It's really safe where I live, and I want to stay out later. My parents wait up for me to get home. How do I just let them have more trust in me and let me stay out longer?
2007-12-03 03:15:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whenever you're given the opportunity, show them just how trustworthy you are.
And don't keep asking them to allow you to stay out longer.
Just show them through your words, deeds and actions, and they'll get the message eventually.
2007-12-03 03:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? what time to they make you come home? I think I would be able to help you out more if you posted the answer to the two questions I just asked. If your between the age of 12 to 15 I personaly think that 9:00 you should be gettin ghome it is dark out by then. If you between the age of 16 to 19, I think that 11:00 - 11:30 is just fine. You also have to ask if your town has a curfue or not. Like where I like the curfue for the whole town and for all ages is, 11:00 and you have to be off the streest, or you will get a ticket. Not kidding. Good Luck to you. and just remember that you parents want you to be safe, they are giving you a time to be home because your a bad child, it just means that they care about you. I hope I helped, God Bless you and your family.
2007-12-03 03:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by kandie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, trust takes time to earn, being open and honest, even with the difficult issues can help, also, if they really know who you are hanging out with it may help, another idea is to maybe have your friends come to your house after curfew, let your parents see what you are up to.
I suspect they limit you because they love and care about you, the world is a lot different than when they grew up, and as a parent it is very scary, anything you can do to reassure them that they have done a good job raising you will help you and your parents, and again communication is a big factor!
Best of luck!
2007-12-03 03:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by don c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sit down and have a planned out talk with them. Tell them why you think you deserve to - and that you have a good head on your shoulder and you feel they can trust you to stay out later. Have a time in mind that you are looking for them to approve - and take if from there. They should go along with it if you approach it like an adult. Then make sure you don't break their trust!!
2007-12-03 03:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by wfhlembo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you choose some starting to be as much as do. you only stated on the top you may positioned on despite you choose, stay wide awake as late as you choose and visit events... why are you 13 and going to events?! i could be only as strict as your father and mom if I had you as a baby. you do no longer understand the way loopy people would be! particularly once you look older and greater mature than your truthfully age. Rapes do take place hunny! it extremely is a frightening factor even though it is stable you have father and mom which will do something to be there for you. you're purely 13. as quickly as you turn 18 you're able to do what you choose legally. only take it slow and hear and admire your father and mom. only answer your telephone and shop it charger and be well mannered with them... it is not that complicated to talk on your father and mom over the telephone so do no longer ***** over that! & being out late isn't very stable... you're able to do this a lot cases on your existence. As you get older and you obey their regulations possibly they can assist've greater freedom. do no longer argue with them over this!
2016-11-13 09:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them with you some Saturday night and show them what you typically do during the evening. Now, don't hide anything! You might be surprised how much fun you and they have and it may lead to an extended curfew.
2007-12-03 03:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not safe anywhere...and if you are living in there home you live by there rules. i dont think kids fully understand how hard it is for us as parents to be parents. we see on the news all the time the rape murder and abuse of children being abducted and it is constantly in our minds that it could happen to ours. you just need to live by there rules
2007-12-03 03:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Where will you be when you are "out later" on the weekends? Who will you be with? What will you be doing?
2007-12-03 03:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
and (speaking from experience) that's just a parent thing... you have to earn trust slow, and them sitting up means that they care bout you too (not just that they're worried bout you)
2007-12-03 03:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show them that you're mature enough to go hang out later and if that doesen't work you could allways just get some of you'r friends to come over and hang out at your house
2007-12-03 03:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋