I want to be with him so badly. I text him every once in awhile or online but he always tells me that we'll hang out again and that I deserve better than him and hat he did to me. I want to be with him and I dont care what I havee to do in order to be with him. I dont care what I have to give up. How do I get him to notice me the way i want him to.? I want to invite him over tonight to hang out and talk when my parents are out of the house. I know what I want to do and I know that he probably would go for it. Some people think that hes a player but hes not. Hes a great loving guy. I'm scared about tonight. But I want to lose it to him. How do I make him realize that I love him and that I want it to be romantic without sounding weird and freakin him out?
2007-12-03 02:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like you are a nice girl and he doesn't want to hurt you the way he knows he will.
forget him and find someone else.....there are plenty of guys that will do what you want him to do.
2007-12-03 02:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think part of the reason you want him real bad is because of his attitude of pushing you away. If he's a player, then its certainly working....
Let me put it this way, players know what theyre doing, they push you away and even tell you to move on but you dont because your subconscious doesnt let you. You heard he was a player so once he gets what he wants he's going to leave anyways.
I dont know him so i cant really judge him , but by your reaction it seemed that he's doing all the right things to get you to do anything you want to keep him.
Dont do anything for a week and see if he's really interested in you. If he doesnt contact you in a week, that means he didnt really care. Players dont do anything to a girl that goes away for awhile, they go out and find another girl
2007-12-03 10:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin my recommendation is: don't let Mr. Big Johnson in!
He obviously doesn't love you and your gift should only be given to somebody who does. You are so young and loving, you'll find the right one soon enough. This guy is just not that guy, he is not the ONE.
Please just wait a little longer.
2007-12-03 10:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Felix The Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over to talk or meet him some place. Tell him how you feel. IF he doesnt feel the same way you know and can have closure and move on.
If he does have feeling for you then you can move on into that direction also
2007-12-03 10:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you aren't this focused on getting him just because of the thrill of the chase? Make sure you really like him before you are willing to give things up for him.
2007-12-03 10:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
You can't make someone like you. You can only be yourself. If that's someone that they like, great. If not - you get over it, and get on with your life.
2007-12-03 10:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably freaking him out. Stop it because it is likely that you will not be with him. You can not make anyone like you.
Sorry..........
2007-12-03 10:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull your pants down and grab your ankles. its like magic hes yours
2007-12-03 10:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by rizzlejizzle16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋