Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

basically since this year has started i have changed but not good but bad let me tell you how first i was so into my work and education i was very hard working girl and didn't find doing work a big deal. But when i had a friend wedding i did alot of work there and she was asian therefore it went on for 2 weeks i did so much work didn't had enough sleep neither had enough food. but although me doing the most work as takling care of the visitors and cleaning the house i used to feel it everyday that no one wants me to be their as they thought i am a servant.then when it all finished i started to feel really weak then finally found out that i am diagnosed with aneamic. it hurted. the other thing is that i had a arranged marriage proposal and i agreed and got engaged but then afterwords i felt so bad as i have agreed to life time prison. But all this changed my own personality. Now i don't wanna meet people neithr want to study i just bunk and neither study i do get stress out when i don'

2007-12-03 06:01:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl has a great personality and she's coonfident about herself.... what would be worse?
if she had a pretty face and and not-so-attractive eyes? or a girl with a pretty face and not-so-attractive lips? or a girl with a pretty face and a not-so-attractive nose? ect...
be honest! please no answers like "well it wouldnt matter if their personality is great" because i know that, im just curious as to what peoople think :)
thanks!!!

2007-12-03 05:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by jaci 3 in Singles & Dating

" I seem to have forgotton where i live , how will i find my way back"

2007-12-03 05:53:58 · 11 answers · asked by El Diablo King Of Kings 3 in Singles & Dating

feel free to asnwer away......

2007-12-03 05:53:18 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

steps please. :D

thanks.

2007-12-03 05:50:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does the fact that shes aging affect how attracted to her you are or kill the desire to have sex with her? Im not saying she has to be 50 or 60 but just lets say 30's or 40's & shes not what she used to be.

2007-12-03 05:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will try and make this short. My husband was married for 9 years to his daughter's mother. We leave 4 hours away. They divorced and my husband has never been late on child support. We pay $118 dollars a week. We have made arrangements to pick up his daughter and the mom takes off and she has done this multiple times. We have tried calling but she hangs up and then we send birthday cards and letters but get no response. We go to court and the judge says we have the right to our visitation but his ex will not and she tells us in private, of course, off record, that she will do everything in her power to never let us see the little girl again. It's been 3 year since we've seen her and it's killing us. We decided that my husband will sign over the parental rights to her current husband and pray that one day his daughter will come to us because the judge will not do anything for us. We can't afford an attorney. How do we do this step of giving up our rights. We're paying for nothing now.

2007-12-03 05:46:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok my friend wants to move forward with her relationship but her man wants her to take a lie detector test before they do and she is pissed so she want to take the test to prove she been faithful then she is going to end a 7year relationship shes had with this manto teach him that trust is the reason u have a relationshiop. She called me to find out how much then cost and where to go were in okc and i had no ideal where to look so if anyone can help me so i can help her i would be greatful thank u

2007-12-03 05:43:30 · 1 answers · asked by alwaysandforever777 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it is.

2007-12-03 05:37:39 · 27 answers · asked by jackhighbluff 3 in Singles & Dating

He thinks we should be happy because we have lots of "stuff". We have a great house, big tv, all the extras that don't mean much to me at all. Is there a chance to save this marriage?

2007-12-03 05:35:35 · 44 answers · asked by Leo Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never had casual sex in my life but a few of my friends hook up with people because they don't want to be in a relationship.Can't those feelings turn into somehing else though if there not careful?

2007-12-03 05:31:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dreamt that i heard someone trying to open my front door, and well it was this guy and some girl (they were robbers), and the guy almost opened my door and I was telling my fiance to help me and he would listen until finally he came and saw what was going on, and the guy robber had a knife and im guessing he was trying to kill us, but i took it away and started stabbing him many times, but there was no blood, so my fiance started to beat up the guy and then i started hitting the girl. And then it was morning already, and well they took off in this red truck it was a f-150 license plate number(quv-wvx). But before they left i started to tell them that why do they do these things, they should just get a good job and they will be fine, and then they where like we know, and then they just left like if nothing ever happened.

What does this mean?

2007-12-03 05:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 in Singles & Dating

I have asked my wife for several years to loose weight and get implants because I am not sexually attracted to her anymore... Her physical appearance has changed so much since our marrage and I continue to work out etc... any way I had deccided to have afairs due to this.... I warned her for years this would happen and I gave her every opportunity to change... so now she wants me to stop and I think that is unfair.. How can I make her understand this is the only reason we can stay together? I love her every other way!!

2007-12-03 05:28:14 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had heated argument with my wife and I accused her of having affair with her brother-in-law because she wants to leave me, outs is 2nd marriage for both of us and she every day remembers her brother-in-law for some reason how he lives his life, what he does etc. after she leaves me she wanted to stay with he brother-in-law and her brother who has his own apartment. When I said she must be having affair with her BIL she said “NO” but right after that she also said “If she has to lie for someone’s benefit the she will not hesitate to lie” what DOES SHE MEANT BY THIS????

My wife always compares me with her brother-in-law. In the beginning I did not care but many times she will tell me even minor things like he went for his car wash today. He bought toys for his kids, because she and her sister talks every day on phone. Now eventually she cares more for her brother-in-law so much so that if she separates from me she will leave with her BIL and not with her brother who lives few miles apart. WHAT KIND OF MESSAGE IS SHE TRYING TO CONVEY ME?? WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO ASSUME????

2007-12-03 05:27:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in May of 2008. My pastor at the church I attend is the one who is going to marry us. In the application to getting married at my church it states that you must meet with the pastor 2-4 times before the ceremony for pre-marital counseling.
So my question is... for those of you who have had to do this... what goes on during this meetings with the pastor. What kind of stuff is he going to address with you. and why do you think this is mandatory?

2007-12-03 05:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by britt 4 in Weddings

ok well there is this guy and well he and i flirt alot. one time we were holding hands and we were talking about being in a relationship. then when my friend asked him about it he totally denied it all. said that it never happened. ewhat happened?

2007-12-03 05:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this english teacher at my school and i think i fancy her so for months on end i've been evil to her really evil!
hoping that the feelings i have for her will go away

i just wanted to know what you would do and will the feelings go away if im horrible to her

2007-12-03 05:24:17 · 10 answers · asked by M15 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so my father passed away a year ago on Dec. 29. My mom and dad have been apart (they were never married) since I wa 5. And my brother and I get survivor's checks for a little less than $700/month. This is supposed to be used for things like clothes for us and savig for college. But ever since then, my mom quit her job and wont get a new one. Shes using our whole checks to pay her bills and get herself what she wants. Im 16 and have a checking and savings account, so I want to save mine for college. But she keeps taking it. I keep telling her and telling her you've got to get a job. And finally 3 times Ive nagged her enough to get a job. But when she does sh quits about a week later and says they arent treating her fairly or some other sorry excuse.

I mean I dont mind and want to help out with bills, but I also need to save money and use it. What should I do. I try to talk to her, but all she does is tell me how selfish I am and that its not her fault. I really need

2007-12-03 05:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by NiCoLe i love my Chi cena! 4 in Family

This is not saying each man or situation is created equal. I'm sure there are underlying themes though. Did he make his married life seem pathetic? Did he make you believe he was eventually leaving for you? When it ended did he still try to pursue you? What are some lessons learned that you can share with others BEFORE the affair happens?

2007-12-03 05:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 21 year old (college student)newly wed (september 15)that did something really stupid without thinking.My hubby is 26 yr old a relativley good guy he's a computer programmer with a lot of potential and many people like say my entire family thinks he's the perfect guy.Our romance went real fast with emotions all over the place.I was trying to get over my first love an ex.bf at the.My aunt introduced my hubby to me at church and i jumped at the chance to see someone new.Then 8 months later we got married but 2 weeks before my wedding i had a slip up with my ex.bf before i started the pill.My hubby and i abstained for 2 months before the wedding and choose to use condoms for 4 weeks after i started the pill.I am pregnant my doctor confirmed(ultra sound) it he placed DOC at Sept.3.I feel really bad and confused ?I dont want to hurt my hubby but am no sure if or how to tell him and when?

2007-12-03 05:15:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

12 eye combat boots to be exact.
Or should I get a pair of white chuck taylor all stars for the day?

2007-12-03 05:14:23 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hey everytone,

I have a question? I have book a Wedding reception so I can get married on May 30, 2009. However, me and my fiance...more him...want to do it sooner. He thinks the wedding is just too far away. He thought of a December wedding in 2008...maybe on a Friday or Sunday before Christmas. The rates are cheaper on a Friday or Sunday and we need to save since were thinking of pushing the wedding sooner. Or we were thinking of a Valentine Wedding in 2009. What do you all think. I was thinking of a winter wedding before Christmas...but won't my wedding be overshadowed by the holiday??

2007-12-03 05:08:22 · 29 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Weddings

I need to find my bother that lives in Plano , Texas. Our step mom buried our father this summer and we were not told about it. If someone knows anyway for me to find him gfor free I would very much apperciate it.

2007-12-03 05:07:42 · 2 answers · asked by freakybitch1976 1 in Family

There are times when my husband just gets on my nerves and I want to talk back to him, but I just stay quiet. What other ways do you hold back anger and the need to lash back?

2007-12-03 05:05:41 · 26 answers · asked by ilovecats 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys only want what they can't have? And then when they can have it.. they don't want it anymore? It drives me crazy! I know its the thrill of the chase but there has to be something that makes them want a relationship rather than just "chasing" for the rest of their lives.

2007-12-03 05:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by afhopie44 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do other people hate me so much? They give me dodgy looks all the time, go quiet when i am around and leave me out, nobody really likes me, why do they hate me so much?

2007-12-03 05:03:32 · 1 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so it's 2 years tomorrow since my girlfriend and I started dating and I'm stuck between 2 choices.

I've booked theatre tickets for a show I know she wants to see, but what about dinner?

Would you prefer to be cooked a meal at home (I'm not too bad a cook, so it's not gonna be beans on toast!) then go out to the theatre, or go to a restaraunt and then the show?

2007-12-03 05:03:21 · 29 answers · asked by Al 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it wrong to wait till you are married to have sex?

2007-12-03 05:02:46 · 16 answers · asked by a_baybay_93 2 in Singles & Dating

So my ex boyrfriend just messaged me on Myspace after not seeing or hearing from him for 6 months. Is it wrong that I am with someone else, but am a bit taken back by the whole thing? We were together for two years and he just up and moved across the country. I haven't read the message yet...

2007-12-03 05:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over a month and we have started to become intimate. We havn't had sex as we are waiting for the perfect moment / opportunity (he is a virgin, I have had sex but about 6 months ago). He is amazing in bed eventhough I am his first but I can never manage to get him to come by hand job or oral sex and I feel inadequate for him. It feels like he always gives and I can't give him anything in return. I have managed to make my first few boyfriends come but not my last boyfriend or my current boyfriend. Whats wrong with me?

2007-12-03 05:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating