All the girls that i go along well are married. They are so caring, graceful and everything that i look for. i'll soon file for divorce and start scouting for a nice lady (i know i must shed my emotional baggage before starting a new relationship)
The singles that i find seem to be less mature in their behaviour.
Is there any nice lady left for me?
2007-12-03 03:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by protege 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so right Lippie. But i can't stop someone from leaving me. i was dumped unceremoniously. while i have been separated for over a year and not divorced i was not fishing for other women. i have no intention to live my life in loneliness or just have n no. of dalliances.
2007-12-03 03:38:08 · update #1
M S again in investment parlance it is called Value Investing. Becky your answer is also great as always.
2007-12-03 04:15:26 · update #2
I have to tell you that M S has the exact right answer. So many women are over looked because they are less than "beautiful" or "pretty". I seen guys marry the ugliest women and yet be the happiest. My mother always told me to look beyond the appliance because that will always change, I tried explaning that to my lil brother one time, he came and told me about this cute little red head he met and how nice she was and what a cute little body she had. But I told him that he had to look beyond that, beyond the cute body because one day she may have a baby and that body will be cute no more so he has to look at what she's like becuse the will stay forever. He didn't listen, and when they married very shortly after meeting he found out she didn't cook, clean, or do laundry but hey, she had a tight body! She got pregnant and after the baby was born this woman must have gained fifty pounds. What I didn't know was the secret my brother kept from me, she was crazy violent. He never knew what to expect when he got home. They got a divorce after she pulled some very ugly tricks on him and three years later met another woman, not the best looking to say the least but she is my favorite sister in law and I love her to death. She treats him like gold and visa versa and they have three beautiful kids. Did you find the moral of this true story? Get divorced first and free yourself from the ties that bind and then let love find you.
2007-12-03 04:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am sure there are , u just gotta be patient and keep looking... like for us gals we always ask the opposite of ur ques "whr are all the nice guys gone" lol...
just be patient and hopefully u ll meet the right gal... s'times wat u see doesnt mean tt person is really tt nice...
i ve seen a couple of guys who whc i wld say great, fantastic gentlemen.. but then when u are with them as a couple (in a r'ship) u find wat they put on is just a show or an act (no offence guys) but there are really some ppl like tt...
So give urself some time to you know... really get to know tt person b4 going into a r'ship...find singles whc are more mature between ur age rage or mayb a little younger but not too young
tt where u find them not tt mature and prblm rises from thr..
All the Best to u
2007-12-03 15:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd hate to sound like a stock broker but "buy low and sell high"...
I would look for the kind of woman most guys overlook for dumb reasons (IE the odd pimple, odd accent, a bit bit chubby but currently working out, being short, having a kid...), yet also one who has dedication and passion who is self-reliant and looking for someone to make them stronger for their own sake not "make up for their mistakes/problems".
Many other women, even past 30 years old, are single because they've divorced out of loveless relationships looking for men who want to leave a legacy of kindness not just money or sex.
Many of them are not "substandard", they simply were gullible and fell, say, for handsome men who gave promises they couldn't keep...and now realize that the strongest men are not the ones with huge biceps hanging trophy condoms on their neighbors' doors.
Don't go out looking at bars. Join leisure learning, a sports club, or some activity group that requires dedication and discipline...or even try dating local people from local interest groups you find online.
I think you'll find it no surprise that the types of people who do art, sports...after college when it NO LONGER helps their popularity are much stronger, more mature people than the types who, say, complain about their kids or money and have smoking/tension/anger-control problems.
2007-12-03 03:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by M S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you out there looking for a nice lady, if you are already married? You probably had a nice one, but you are like so many others, you think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I hope you get what you deserve, remember I said what you deserve, not what you want.
2007-12-03 03:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a few years until they're all divorced and then hit on them. Afterall, they always pick the wrong guy the first time around. Some of them, the first two or three times around...
2007-12-03 03:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just make what your looking for abit deeper and no im not talking shallow. So heads up chin high smile look decent you'll find her.
2007-12-03 03:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by angel b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is u just have to be Patience with dat
2007-12-03 03:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you blind?
2007-12-03 19:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋