Wife is 46 I am 71 married for 25 yrs no longer able to sexually satisfy her. I asked her if another man would make her happy sex wise. At first she got very angry and after a few days told me if it was ok with me it would be fine with her. I do NOT want to watch just to make her happy. She has NOT had an orgasm for many yrs. Do u think I should do this I know she loves me I have a friend that I spoke to he is married and in her age group. We have NOT decided yet on this but was wondering ig anybody else was faced with this problem I am on high medication and no longer can help her thanks
2007-12-03 03:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not a bad idea, go ahead, since you have gone old and can not satisfy your wife, therefore, arrange some thing for the sexual satisfaction of your wife. Talk to some friend, who is willing to lay your wife.
You must accept the reality, that she is also to be sexually satisfied.
OK. best of luck.
2007-12-03 03:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree that older women can't marry younger men. We do. I have and we are very happy, even after 15 years of marriage. I have to admit that I was worried when we first hooked up because the thought of me looking and acting older scared me. I didn't want to be confused for his mom. But it's never happened. People tell me I look the same age at him. It's work but he keeps me busy and active.
2016-05-27 23:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by mina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say inviting another person into the marriage is NEVER a good idea under ANY circumstances. There's much more to life and marriage than orgasm!
2007-12-03 03:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I'd love to put my two cents in. I feel it would only damage your relationship. This is something your going to have to figure out for your self. Something you and your wife will have to compromise on. There are other ways to satisfy someone, you know.
2007-12-03 03:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things cannot be undone and inviting a third party into your bedroom could damage your marriage beyond repair. Why not try using sex toys and other ways to pleasure her?
2007-12-03 03:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well umm,mmmmmmmmmm, you 2 decided this and should have known the possibility of this occuring. But if your not satisfying her then she should still not cheat especially if she really loved you.
2007-12-03 03:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by top_notch_sagittarius_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bring a friend in to please her, especially one who's married. Just let her have a girl's night out and if she gets some action, occasionally, it should satisfy her. And you have no reason for any extra feelings you may have towards your friend.
2007-12-03 03:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, Frank, but this is a situation between her and yourself. If you think she needs that satisfaction, that's your choice, if she thinks she needs it, that's her choice, if you are willing to give her the choice, let her make that choice, worry not about what opinions others may hold.
2007-12-03 03:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say i have had this problem before, so my comment may not help in the least, but here goes. I have had partners that could not give me the big O with there member, but they could with their tongue.
2007-12-03 03:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by buttacupsl2r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad idea....you can sexually satisfy your wife without having intercourse....ever hear of foreplay and toys???
2007-12-03 03:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋