" (in my dreams coz i know it will not happened) and its only a joke. Maroon 5 is going to have a concert in Copenhagen and the ticket was sold out, so i tell my hubby that i sign in in waiting list that maybe i have a chance to see the concert anyway. Problem is hubby was angry with me. He told me to behave as an adult, and telling me that buying thier cd is enough. He was really dissapointed and I told him that I want to experience and see this guys while im in my 34 years old. I keep on arguing with him that music cd is not the same as the experience your having at in the concert. I dont want to see maroon 5 when I reach the age of 60 or more.
So my question is? Am I really behaving unppropriate according to hubby? Do I need to change my self?

2007-12-03 02:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by Mabel 2 in Singles & Dating

We were together for almost 5 years, married for almost 3, separated for only 3 days, and I've found out that he's asked someone out on a date today.

I feel so cheap, so used, as though I meant nothing.

Am I being stupid for thinking/feeling like this? Can anyone help me?

2007-12-03 02:39:23 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce